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betrayedafter20 ( member #72875) posted at 3:48 AM on Wednesday, September 23rd, 2020
Me: BW, 52, BC survivor x2
Married 20 yrs, together 25
14 yo boy Autism spectrum
16 yo typical functioning
DD#1 2/6/13 PA, False R 4+ yrs
DD#2 2/20/20 EA(mutual friend) learned of another PA same day - serial
DD#3 2 weeks later W/PA AP
Separated 5/
betrayedafter20 ( member #72875) posted at 3:51 AM on Wednesday, September 23rd, 2020
Me: BW, 52, BC survivor x2
Married 20 yrs, together 25
14 yo boy Autism spectrum
16 yo typical functioning
DD#1 2/6/13 PA, False R 4+ yrs
DD#2 2/20/20 EA(mutual friend) learned of another PA same day - serial
DD#3 2 weeks later W/PA AP
Separated 5/
betrayedafter20 ( member #72875) posted at 3:55 AM on Wednesday, September 23rd, 2020
I hope I'm not breaking any rules with the pics, am I? 
Me: BW, 52, BC survivor x2
Married 20 yrs, together 25
14 yo boy Autism spectrum
16 yo typical functioning
DD#1 2/6/13 PA, False R 4+ yrs
DD#2 2/20/20 EA(mutual friend) learned of another PA same day - serial
DD#3 2 weeks later W/PA AP
Separated 5/
99problems (original poster member #59373) posted at 3:36 PM on Wednesday, September 23rd, 2020
I love it, 20! Might mess around with some photoshop later(don't worry, I'm not dumb enough to put any real faces on a picture) 😀😀😅😅🤣
Got me a new forum name!<BR />Formerly Idiotmcstupid.<BR />I am divorced, so not as much of an idiot now- 4/15/21,
99problems (original poster member #59373) posted at 12:34 AM on Monday, September 28th, 2020
Nothing too exciting here. Stbxw rescheduled the Sept 23rd court date(Colorado makes you do mediation first, to see if you can come to an agreement, that's all it was) just to piss me off probably. She is a garbage person. I think we all know that by now.
I've been staying active. My kid is in real school now, which is good but means I am at the end of the first 5 day stretch of not seeing her since she was born, excepting a trip to Mexico years ago.
I miss my kiddo so much. I cannot wait to see her again.
Got me a new forum name!<BR />Formerly Idiotmcstupid.<BR />I am divorced, so not as much of an idiot now- 4/15/21,
99problems (original poster member #59373) posted at 5:13 AM on Saturday, October 24th, 2020
Fun stuff- my mom, who is a hairstylist, gave my daughter a haircut after she came back from stbxw's house with a rats nest in her hair. We left it longer on purpose because that is what my daughter wanted.
The next day, stbxw posts a pic on fakebook of my daughter with all of her hair cut off.
The childishness and stupidity boggles the mind.
What a nasty, gross, disgusting person.
Got me a new forum name!<BR />Formerly Idiotmcstupid.<BR />I am divorced, so not as much of an idiot now- 4/15/21,
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 12:08 PM on Saturday, October 24th, 2020
She’s not up for “#1 Mom” that’s for sure.
I really hate when people put their kids in the middle. Or use their children as pawns.
It’s unnecessary and petty. Shows you just what kind of person she really is.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
Gottagetthrough ( member #27325) posted at 12:08 PM on Saturday, October 24th, 2020
I remember this post from the summer, and thinking it was similar to mine with the years of R in between betrayals.
Good for you for going through with legal action. I’m still sitting on stuff, wondering if I’m making mistakes when in reality I’m not doing anything. Made appointments for a psychiatrist to get on anti depressants and a new therapist (she is actually my old therapist, but I moved and have tried to find a good therapist in new place but haven’t found any I really like like the first yet...)
Sending you strength to get through this time!
And about the hair cut 
It’s only funny because she cares enough to take the kid out and spend time and money to “get back” at you.. you’re changed her life and she’s mad
99problems (original poster member #59373) posted at 12:01 AM on Sunday, October 25th, 2020
She can die mad, y'know what I mean?
I'm not the one who betrayed her over and over and turned her life into a living hell. She will live in a hell of her own making.
Also- I have blocked her on all media and text, the only reason I know this at all is because my mom looks at it.
I asked my mom not to share this kind of thing with me going forward, I simply don't need it in my life at all.
Got me a new forum name!<BR />Formerly Idiotmcstupid.<BR />I am divorced, so not as much of an idiot now- 4/15/21,
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