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hardtimesinlife ( member #10468) posted at 2:24 AM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
Sending positive vibes. So glad it's confined.
Ddays 2004 & 2007
I cut my losses mid 2013
Feeling happier every day :)
Greeneyesbluezy ( member #58158) posted at 2:31 AM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
Minn,
Sending such positive thoughts to you.
Fingers, toes and eyeballs crossed.
🙏🏻
Stop right there, I already don't give a fuck.
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 2:34 AM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
ohmygosh, Minnesota!! I'm so sorry to hear this but glad that you had the exam and incredibly happy to hear that you have a good prognosis. Still...it's scary shit. (((hugs)))
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
JpnHeartBreak ( member #54689) posted at 3:53 AM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
Keep your head up and sending positive vibes your way!
funnelcakes ( member #45249) posted at 6:26 AM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
My brother, just read this.
We love you and have your back. And Big Mister's.
You are in my prayers...but I also want you to ask for what you need from the purple peeps here. I've not been on much lately but want to stay connected to support you.
d-day in August of 2014, when I was SAHM 34 weeks pregnant with kid #3
A year of incontinent alcoholic cheater word salad and shitweasely blameshifting during R/S
I got a job and busted a move with three kids to a 1BR apt
D final 4/27/17.
homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 12:21 PM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
My Dad just celebrated age 89.
Had colon cancer in 1993. The chemo and radiation made him tired, but that was it. He stayed mentally positive.
We are so grateful he did the chemo/radiation.
Sending good thoughts your way.
Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55
GlowingLife ( member #62596) posted at 2:40 PM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
You will beat it. Welcome among the Fighting Ones!
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 6:08 PM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
Glad you got the test so now you can beat it .sending you lots of mojo!!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
squid ( member #57624) posted at 6:11 PM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
Sending positive energy your way.
BH
D-Day 2.19.17
Divorced 12.10.18
This isn’t what any of us signed up for. But it is the hand that we have been dealt. Thus, we must play it.
Minnesota (original poster member #50615) posted at 10:55 PM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
OK- My surgery is scheduled for April 2nd at 7:30am central time. The surgeon seems confident.
(don't they all?)
Sounds like a simple plumbing procedure. Take out the section with a hold, put in a coupling, glue the ends back together. Bammo.
They won't know until they get in there whether or not it's stage 1, 2, or 3. I may not need any chemo or radiation as long as it hasn't spread to the lymph nodes or through the wall of the colon.
Want to know the funny thing? I'm more afraid of throwing up than I am of the cancer. I haven't thrown up since May of 1986 and it terrifies me. Sincerely. So hoping for no chemo. :-)
Me: BS Upper 40's
Her: XWW younger 30's
Married Sept. 2010
DDay Thanksgiving 2015
Dday2- Jan28ish, 2016 -new affair
One child (Big Mister) born in 2012
Divorced Sept. 2, 2016
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 11:06 PM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
I so identify with your fear of throwing up. That's quite an impressive streak you have going.
Good luck with the surgery. Sending positive thoughts for no chemo.
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 11:29 PM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
Sending you love, hugs & Mojo!
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 12:02 AM on Saturday, March 17th, 2018
Plumbing MOJO!!!!! ((((MN))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 1:11 AM on Saturday, March 17th, 2018
((MN))
You're in my thoughts.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 1:29 AM on Saturday, March 17th, 2018
So sorry to hear this! Please do everything they tell you. You are an important guy around here!
I'm holding you in the light!
Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
marji ( member #49356) posted at 3:04 AM on Saturday, March 17th, 2018
Sending all best wishes your way; hoping no chemo needed. Please know we are with you on this journey.
BlueIris ( member #47551) posted at 4:13 PM on Saturday, March 17th, 2018
Aw man, MN, I don’t check this forum very often so I’m just now seeing this. I’m encouraged that it seems to be a ‘simple plumbing procedure’! I am sending you lots of love, hugs, positive vibes, mojo, and whatever else I can.
And yep, we got you, friend. Hang in there!
BW | Dday 2-20-2015 + TT for several weeks
"The truth will set you free but first it will piss you off."
demolishedinside ( member #47839) posted at 4:23 PM on Saturday, March 17th, 2018
Just saw this, friend, and I’m sorry you are going through this. I will be thinking of you and praying on the 2nd. Also sending no puking 🤢 vibes. Please keep checking in. One thing I know you know is that SI peeps are there. We will be waiting for updates.
Dem
BS - me/3 kids
DD - April 2015 / SA-Jan. 28, 2017
DD2- October 23, 2018
Divorced and happy
Too_Trusting ( member #99) posted at 4:45 PM on Saturday, March 17th, 2018
I also just saw this MN, and wish you nothing but smooth sailing ahead! Colon cancer is one of the most curable cancers, so I'm so glad you got the colonoscopy and it was discovered.
Sending prayers, good thoughts, and mucho MOJO for your full recovery!
"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 4:51 PM on Saturday, March 17th, 2018
Sending positive thoughts and prayers
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
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