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So I have done a little blogging it’s the first time I ever thought it but wanted to clear my head

I choose not to go in to a lot of detail on just how cruelly my ex left me and I choose not to slate the new women just with the facts that I was left heavily pregnant

It’s a blog about my next adventure with my children well anyway I work up this morning to her having commented trying to make out that I am the bad one and I am in the wrong

Firstly who the hell does she think she is to comment on my blog but also to play the victim in this

The link to my blog in on my profile am I right to be mad by this???

It just feels like another thing she’s tarnished

[This message edited by Lucyjr at 7:50 AM, November 26th (Tuesday)]

I left a reply to the OW on your blog. It has some language, so I'll understand if it's not approved.

No, you are not wrong. The worst thing you said about them is that they are the ones with the issues. That's the truth. She knows they are horrible people for what they did, which is why she commented. If she were secure in herself and her relationship, she would have moved on past it.

Why the hell is she reading your blog, anyway? Stalker much?

I love your response thank you so much for your support

That exactly what I thought I could of gone on to say how she married him within weeks of my child being born and all the times he’s hurt my kids and the fact their baby is only a few months older than ours but it wasn’t about them it was about how I’m turning my life around

You wrote that with grace and handled her comment with grace. She's just fucked up. She'll get hers when he cheats on her. The, "if he'll cheat with you, he'll cheat on you," rule is such for a reason.

You kicked her ass Lucy. You are getting stronger every day. I'm proud of you.

I can't believe she commented... I commented as well. Hold your head high - sounds like you are doing a great job with your boys...all the best.

It’s super pathetic on her part to even comment on your blog. She could at least own what she did.

I think all the responses were perfect and I’m going to add your blog to my reading list.

Ahh thank you everyone

Part of me thought should I ignore but I didn’t write the blog slating her like I could of so I thought how dare she try and make out as though I am in the wrong

I hope I didn’t come across too bitchy in my comment back I did have to compose myself before I replied to her I’d imagine she things she won by trying to tarnish my blog

she tarnished herself (yet again!)...everyone seemed to have the same thought = What is she even doing here? How dare she? hmmmm ...I guess you occupy her thoughts if she is searching for you!

I joined your blog but let us know if she posts again - I'll say exactly that - she must feel guilty if she's following you - that or worried her "twu wuv" is stepping out again!!

I responded to the blog.

If she reads your blog and comments - that indicates to me that she is very insecure and feels threatened by you. 😂

If you didn’t want him with you at the time of delivery if the baby that is your right. Good for you for making the tough choice.

I commented. What a stupid bitch she is!

Um..you only know what a cheater has told you. And cheaters lie...soo...

Such lovely people you all are I just couldn’t believe she had the cheek to write back at the end of the day even if I was the worse partner I don’t believe any women deserves to be treated the way they treated me no moral high ground at all the fact she tries to make out I’m in the wrong is another new low from them

Rise above it. Have a laugh at her expense and forget her.

They HAVE TO buy into the little narrative they've built in their heads (the one where they were destined to be together and you are the evil harridan trying to keep your husband from true happiness).

Otherwise, it would mean they'd have to face the fact that they're shitty people and the only prize they won is a cheating spouse, who suddenly doesn't look so appealing when you have to deal with them 24/7 because you discover that they sit on their ass all day, drink too much and fart in bed.

Better for them to keep up the daydream.

I left a comment too -

You are doing so good rising above her. You are a classy lady - keep reaching for the stars!!!

Lucy- Never argue with an idiot; they drag you down to their level, then beat you with experience.- Dilbert

It's your blog. Delete her comment, block her if you can. You have nothing to prove to her.

Why the hell is she reading your blog, anyway? Stalker much?

This^^^

You got under her skin. What a loser she must be to have commented on your personal blog.

Keep writing and keep being you and live life happily to your potential. Let them both waddle in the mess they have made for themselves.

I agree delete her pathetic response! What a crybaby she is.

[This message edited by crazyblindsided at 11:39 AM, November 26th (Tuesday)]

I posted on your blog. I hope I didn't hurt the wittle tramps feeling....lol

Your blog is great and you keep being you. You are talking about your life and how you overcame all the pain from his cheating.

She is just the ignorant side piece who is afraid her now hubby is looking for a new side piece.

Thank you again it really is a lovely community to be a part of

Part of me didn’t want to reply but I have said my piece I will not reply again I will leave it to all you lovely guys!

I didn’t write the post to bad mouth them or even name and shame them which I hope i didn’t it was about me and my children not them at all

I made a post as well. It's a nice blog.