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Butforthegrace ( member #63264) posted at 7:47 PM on Friday, August 17th, 2018
Keep us in the loop. Reestablishing intimacy can be awkward. But the trying isn't so awful, so there's that.
"The wicked man flees when no one chases."
Butforthegrace ( member #63264) posted at 12:30 AM on Tuesday, September 4th, 2018
Fender, how are things going?
"The wicked man flees when no one chases."
Butforthegrace ( member #63264) posted at 3:27 PM on Tuesday, September 11th, 2018
Wondering how things are going for Fenderguy.
"The wicked man flees when no one chases."
Aplomado ( member #44832) posted at 3:41 PM on Wednesday, September 12th, 2018
It's been a very long time since I have posted. I just wanted to point out to FenderGuy something that he said on page 2 of this thread.
You said "Then it all came back to me, and I thought “why did she have to have an A?”"
This is exactly what happened to me. My wife did everything she was supposed too, and was truly remorseful. I believe that in my core.
But after over 2 years of really trying, I still had too leave and D. Because no matter how good the times, or no matter what we were doing together, I always kept saying to myself "We were so good together, why did she have to have her A's?"
If you can't get it out of your head...keep preparing for D. It will eventually color everything that you do with her if it doesn't already, and you shouldn't have to live like that forever.
A~
ME-BS 44 HER-WW 45
Married 14 years
4 kids one each in elementary, middle school, high school, and college.
3 ONS with one OM starting in 2005, ending in 2012.
3 Year LTA 2012-14 different OM
DD Mid-May 2014 first guy, Mild TT up until Feb 15.
Robert22205https ( member #65547) posted at 2:25 AM on Friday, October 12th, 2018
Your wife should have spoken with her IC about her sex drive (as well as her DR). There are IC's that specialize in sex. They set up small therapy groups 3-5 women.
Before she gives up on sex she needs to sign up for sex therapy.
And you will enjoy her homework!!
20yrsagoBS ( member #55272) posted at 2:46 AM on Friday, October 12th, 2018
Oh shit, Fenderguy, I thought your post title was kidding.
I am sorry your asshat WW is clueless
BW, 54 WH 53 When you lie down with dogs, you wake up with fleas
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