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LadyQ (original poster member #32847) posted at 11:11 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
My nephew, who was just 25 years old, committed suicide. He had just spent time with family at Thanksgiving and seemed fine. I guess it goes to show how you just never know.
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lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 11:19 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
I'm so sorry for your loss LadyQ
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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 11:19 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
(((ladyq))))
That is so painful I can't imagine. I hope your family and you can find some peace from happy memories at this time.
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selkiescot ( member #23777) posted at 11:41 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
OH i am so sorry to hear that. May he find peace and love in the light.
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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 11:52 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
(((LadyQ and family)))
I'm so sorry for your loss.
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 11:55 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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LeftBehind08 ( member #38705) posted at 12:54 AM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2013
hugs. Absolute sadness. My prayers to his family and yours.
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movingforward777 ( member #6850) posted at 2:51 AM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2013
Sorry for your loss...HUGS
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Grace and Flowers ( member #34431) posted at 4:35 AM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2013
I'm so sorry for your loss. Incomprehensible.
A few years ago there was a local obit with a picture of a young man/older teenager. It said that his parents requested that in lieu of flowers or donations, you give your kids hug every day. That's been up on my fridge ever since.
worried_lady ( member #27605) posted at 4:37 AM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2013
Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over it became a butterfly.
hurting2much ( member #25643) posted at 2:22 PM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2013
(((((ladyQ))))))))). So very sorry.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 2:59 PM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2013
(((LadyQ & family)))
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. 
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 10:59 PM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2013
(((((LadyQ and family))))) I am so very sorry.
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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 11:11 PM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2013
(((LadyQ)))
Suicide is the worst tragedy. I'm sorry for you and your family and wish you weren't experiencing this.
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Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 11:57 PM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2013
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metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 12:13 AM on Thursday, December 12th, 2013
(((((((LadyQ))))))))
I am so terribly sorry for the loss of your nephew.
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 3:43 AM on Thursday, December 12th, 2013
I'm so sorry LadyQ - that is heartbreaking.
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tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 3:48 AM on Thursday, December 12th, 2013
I'm so sorry. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers tonight.
(((LadyQ)))
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PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 4:38 AM on Thursday, December 12th, 2013
Very sad thing to go through. So sorry.
lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 2:22 PM on Thursday, December 12th, 2013
I'm so sorry, LadyQ. Suicide is always sad, but somehow just before Christmas, it just seems so much sadder. A young man (46--young to me)who worked for me in the early years of my former business committed suicide last week. His elderly parents are devastated. I wouldn't be surprised if they pass away in the next year just from shock and grief, broken hearts. Suicide fixes things for the committer; it creates a whole new set of problems for the poor people left behind. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
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