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Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 7:06 AM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
I routinely ignore anyone at my door because 99% of the rare times are folks trying to share the good word (religion). But this evening said visitor was unusually persistent, both ringing doorbell and knocking. So I answered. And glad I did.
It was a process server. Looking for Xhole. Proudly told the guy he was my EX.
Then he said, "Do you know where he lives? Or are you a party to this service?"
I asked what "service" he was referring to and he said it. The state child support enforcement office.
I nearly wet myself with laughter! 😂
Told the guy no, not a party to this service, but I know the rental house where he lives. Gave the address and said Xhole's been running from this for six years so it's about time!
Looks like Baby Mama OW that lives in another state finally got a valid paternity suit acknowledged by our state. Xhole was convinced (last time we spoke about this some 2-3 yrs ago) that as long as he didn't demand visitation she wouldn't force the CS issue.
Guess she changed her mind... 
He's 64 and technically owes for the past six years as well as for another 11 or so years to come! Ahhhh, consequences...gotta love them. 
[This message edited by SI Staff at 1:47 AM, November 27th (Wednesday)]
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 7:37 AM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
Whoa! 
Times like this you just HAVE to wonder if he's thinking ...."should have left my pants on!"
"Because I deserve better"
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 11:13 AM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
Love to have been a fly on the wall when he was served!
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 12:16 PM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
What a great post to read. I haven't even had my coffee yet, and I'm bouncing off the walls elated. Just awesomeness!!
Beep beep!
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
northeasternarea ( member #43214) posted at 12:34 PM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
Gotta pay to play. Good on you for providing the address.
The only person you can change is yourself.
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 1:53 PM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
This was an excellent story to read with my morning coffee
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
rebplay ( member #59205) posted at 3:16 PM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
Wow! He’s getting his back and then some! Felt good reading that. Karma does come around.
fareast ( Moderator #61555) posted at 3:23 PM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
Never bother with things in your rearview mirror. Your best days are on the road in front of you.
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 3:41 PM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
I particularly like the part where you provided an accurate address for him. Those had to have been the sweetest words you've spoken in quite some time, Phoenix...possibly ever. Ahhhh....
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
IrishGirlVA ( member #39694) posted at 3:53 PM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
Thank goodness you were there to point the process server in the right direction! You're welcome!
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Chili ( member #35503) posted at 3:54 PM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
Oh dear.
It seems that once again, the one consistent marker of all of your Xhole's problems is...wait...lemme think...Xhole.
So liberating to know he's still getting in his own way. Isn't it freeing to know we have zero part in this mess? That we no longer have to clean it up? Happy to the Thanksgiving!
(PS: I've been having fun way over here with my popcorn watching assclown being pounded around legally as well. He's on serious probation and violating all sorts of court ordered actions. Here's hoping the holidays bring more opportunities for him to have a few run-ins with the police. Nothing says Merry Christmas like the hoosegow.)
Ain't life grand from this side?
[This message edited by Chili at 9:55 AM, November 27th (Wednesday)]
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
IHatePickingName ( member #70740) posted at 3:59 PM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
The shadenfreud is glorious, i have to say. Tha ks for sharing 🤣🤣🤣
BW/WW Me
WH/BH DoingThingsWrong
DDay March 2019
Reconciling
J707 ( member #63778) posted at 5:31 PM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
Ha! So if he didn't demand visitations she wouldn't force the CS issue. That's a real good way of thinking and to live your life. I love popcorn stories like this.
Knock knock knock, "Ah who the hell is knocking at my door, let me see". You should have sent him some adult diapers anonymously for when he crapped himself
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 7:06 PM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 7:50 PM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
Time will tell if they are successful in serving him. He is notorious for successfully avoiding service (retired cop), and has No Trespassing signs posted to scare off servers.
I *may* have warned them about that fact, as well as the sources of his retirement income... 
Hope is new wifey has enough income to support both of them cause when they DO catch him, they are gonna suck him dry! Poor muffin!
Happy Thanksgiving, indeed.
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
J707 ( member #63778) posted at 8:08 PM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
They'll get him, one way or another.
Simplicity ( member #60501) posted at 8:12 PM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
I can't tell you guys how much glee this brings me. Not sure if that makes me a terrible person. But it is so rare to see karma dealt on people who have wronged you.
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 8:42 PM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
This is a great holiday story. It goes well with the popcorn
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
Ripped62 ( member #60667) posted at 9:40 PM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
Service is just the opening act. When he has to suffer a loss of 50 to 60% of his net income from garnishment when he is located and found in contempt by the court normally brings on severe lamentations.
As for the new wife she may be an ex when she figures out what she has signed up for.
Thanks for bringing a smile to my face as I prepare for Thanksgiving Phoenix1.
NEPAlady ( new member #66411) posted at 12:46 AM on Thursday, November 28th, 2019
Popcorn, wine, comfy couch position - all check.
Ready for this week’s episode of “Phoenix1, Agent of Karma”!
Shame there isn’t a superhero icon.
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