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Kitt (original poster member #65949) posted at 11:27 PM on Friday, July 12th, 2019
Music seems to speak for a lot of people. What one song would you say speaks for how you feel about the A?
Thanksgiving2016 ( member #63462) posted at 1:10 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
I'm Not The Only One- Sam Smith
Countingsheep65 ( member #56000) posted at 1:27 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
Heart....
If Looks Could Kill!
Nanatwo ( member #45274) posted at 1:39 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
I'm the Only One - Melissa Ethridge
Time heals what reason cannot. Seneca
First the truth. Then, maybe, reconciliation. Louise Penny
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 1:40 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
Top Yourself - The Raconteurs
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
nowYOUseeME ( member #69647) posted at 2:09 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
Depends on my mood.
Only love can hurt like this and Awkwafina my Vag.
BS, 20 years married.
Affair 2 months
I asked for D he is fighting for R while I am in recovery.
Surprise baby from date nights.
MamaDragon ( member #63791) posted at 2:39 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
one that got me through was hold on for one more day.
course it gets me through a lot of tough days.
There are multiple songs that I listen to though - they all help.
BS - 40 something at A time, over 50 now
WS - him, younger than me
Reconciled
Dyokemm ( member #40254) posted at 2:43 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
Here’s A Quarter, Call Someone Who Cares-
By Travis Tritt
Kb82 ( member #70826) posted at 3:15 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
Several. Depending on my mood, these are the ones that go through my mind the most:
"My give a damns busted" Jo Dee Messina
"Not the only One" Sam Smith
"Take a Bow" Rhianna
"Before He Cheats" Carrie Underwood
"Cry Me a River" Justin Timberlake
"It wasn't me" Shaggy
"Hit em up Style" Blu Cantrell
"Look it up" Ashton Shepherd
Think it's pretty clear I'm still in the angry phase. Lol may be here awhile. These songs do help.
Kb82 ( member #70826) posted at 3:17 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
Dyokem, that's one of my favorites too. Gotta love Travis Tritt!
tipperm ( member #58362) posted at 3:36 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
What about Us - Pink
Love Again - Hedley
me bs - 46 him ws - 49 DD1 - Oct 29/16 EA/PA W/MCOW Jul 16 to Jan 17 DD2 - Nov 17/16, broke NCDD3 - Jan 4/17, broke NC True attempt at reconciliation started mid April 2017
I knew the affair started July 9/16 he just keep
Nanatwo ( member #45274) posted at 4:02 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
Love Travis Tritt! No one sings better crying in your beer songs. Here's a Quarter - Call Someone Who Cares - actually told him that when he texted me that he had made a "huge mistake" two days after leaving me for the OW.
Can I add
Strong Enough - Cher
I Told You So - Randy Travis
Time heals what reason cannot. Seneca
First the truth. Then, maybe, reconciliation. Louise Penny
MalibuBayBreeze ( member #52124) posted at 4:28 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
There are many. Music is truly the soundtrack of your life. Songs and lyrics are subjective and a song or band you may have loved, you can no longer listen to. It can be both triggering and therapeutic and I have really embraced my love of singing. It can be a hell of a release to belt out a song with all your heart.
"Going Under" ~ Evanescence
"My Heart is Broken" ~ Evanescence
"Everybody's Fool" ~ Evanescence
"Stone Cold" ~ Rainbow
"Four in the Morning" ~ Gwen Stefani
"The Pretender" ~ Foo Fighters
"Heaven and Hell" ~ Black Sabbath
"Landslide" ~ Stevie Nicks
"Barely Breathing" ~ Duncan Sheik
"Pardon Me" ~ Incubus
"Whipping Post" ~ Allman Brothers
"Simple Life" ~ No Doubt
"Ex Girlfriend" ~ No Doubt
"Outshined" ~ Soundgarden
"Like a Pill" ~ Pink
"Broken" ~ Seether
Just to name a few.
A man or woman telling the truth doesn't mind being questioned.
A liar does.
MakeMineReal ( new member #62275) posted at 4:36 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
Used to Love You by Gwen Stefani
The video is great.
"She packed up her potential and all she had learned and headed out to change a few things."
marriageredux959 ( member #69375) posted at 5:07 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
For months I had these three on replay in my head. Got severely triggered if any one of them came on the radio.
Still get triggered, not quite as hard though (fortunately.)
"Shame," Elle King
"Rolling in the Deep," Adele
"Harmony Hall," Vampire Weekend
I was once a June bride.
I am now a June phoenix.
The phoenix is more powerful.
The Bride is Dead.
Long Live The Phoenix.
Jameson1977 ( member #54177) posted at 5:26 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
When I'm angry, Mr. Brightside, The Killers. Depressed, Already Gone, Blue Rodeo. Really, really feeling sorry for myself, The Cure, Apart. Oh..and Break Stuff, Limp Bizkit.....that one is great to scream in the car when you're really angry lol.
Dont really have any musical inspiration when it comes to the road to R.
[This message edited by Jameson1977 at 11:30 PM, July 12th (Friday)]
WowItsReallyReal ( member #46075) posted at 6:47 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
I'll second "Break Stuff"... my anthem that got me through some of the hardest days is Five Finger Deathpunch's "Lift me up".
Dragonfly123 ( member #62802) posted at 7:14 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
Other People - LP
‘We had a love devout without a shred of doubt
We never worried 'bout other people
You broke the spell and wanted something else
Well, go fuck yourself with other people’
Pretty much the best song about cheaters ever!
When you can’t control what’s happening, challenge yourself to control the way you respond to what’s happening. That’s where the power is.
ramius ( member #44750) posted at 8:16 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
Someone to kill (The pain) by Roxanne
Insider by Tom Petty
How many scars have you rationalized because you loved the person who was holding the knife?
Their actions reveal their intentions. Their words conceal them.
whatIknowNow ( member #69015) posted at 11:47 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2019
"December" - Collective Soul
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