Topic is Sleeping.
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 5:16 AM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Hope you have a wonderful day! 
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 11:28 AM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Happy Birthday MH! I hope you have an amazing day!
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 12:46 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 1:33 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Happy Birthday to you, MH. May you have a wonderful day.
Welcome to Roaring 20s 2.0!
Cat
FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 3:15 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Wishing you a very Happy Birthday along with a World of Thanks.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 3:50 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
..sending you a giant HAPPY BIRTHDAY and good wishes for 2020..
and... a huge "THANK YOU" for this site. (((DS)))
smy
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 3:58 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Wishing you a very Happy birthday!!!
Thank you for all you do for us.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 4:35 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Happy Happy Day - Spoil yourself rotten today!
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 5:21 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 6:00 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:39 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
HoldingTogether ( member #29429) posted at 12:02 AM on Thursday, January 2nd, 2020
Us-Reconciled.
You keep waiting for the dust to settle, and then, one day you realize... This is it, that dust is your life going on around you.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 12:30 AM on Thursday, January 2nd, 2020
Happy birthday and a huge thanks for this site. Hope you have a wonderful year:-)
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 1:35 AM on Thursday, January 2nd, 2020
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 4:35 AM on Thursday, January 2nd, 2020
Happy birthday mate! Hope it's a great day for you!
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 11:58 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2020
Happy Birthday!!!! Hope it was a great one! 
Failure is success if we learn from it.
cass ( member #24261) posted at 10:08 PM on Sunday, January 5th, 2020
Late to this - but birthday greetings MH - hope it was a great day
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 9:29 PM on Monday, January 13th, 2020
Belated Happy Birthday!
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
pureheartkit ( member #62345) posted at 4:52 AM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2020
I'm Late but Happy Birthday MH!
Thank you everyone for your wisdom and healing.
Topic is Sleeping.
