looking forward (original poster member #25238) posted at 5:49 PM on Sunday, April 27th, 2025
Together 57 years, Married 52 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 6:07 PM on Sunday, April 27th, 2025
You look so happy and stunning! Congratulations on a wonderful accomplishment!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 6:18 PM on Sunday, April 27th, 2025
Congrats! Wishing you many more joyful and sober years!
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
number4 ( member #62204) posted at 7:44 PM on Sunday, April 27th, 2025
Me: BWHim: WHMarried - 30+ yearsTwo adult daughters1st affair: 2005-20072nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addictionStatus: R
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 8:15 PM on Sunday, April 27th, 2025
Congratulations! You look wonderful.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 12:02 PM on Monday, April 28th, 2025
Congrats on your sobriety. I think that for those that need it, sobriety is the most important thing for a good life.
"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 3:39 PM on Monday, April 28th, 2025
Congratulations. I'm very glad you've hit this milestone, and I'm very glad you post about each new one.
Sorry you missed the Caribbean this year.
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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 10:43 PM on Monday, April 28th, 2025
As always looking fantastic!!! Congrats
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
