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Had my colonoscopy today not good

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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:36 PM on Wednesday, March 14th, 2018

Thinking of you this morning and sending all positive thoughts, prayers and hugs.....

((Minnesota)))

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

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Shockedmom ( member #44708) posted at 1:06 PM on Wednesday, March 14th, 2018

Thinking of you today. Sending prayers.

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EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 1:16 PM on Wednesday, March 14th, 2018

I will save the butt jokes for when this is all behind you.......

I am sorry to hear about your cancer! Sending your positive vibes for a speedy treatment and total cure!!!!!

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Tred ( member #34086) posted at 2:20 PM on Wednesday, March 14th, 2018

Damn Minnesota, sorry to hear that. Stay strong and positive mate.

Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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PlanC ( member #47500) posted at 2:41 PM on Wednesday, March 14th, 2018

I am sorry, man. You’re a good guy and don’t deserve this. But you’ll get through it.

BS 50; xWW. 4 children.
DD 1: April 2013, confessed ONS June 2012
DD 2: March 2014, confessed affair August 2012 through March 2013
DD 3: October 2015, involuntarily confessed 5 additional ONS starting August 2014 through November 2014 (manic)

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 Minnesota (original poster member #50615) posted at 4:27 PM on Wednesday, March 14th, 2018

Just got the results from the CAT scan-

It is confined to one place. (whew!) It has not metastasized to anyplace in my body. (yay!)

The Dr. said they will probably try to schedule this for soon- not because they are afraid it is going to grow/move, but because he wants to make sure it doesn't close off my intestine. (It's like a doughnut around my intestine.)

And I haven't had a doughnut yet!

Can I say thank you to everyone praying and sending mojo and happy thoughts into the universe for me. I am in awe and am humbled by this tribe that keeps looking out for our own.

We're moving forward.

Me: BS Upper 40's
Her: XWW younger 30's
Married Sept. 2010
DDay Thanksgiving 2015
Dday2- Jan28ish, 2016 -new affair
One child (Big Mister) born in 2012
Divorced Sept. 2, 2016

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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 4:29 PM on Wednesday, March 14th, 2018

Sounds like the news was as good as it could have been... I'm so glad it wasn't worse!

Keep on keeping on.

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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MadOldBat ( member #44146) posted at 6:15 PM on Wednesday, March 14th, 2018

As a fellow sufferer - this sounds like as good a diagnosis as possible under the circumstances.

Everything crossed ((Minnesota)) and much MOJO sent your way for a swift and complete recovery.

MOB

Keeping my chin(s) up whilst getting divorced.

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ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 6:32 PM on Wednesday, March 14th, 2018

Aaaawwww I'm sorry to hear about the cancer, but glad that it seems to be manageable ((((MN))))

Sending out lots of mojo and positive, healing thoughts to you. Thank goodness that you did a colonoscopy.

Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

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trying to smile ( member #9683) posted at 6:37 PM on Wednesday, March 14th, 2018

Sending love and healing energy across the miles.

tts

Good Women.
May we know them,
May we be them,
May we raise them.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

"so when he finally showed his true colours they proved to be a startling shade of turd".

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SallyShrink81 ( member #50219) posted at 6:49 PM on Wednesday, March 14th, 2018

Pineapple. That is all.

🍍 🍍 🍍🍍🍍🍍🍍🍍🍍🍍🍍

FBS now surviving and thriving
2 kiddos born 2011 & 2014
"If a woman steals your husband, she might as well steal your shoes too, because one day she'll be walking in them." #karma

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Brave30 ( member #41124) posted at 6:51 PM on Wednesday, March 14th, 2018

Sending lots of prayers and healing thoughts your way!

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:20 PM on Wednesday, March 14th, 2018

I'm so sorry to read this. Mojo and prayers on their way.

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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 Minnesota (original poster member #50615) posted at 7:27 PM on Wednesday, March 14th, 2018

Sisoon- for now, the G2G at the end of April is still on. I look forward to seeing you next month.

Me: BS Upper 40's
Her: XWW younger 30's
Married Sept. 2010
DDay Thanksgiving 2015
Dday2- Jan28ish, 2016 -new affair
One child (Big Mister) born in 2012
Divorced Sept. 2, 2016

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Kalleigh ( member #1214) posted at 10:13 PM on Wednesday, March 14th, 2018

Sending my thoughts and prayers

I love my husband and kids, but there is something missing, LIKE MAYBE A LIFE!!!!!!!

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Hawke ( member #47517) posted at 12:15 AM on Thursday, March 15th, 2018

I'm so glad that you had good news today. Go get that (pineapple-jelly-filled) doughnut already!

Me: BS (b. '75)
Him: exWS (b. '76)
D-Day: April 2015
Together 10 years
2 kids: 2011 and 2014
Separated (no divorce required for common law couple in my jurisdiction)

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WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 12:22 AM on Thursday, March 15th, 2018

Great news!

Still sending strength!

"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt

I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 12:55 AM on Thursday, March 15th, 2018

I'm glad that it seems to be one mass. And that you were SMART enough to get that exam! (((hugs)))

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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plainsong ( member #37826) posted at 6:46 PM on Thursday, March 15th, 2018

So glad to hear the good news after the bad news.Lots of positive thoughts and mojo headed your way, and hope to see you as planned or some other time - whatever is best for you.

Me, fWW
Him, fBH (sisoon)
Dday, 12/22/2010
I use capital letters for emphasis, not yelling.
Reconciled and healing.

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nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 10:58 PM on Thursday, March 15th, 2018

Sending good thoughts your way Minnesota!

Me - happy!
2 DDs

Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.

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