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fooled13years ( member #49028) posted at 3:20 PM on Monday, November 20th, 2017
She is “in like” with Aaron, she has an “infatuation” with Aaron, she has a “fantasy” in Aaron but she is not “in love” with Aaron. Love is what develops over the years as you spend time with one another, you get to see all the person’s warts and all, you struggle through the problems of life that affect us all. What you developed with her over the years is love, not what she is experiencing with Aaron.
I removed myself from infidelity and am happy again.
VinST ( member #61493) posted at 8:32 PM on Monday, November 20th, 2017
I know I am going to take some flack for this post but going to do it anyways.
Judging from your letter, the ultimatum.. and your general outlook in the way you responded to her... you sound unexciting to your wife. there is no fight in you. No passion. no fire!
Its pointless to reconcile with someone who is so blatantly selfish. Your words have no bite to her. YOu are a doormat even after you found out. its time to grow a pair and get rid of her.
Explore whats out there. There are so many beautiful self respecting women out there who would love to meet a similar man. the wounds are fresh, but hang in there! you owe it to your kids to find true happiness. Let your wife have her desires. dont be her fall back guy while she sorts out her life in the comfort of your doormat approach.
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