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Healing is Possible. Thank You

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Shehawk posted 11/4/2019 13:15 PM

I just wanted to thank every single person who jumped or reached into the darkness I was in to touch me, to walk with me, to rescue me.

Not only am I no longer struggling to stay alive, but I actually experience peace and healing that is unimaginable. I have have been telling my story (and listening to other people's infidelity stories). And life is good on the other side of the darkness. Thank you! Much gratitude.

fareast posted 11/4/2019 19:49 PM

Thatís a wonderful update Shehawk. I am very happy for you. I know your WH has treated you so very cruelly. I hope your Lymes is under control and you are in good health. May your peace and healing continue Good luck.

WhoTheBleep posted 11/4/2019 21:42 PM

Great update, Shehawk. Now remember this feeling if you ever slip down the rabbit hole again, which we all can do on occasion. You know it is only temporary and you will come back to this feeling at peace and healing.

Shehawk posted 11/5/2019 07:30 AM

Thank you Fareast and Bleep! I am ugly crying but you and so many other people reached into what a friend of mine calls the "box of darkness" I was in to save me. I worked so hard. And it is so good on the other side.

Thank you!

BearlyBreathing posted 11/7/2019 19:52 PM

Wonderful update. Stay on the path forward and never ever fear asking for help. ((Shehawk))

Chrysalis123 posted 11/8/2019 18:42 PM

Good for you Shehawk. Isn't peace lovely?

hat a friend of mine calls the "box of darkness"

I know of what you speak...check out my tagline.

Shehawk posted 11/8/2019 22:02 PM

oh Chrysalis123 I had completely forgotten that was your tagline!

Shehawk posted 11/8/2019 22:03 PM

And yes, peace is marvelous!

hopefullife posted 11/9/2019 02:45 AM

Thank you also Shehawk! This gives us new ones hope that we eventually will be okay. I'm happy for you

Shehawk posted 11/9/2019 20:21 PM

thanks hopefullife

I am literally still on this planet alive because of grace and other people. And I am so grateful. There is a life out of the box of darkness and I am so grateful.

[This message edited by Shehawk at 8:34 PM, November 9th (Saturday)]

JanaGreen posted 11/9/2019 22:24 PM

Love to you Shehawk

Shehawk posted 11/10/2019 06:38 AM

Thanks Jana


I AM NOT THE WOMAN HE LEFT

and that is amazing beyond description.

There is life outside of the box of darkness. And it is beyond anything I ever imagined.

Shehawk posted 11/19/2019 11:11 AM

I can not emphasize enough my gratitude towards this group. Not only did you save my life....literally. But you helped heal me.

I dug down deep. I worked on myself.
I have friends who love me. I spent an amazing weekend going to worship, meeting new people, drinking craft coffee, playing chess for the first time in decades, and even enjoying an amazing hike with a platonic friend (Shehawk does not date because--although her spouse abandoned about 8 months ago --she is unfortunately still married and she is not a cheater).

Chaos posted 11/19/2019 12:05 PM

You are truly inspirational Shehawk

While I hate the circumstances surrounding our paths crossing - I am thankful for the light you shine to so many of us.

Emotionalhell posted 11/20/2019 06:18 AM

Thank you for the update! So good to hear you are doing well.
It is uplifting to hear a positive update.

I am in limbo. Hurts to stay and hurts to leave. I think leaving may be easier in the long run and your post confirmed that thought.

Wishing you continued joy!

Shehawk posted 11/21/2019 09:25 AM

Emotionalhell

in my case my stbx WH chose his secret second life over me. And in return I walked through what felt like broken glass (left, did hard work on myself) to get to a place of peace and joy I never dreamed existed.

GraceLove posted 11/23/2019 10:03 AM

It is so great to hear an update that is so positive.

As awful as this experience has been , there is so much joy on the other side:)

There's something also very comforting in walking this journey with others (familiar names on the forums, who have been here for awhile) and hearing the positive outcomes. Even if somedays it's one day at a time.

GraceLove posted 11/23/2019 10:03 AM

[This message edited by GraceLove at 10:04 AM, November 23rd (Saturday)]

destroyed1 posted 11/23/2019 12:33 PM


Not only am I no longer struggling to stay alive, but I actually experience peace and healing that is unimaginable.

Thank you for the update and enjoy your newfound happiness. You deserve it.

Shehawk posted 11/23/2019 19:12 PM

Shehawk even has plans for Thanksgiving and it is not gonna be sitting in a hostel at a table by herself!

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