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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 1:45 PM on Tuesday, February 2nd, 2021
Sending loads of positive mojo to both of you.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 1:51 PM on Tuesday, February 2nd, 2021
Praying for you both.
Hugs
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 3:00 PM on Tuesday, February 2nd, 2021
Sending all the good mojo-
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 3:18 PM on Tuesday, February 2nd, 2021
OK just hopped on due to GI stuff going on with my kid too.... (I will make a post in a bit)
That aside YEAH for the Colorectal surgeon. Yeah for moving forward quickly. Yeah for Laproscopic surgery. Yes this could be a cancer, or it could just be a large colonic polyp that is bleeding and causing issues for him. Get it out and Voila all better.
Please keep us updated on what's going on though.... and Lionne you are going to be interested in my post.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 3:21 PM on Tuesday, February 2nd, 2021
..sending prayers of healing for your H..and prayers of strength for you.
smy
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
Lionne (original poster member #25560) posted at 9:14 PM on Friday, February 5th, 2021
Yes, generally good news. His hemoglobin is trending up while they really don't know why it was happening and where the blood was coming from. It appears it healed. The appendix needs to come out, somewhat urgently due to the risk of rupture but it will have to wait for the cardiologist to okay what drugs and for how long he can stop taking them. The colorectal guy doesn't have a sense that it is cancer but prepared us for a few things that might make the surgery more complicated. It's good to know worse case scenarios.
He has no pain, no discomfort, just whining about not being able to shovel the snow. I told him to relive that activity in his memory.
Thanks everybody, and Tush, yep, keeping track of your DD's saga and holding her in the LIGHT.
Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 9:30 PM on Friday, February 5th, 2021
Well thats promising that the surgeon didn't seem too concerned.
Keep us updated.
My baby is much better and made the 4 hour drive back to her apartment today.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 9:58 PM on Friday, February 5th, 2021
Good news from both of you. That's wonderful
Hugs and mojo amd prayers sent.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:55 PM on Saturday, February 6th, 2021
Thanks for the updates. Sending more mojo.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
josiep ( member #58593) posted at 6:25 PM on Monday, February 8th, 2021
Does he have a device that he can watch YouTube videos of shoveling snow to satisfy his "craving"? :)
BW, was 67; now 74; M 45 yrs., T 49 yrs.DDay#1, 1982; DDay#2, May, 2017. D July, 2017
Lionne (original poster member #25560) posted at 7:10 PM on Monday, February 8th, 2021
LOL Josie! He's fine. The doctor said he'll not be able to lift over 20 lbs 6 weeks after surgery but he can wash dishes and fold all the laundry he wants to.
Still waiting on the word from the cardiologist.
Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
Lionne (original poster member #25560) posted at 5:54 PM on Monday, February 22nd, 2021
UPDATE. Appendix is out, laproscopically. No complications. Biopsy results in a week.
Blood work is still wonky, hemoglobin much better but RBC and red blood dispersion or something off. Might all be related to the anemia.
Phew!
Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 6:04 PM on Monday, February 22nd, 2021
Glad that went well. Hopefully they can figure oit the rest of the levels.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 3:58 PM on Tuesday, February 23rd, 2021
Glad the surgery was no big deal.
Hope he can behave for the 6 weeks. Remind him a hernia is way more painful and surgery to fix one is even worse.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 6:39 PM on Thursday, February 25th, 2021
Really glad to hear this positive report!
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
Lionne (original poster member #25560) posted at 3:08 PM on Sunday, March 7th, 2021
Update: Benign something toma. Thanks for the magical SI mojo!
Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 3:32 PM on Sunday, March 7th, 2021
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
number4 ( member #62204) posted at 9:17 PM on Sunday, March 7th, 2021
There's never any news that's better than benign.
Me: BWHim: WHMarried - 30+ yearsTwo adult daughters1st affair: 2005-20072nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addictionStatus: R
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 10:15 PM on Sunday, March 7th, 2021
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 1:18 AM on Monday, March 8th, 2021
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
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