OhItsYou ( member #84125) posted at 12:24 AM on Friday, January 16th, 2026
Something to add that has been bugging me after your last update.
I don’t think this is her first rodeo. Just the first time she’s been caught. Rarely do we ever see this level from a first time cheater.
Brokenthoughts (original poster new member #86884) posted at 4:16 AM on Friday, January 16th, 2026
Hi, I wanted to pm a moderator, but it seems to be more complicated than I thought. I was wondering if it was possible to get this thread marked private or even possibly taken down?
BackfromtheStorm ( member #86900) posted at 10:53 AM on Friday, January 16th, 2026
Hi, I wanted to pm a moderator, but it seems to be more complicated than I thought. I was wondering if it was possible to get this thread marked private or even possibly taken down?
There should be a list of moderator you can contact, though I believe they read the posts so they should see your message.
Please keep in mind that if you feel embarrass to be compelled to take down the thread, you have nothing to worry about. It is anonymous and everyone here understands and sympathize with your tragedy because we all went through it. You have nothing to be ashamed of.
You are welcome to send me a PM if you think I can help you. I respond when I can.
jb3199 ( member #27673) posted at 11:33 AM on Friday, January 16th, 2026
Make a new thread, titled 'Mod please'.
Then for the 1st post, simply write that you are looking for help.
A Guide or Moderator should reach out to you shortly after.
BH-50s
WW-50s
2 boys
Married over 30yrs.
All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary PuckettD-Day(s): EnoughAccepting that I can/may end this marriage 7/2/14
Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 11:42 AM on Friday, January 16th, 2026
"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus
Brokenthoughts (original poster new member #86884) posted at 12:55 PM on Friday, January 16th, 2026
Why can't I PM anyone? Mods or otherwise? It's greyed out for every user.
asc1226 ( member #75363) posted at 2:23 PM on Friday, January 16th, 2026
Why can't I PM anyone? Mods or otherwise? It's greyed out for every user.
You have to have 50 posts before you can pm anyone.
I make edits, words is hard
Brokenthoughts (original poster new member #86884) posted at 5:06 PM on Friday, January 16th, 2026
Hey bigger can you reach out to me with a PM? Because I don't seem to be able to send them myself but I can receive them and reply to ones I receive
