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it can happen to anyone. being stalked by her former AP, his wife was forced to admit she had an affair. It sounds super messy too.

So sad.

No way!!!!!!

Poor guy :(

Awful isn't it. Shows that anyone can be a BS.

I read that she had the A while they were separated. So who knows whether or not they agreed to see other people during their separation. It's a grey area even here on this site sometimes.

I hope the AP leaves them alone and they get the support they need.

ETA: Plus, apparently the AP is contesting the stalker claims. So this'll probably spark yet another debate about whether or not a person was making a false claim about harassment.

Times like these, I have to remind myself that we really don't know anything about their situation. Too many ambiguous details.

[This message edited by silverhopes at 10:09 AM, March 9th (Friday)]

Awww I adore Colin Firth.

The whole "it was while they were separated" thing could also just be a narrative the Firths created to make the situation and her actions look better than they would otherwise (i.e., if there was no separation), given that they've decided to stay together.

Who knows.

^^what I suspect

Oh sooo sad... and she’s not the looker either. What is wrong with these hos.

I fail to see how being "separated" constitutes grounds for betraying wedding vows and simple decency and self respect--particularly if the alleged separation is on the terms of the adulterer and not mutual or on the BS's terms.

I wrestle with this question with my own fWW. She says that being separated in her FOO world meant that you can just go screw anyone you feel like. But not only did she commit adultery BEFORE we were "separated" but she lied and told me that she was being faithful while we were apart. Additionally, our "separation" was her abandoning me and my care-needing grandpa without warning and to go be with her AP. The second one also was similar in nature.

How does it work where the offender and liar and betrayer gets to "feel better" about committing adultery when they just screw first, abandon their family, and then live la vida loco while sleeping soundly at night lying about working on "themselves" for a better overall marriage while they're gone? I thought she was only gonna be gone for about a week or two while staying at her mom's, and under such a notion I gave consent for her to take a "break" from being together for awhile. The entire consent (she was already QUITE gone, incidentally) was based on her committing to be faithful the whole time (which shouldn't even HAVE to be said in a marriage, really. Kind of like saying, "ok, now you're not gonna eat anyone or stab them to death with a fork while you're gone, right??" "Uh,huh, yup!, if you say so, I guess I just won't then..." I mean what the HELL is WRONG with people, anyway???

[This message edited by Cephastion at 6:27 PM, March 9th (Friday)]

Oh, BYE, Honey! I think I'll just "separate" for a lil while so I can go on a personal orgy-fest vacay while we're still man and wife. Oh but YOU don't get to do any such thing, no Sir! Partly because I wouldn't like that, and also because I know YOU'RE not into such skank-nasty lowlife morals and mindset either, so it's a win-win for ME!!

This way I'll sleep better while sleeping around, too! Win-win!!

I guess "till death do us part" just means till they make you WISH one of you were dead instead...

[This message edited by Cephastion at 6:34 PM, March 9th (Friday)]

Not Mr Darcy! Ive always enjoyed his movies, the fight scene in Bridget had me close to wetting myself. I wonder if her response is real or more to protect her standing.

Well, hope he finds his way here

I hope NOT, NTV. The ladies here are already wetting themselves just seeing him struggle FICTIONALLY. Imagine what kind of mess this place will be if the likes of that guy ever graces this place!

Every thread he'd start would just fill up with female sympathizers in no time flat. No one would be around to listen to your flatulence or my...well...whatever it is I bring to the SI potluck, I guess.

Ugh. Poor Colin. I have always loved is acting. So sad.

The AP said:

In a year she sent me hundreds of messages of love, photos and videos, even a diary.

Sounds like what many SI BS's say they found just before DDay with their WS. But, since we are all well experienced in the lies of infidelity, who knows truth in this story.

The separation story was most likely created by a publicist to soften the story. This happens all the time.

Imagine what kind of mess this place will be if the likes of that guy ever graces this place!

Every thread he'd start would just fill up with female sympathizers in no time flat.

I need in on this thread. Where is it? Where???? Wheeerrree???? He needs me!

Mr Darcy himself gets cheated on. Bloody hell. There is no hope for this race.

There is no hope for this race.

You'd be surprised how often people I met say that.