Shehawk posted 6/2/2020 15:11 PM

Summer
Liars lie. He is lying.

Your value and your worth lie in your decency and integrity. They do not lie in who he says you are.

Do not lose sight of that.

Radical self care is in order now. Bubble baths. Doing your nails. Some pretty flowers. Whatever it is that you love.

Shehawk posted 6/2/2020 15:12 PM

Or sign up at a mma gym and punch the bag. That did world's for my self esteem after my future ex husband cheated and lied.

You get the idea. Self care!

Gottagetthrough posted 6/3/2020 11:58 AM

Unless he buys their love, see how long the kids respect him when they are older.

I’m dealing with this now. DD is 14 and saw our counselor the other week. The counselor told me yesterday that DD is done, she will never have a relationship with her father. I asked if there was anything to be done and the therapist... THERAPIST!!! Said no. She sees him for who he is.

It’s sad! I’m crushed my DD won’t have a father figure in her life. But it’s true. The kids will know and will have 0 respect for him.