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Charlie99 (original poster member #66195) posted at 5:00 AM on Sunday, May 12th, 2019
Happy F****** Mother’s Day to me!
Dear EXH
Thanks so much for leaving me with 4 kids who think you walk on water. I hope you are enjoying your time in Bali with new girl, whilst I get to fight with D8 over her meds, d13 over forms for camp and homework, and S10 has a melt down over his school pants not being dry yet to take to his grand parents, even though he doesn’t need to wear them till tomorrow.
Thank you so much for having them a week at a time, and calling me a useless mother who shouldn’t get anything for mother’s day, even though I still manage their day to day needs, yet are with you! Thank you so much for letting me cover all their medical expenses ( and there’s a lot), because even when they are with you, you can’t be arsed taking them to their appointments, and don’t bother giving D8 her meds, and I get to pick up the pieces.
Thank you so much for giving me a mother’s day full of fights and completely inappropriate behaviour from them, because you had to rinds at 7 am, and tell them how much crap you have bought them in Bali.
Happy Mother’s Day to Me!
Mene ( member #64377) posted at 6:05 AM on Sunday, May 12th, 2019
Happy Mother’s Day to you, Charlie99.
No matter what your low-life ex-husband does, never forget you’re awesome. Parenting four children is not easy. Be good to yourself. Your children will remember the sacrifices you made for them and when they are old enough will look back and say proudly you’re their mother. I’m sorry you’re going through a rough day.
[This message edited by Mene at 12:06 AM, May 12th (Sunday)]
Life wasn’t meant to be fair...
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 6:21 AM on Sunday, May 12th, 2019
Fuck that noise. I hate your X too! Asshat. Happy Mother's Day, Love!
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
Dragonfly123 ( member #62802) posted at 10:13 AM on Sunday, May 12th, 2019
One day those kids will realise what a fantastic mum they have. One who has always had their back and always taken care of them. They’ll look at your XH and see him for the selfish a’hole he is.
Happy Mother’s Day you’re doing a fantastic job!
When you can’t control what’s happening, challenge yourself to control the way you respond to what’s happening. That’s where the power is.
Tallgirl ( member #64088) posted at 11:35 AM on Sunday, May 12th, 2019
When your kids get old enough to see outside of their own needs they will so appreciate you and they will tell you.
I am sorry your asshat xwh is so selfish. Your kids know who is loving them right now at home. It’s mom.
Happy Mother’s Day Charlie. You are an amazing strong mom and a great person.
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 2:36 PM on Sunday, May 12th, 2019
Oh girrrlllll, you have been heard!! Loud and clear!!
I've been controlling a simmering rage since seeing how much $ WH has, and is pissing away, all while giving me nothing. And my belt is so tight I can barely breathe.
Vent away!!! You may lose the battle, but the war will be your victory. Stay the course. Your kids will see who their dad is. It will take time, but they see and understand more than you know. Be patient. Victory is yours.
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
cocoplus5nuts ( member #45796) posted at 2:50 PM on Sunday, May 12th, 2019
((Hugs))
You have been heard.
Me(BW): 1970
WH(caveman): 1970
Married June, 2000
DDay#1 June 8, 2014 EA
DDay#2 12/05/14 confessed to sex before polygraph
Status: just living my life
Thissucks5678 ( member #54019) posted at 3:53 PM on Sunday, May 12th, 2019
I’m sorry Charlie. Happy Mother’s Day. I hope your day gets better.
DDay: 6/2016
“Every test in our life makes us Bitter or Better. Every problem comes to Break Us or Make Us. The choice is ours whether to be Victim or Victor.” - unknown
Carissima ( member #66330) posted at 6:33 PM on Sunday, May 12th, 2019
OMG, he's already in Bali with a new girl? Didn't you just get rid of him for good less than 2 weeks ago?
I'm so sorry you're going through this. There's a lot of truth in the belief that children act up with the parent they have trust in.
Is there any way you can use the medication issue to reduce access? After all it's a danger to her health.
I hope you enjoy the rest of the day and have a relaxing evening.
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