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Lyonesse (original poster member #32943) posted at 8:45 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Thanks for founding this site, MH and DS. Thanks to all of you have shared your wit and wisdom and growth on this website. I have learned so much from all of you.
WarehouseGuy ( member #6037) posted at 10:22 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday SI 
I'm so glad you were here when I went through one of the hardest times in my life.
MH and DS---YOU GUYS ROCK!!!!
whg 
[This message edited by WarehouseGuy at 4:22 AM, June 10th (Monday)]
If you see your ex with someone else don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.
Laura28 ( member #28997) posted at 10:32 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday
and
Thank you so much
HUGS
Laura
Married 42yrs Me BW 68Yrs Him F?WH 70yrs OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted. Dday May 28 2010. OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years). OW2 2002(8yrs PA). OW3 2009(1Yr PA). Others?? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck 'em"
catlover50 ( member #37154) posted at 10:38 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Best wishes and thanks so much!
Dday -9/23/2012
Reconciled
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 10:46 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
So very grateful for this site. I would not be able to get through this without all of you and your support.
It is such a comfort to know there is always someone there when you feel so alone.
Thank you for your hard work and efforts in creating this sanctuary.
Happy Birthday.
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
movingforward777 ( member #6850) posted at 10:53 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday SI !! You helped me through one of the toughest times of my life.....Thank You....HUGS
You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 11:18 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy 11th Birthday!!!!
Thank you DS and MH for this site. It has been a source of healing for so many.
nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 11:19 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday SI!!! Thank you so much for being here for all of us!!!!
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 11:41 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy birthday, SI!
Thank you to MH and DS for providing the site that saved my sanity, made me realize that I wasn't alone, helped me to maintain my dignity, and prevented me from making a lot of foolish mistakes.
Plus, I've gotten to know some really cool people. I feel like it's my birthday, really.
[This message edited by tryingagain74 at 5:41 AM, June 10th (Monday)]
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 2:17 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday SI!!!
It's amazing that we've been up and running for 11 years. I'm so glad you all are here and able to use the site as a place for healing and talking to others that can relate to your feelings without judgement
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
whatdoto ( member #28555) posted at 2:18 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday SI!
So nice to have this place to turn to when you have no one IRL to talk to.
"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 2:21 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday, SI!!! Thank you for the love and support you give. 
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 2:32 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday SI! Thanks MH and DS for creating a safe place for all of us.
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 2:38 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday, SI!
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 3:06 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday SI.
I can't possibly thank MH and DS enough for setting up this site. I really don't know where I would be right now without the site and the connections I've made here.
(((HUGS))) and to you all
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
stillhere09 ( member #24924) posted at 3:06 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy birthday SI
Thanks for saving my sanity; for helping me to realize that it was him, not me; for being the one strong voice of reason (created by the voice of many) in my crazy world; for helping me to see my way out.
Me-50 BW
Him-55,STBXWH
Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 3:08 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Thankyouthankyouthankyou! And Happy Birthday!!
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
SoVerySadNow ( member #36711) posted at 3:13 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
HUGE thanks!!!!!
And Happy Birthday SI!
Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 3:13 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Gosh, SI is only six months older than the youngest banana. 
Happy birthday, SI! The good you've done is truly beyond measure.
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Going_Under ( member #11606) posted at 3:34 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Happy Birthday, SI!
Much love and blessings to you, DS and MH. There are no words to say how grateful I am for the hard work and care you have put into this place of such hope and help.
Thank you for creating such a safe place for us. Also, thank you for appointing such wonderful moderators and guides. We are all so lucky that you take the time each day to support us.
BS 44 (Me)
FWH 47
M 24 years
Three Children ages 22, 18, and 10
D-Day 08/10/2004, 7-Year LTA that ended 4 months before D-Day.
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