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smilethrupain posted 4/20/2018 13:33 PM

Holy wow! What thread! It reads like a John Grisham novel sans the murders.

LtCdrLost posted 4/24/2018 17:52 PM

Hello new friends. I'm headed back to VaBch early tomorrow, there's a training evolution I'm going to grab an available slot in. It takes place in CONUS, I'll be around the Tidewater area until Friday, returning there tomorrow late afternoon. I'll check in when I get to the BOQ. Not a peep from stbxw or anything to do with my destroyed marriage. More later. - LtCdrLost sends.

[This message edited by LtCdrLost at 10:50 PM, April 24th (Tuesday)]

MickeyBill2016 posted 4/24/2018 18:22 PM

That is probably good news about stbx , after all what can she say? More likely than not her parents are keeping her on a short leash for her own good.

When will the D be final, I don't recall if you already filed.

Hang in there, Sandy Eggo awaits!

Shockedmom posted 4/24/2018 18:56 PM

Hope your getaway to Cali was free of drama and filled with good time with your friends.

Keep your head up, let the legal eagles complete any proceedings and get back to your future in California.

MidnightRun posted 4/24/2018 19:24 PM

Hope you had an enjoyable time; I'm sure the OM is on anti-depressants, or worse.

PricklePatch posted 4/24/2018 19:26 PM

What no beach yoga?

LtCdrLost posted 4/24/2018 22:15 PM

What no beach yoga?

Ha ha... I did run on the beach a few times and I saw some Sugar Cookies out near the surf zone.

LtCdrLost posted 4/24/2018 22:33 PM

When will the D be final, I don't recall if you already filed.

Yes, it has been filed, but I cannot project the date it becomes final. I'd like to be free of the whole thing not later than 1 October for my own reasons. One of the things I'll be doing before Friday is meeting with my attorney.

[This message edited by LtCdrLost at 10:34 PM, April 24th (Tuesday)]

MidnightRun posted 4/24/2018 22:57 PM

Ahh, those Sugar Cookies!

LtCdrLost posted 4/24/2018 23:03 PM

It was sort of nostalgic. I've been back to Coronado since I went through there but never with leisure time on my hands.

[This message edited by LtCdrLost at 11:07 PM, April 24th (Tuesday)]

SCARLETT94 posted 4/24/2018 23:21 PM

I don't know what a sugar cookie is but PP and I had a little giggle over a big strong Navy SEAL carrying around a yoga mat

[This message edited by SCARLETT94 at 5:13 AM, April 25th (Wednesday)]

LtCdrLost posted 4/24/2018 23:51 PM

A sugar cookie is when soaking wet candidates at BUD/S are directed to roll in the sand until they're completely covered in it. Like a sugar cookie...

StillStanding1 posted 4/24/2018 23:59 PM

I hope it was a good getaway for you. Sending good thoughts your way. How are you feeling about going back east?

LtCdrLost posted 4/25/2018 00:03 AM

I have no trepidation about it. I'm leaving again on Friday for a ten day training evolution. Time to get my head back in the game & be what I am.

PricklePatch posted 4/25/2018 00:56 AM

You will be in our thoughts.

ZenMumWalking posted 4/25/2018 10:53 AM

Fingers crossed that the D is finalized very quickly.

LtCdrLost posted 4/26/2018 07:44 AM

Did you ever take a look at the computer stuff you took?

I guess I neglected to mention that was all turned over to JAG before I left last week. I've read, seen, and heard all I need to know that even if remaining with "A" was something I wanted (it isn't), I couldn't look myself in the eye knowing I'm the kind of man who would accept this. No offense intended to the betrayed husbands who live with the fact that their wives gave themselves to another man but that's not me. I don't need to know any more than I already know to divorce "A". I want anything in those USB drives which would aid or enhance the prosecution against her "deployment husband" to be available to JAG. I'm hoping he communicated with my cheating whore of a stbxw via .mil email or in some other way hung himself further by misappropriation of government resources. Regardless of how it may seem to some, I still want to burn him to the ground.

[This message edited by LtCdrLost at 7:53 AM, April 26th (Thursday)]

PricklePatch posted 4/26/2018 08:14 AM

He had to have otherwise, why would she be asking you to leave it between the two of you or his wife is divcoring and going to Texas. Pass that to JAG as well.

Platonic hugs.

LtCdrLost posted 4/26/2018 09:02 AM

I'm meeting with my attorney this afternoon, and I had a message waiting at the BOQ from my FIL. I'll contact him later. I don't hate "A", and I certainly don't want her to come to a bad end over this. I read the whole thread about the WW who carried on a nine year affair which ended nine years ago then she was found out & her world caved in. Her ensuing suicide bothered me quite a bit, that's nothing I'd ever want to see happen to my cheating wife. At one time I thought she was worth marrying, that I was wrong about that is a sorry thing. However, speaking with her Father is as far as I'm going to go. I want zero contact with her directly.

[This message edited by LtCdrLost at 9:03 AM, April 26th (Thursday)]

OneInTheSame posted 4/26/2018 09:11 AM

Just curious, LtCdrLost, what are your feelings about officers who cheat on their civilian wives (or husbands)?

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