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Change the locks as soon as she is out. Make sure she knows this is happening.

Change the locks as soon as she is out. Make sure she knows this is happening.

This is the plan and will discuss it with the landlord when she is fully out. WW has already passed the point of no return, she's on her own now.

Happy Thursday, everyone!!! This whole drama with the WW just keeps getting better by the day . WW calls me at work and asks if I've had any interaction with her AP since he has not texted her this morning (her words). This has me absolutely floored as I wish to not even think about the POS. I've never had any interaction with the bearded troll. WTF is she asking me this?!!?

Anyone with half a brain can see what is coming down the road here.

[This message edited by heartbrokeninNC at 12:04 PM, July 2nd (Thursday)]

Do you mean that you think the OM may not want your WW as a full timer?

Do you mean that you think the OM may not want your WW as a full timer?

This is exactly what I am thinking !! I've already let it be known that she is no longer welcome and that we are over.

Looks like AP likes only long distance cheaters via world wide web or may be his parents gave him a timeout.

WTF is she asking me this?!

It is unfair for you to cut her out. She thinks you are her family like one of her brothers who is there to always support her. This happen frequently specially after breakups in long term marriages.

[This message edited by goalong at 12:36 PM, July 2nd (Thursday)]

Karma is a bitch.

WW calls me at work and asks if I've had any interaction with her AP since he has not texted her this morning (her words). This has me absolutely floored as I wish to not even think about the POS. I've never had any interaction with the bearded troll. WTF is she asking me this?!!?

Please tell me you laughed loud and long into the phone when you heard this.

I was just thinking that, TimSC ! This day can't get any better. The karma bus is going to run over WW and I'll be waiting with the popcorn to see the outcome.

Hmmmmn, maybe the idea of living with a woman who he already knows will cheat on her partner is not so appealing.

And just to add, I would throw out my favorite line whenever she asks something like this....

"Not my circus, not my monkeys"

and then hang up.

Oh yes it was a long and loud laugh. Everyone here at work knows what is going on with WW. It made my day !!

Tell her he phoned to check on the return policy.

Nah… all jokes aside – 18-24 months from now you will hopefully neither feel hate, regret or love for her. Indifference is the opposite of love.

Thanks, Bigger. Feeling a lot of indifference right now mixed in with a bit of melancholy. Definitely not feeling any love for WW. I've come to understand that she is running from demons and chasing her own addictions. The A has nothing to do with me, she's just empty inside.

Be prepared for her to continue to try and reenter into your life.

My XSO tried several times and to be honest, I believe it is only a matter of time before she tries again.

Shut that down hard. Some cheaters still don't understand the word NO. I am not sure if it is the N or the O that has them confused.....

Be prepared for her to continue to try and reenter into your life.

That's what I'm afraid of!! With her calling me yesterday, it's not all good in fantasyland.

STBX can’t move back in you have the playboy bunnies moving in next week with a stripper pole.

Buffer

Oh no!!!!

Poor Muffin!

Just prepare yourself for anything she might do now that she is desperate

Wait. Hold on here.

Your cheating wife called you - the betrayed spouse — to ask WHY her Boyfriend did not call her this morning?!

Boy is she missing a few brain cells. As my brother says “she ain’t wrapped too tight is she?” Is she kidding here - she thought this was a good idea??? She clearly doesn’t get it.

I don’t want to insult your wife but I find this hard to fathom (but I do believe it)! Because who is so stupid to think this question to you is ok and you would answer, or that you would have any idea or info on the loser OM or the fact that you would even answer her.

She clearly does not get the concept it’s over!

I love your response BTW. Laughter sometimes is the best medicine. Especially in this case.

[This message edited by The1stWife at 7:44 AM, July 4th (Saturday)]

Wait. Hold on here. Your cheating wife called you - the betrayed spouse — to ask WHY her Boyfriend did not call her this morning?!

That is exactly what she asked me. I do know who the AP is but have only alluded to her that I know his first name and he is in GA. The only thing I could do is laugh and tell her to never call me about this again. EVER!!!

“she ain’t wrapped too tight is she?”

No, she's not wrapped too tightly and the selfish part is that she doesn't care who she is hurting because she thinks that this is meant to be with the POSOM. In her words, "We have Chemistry, !! WW is missing a couple of cards from her deck, mainly the jokers.

I have a feeling this freight train is getting ready to derail and it will be a sight to see, the popcorn and beer are at the ready.

Also, do not know how many times I've told her that we are over and to GTFO. It's hilarious to see that she is hitching herself to POSOM that's she's only known for 9 1/2 months . It will be sweet justice to see that not only has she lost a twenty year M and her AP.

I don’t want to insult your wife but I find this hard to fathom (but I do believe it)!

Go ahead and insult her all you want, I have no problem with it !!

[This message edited by heartbrokeninNC at 10:33 AM, July 4th (Saturday)]