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imagoodwitch (original poster member #23375) posted at 5:42 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2020
I’m taking a huge leap today.
I’ve worked for the same company for 10 years. Every 2 years or so we go through a “restructuring”.
After every one I seem to move further down the food chain.
I haven’t gotten a really good raise in salary, ever really.
Looking out in the real world I see that what my job is has the potential to pay a lot more at other companies.
I’m applying for a new job today.
If you could send some good vibes my way I would really appreciate it.
This is really a big deal for me 
I always though I would retire from my company but this upheaval every couple of years is really bothering me.
Granted, I am the only person who does what I do company wide, I’m not feeling the love if you know what I mean.
Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 5:43 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2020
(((IMA)))
GO for it. You are awesome, and should never accept less than you deserve.
MoJo heading your way.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
thatbpguy ( member #58540) posted at 5:59 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2020
Yeah! Step out and go for it. Nothing wrong with improving your lot in the working world. When you get the interview, just be yourself.
ME: BH Her: WW DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left; Divorced Remarried to a wonderful woman
"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis
As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...
Gottagetthrough ( member #27325) posted at 6:00 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2020
Happy thoughts and good vibes to you!!!!
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 6:04 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2020
Lots of MOJO and light to flood over you although I don't think you will need the help.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 6:38 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2020
Mojo and positive bovines being sent
Way to go taking this leap to make things better.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 7:19 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2020
You got it ima!!!! MOJO MOJO MOJO!!!!!
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 8:32 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2020
Here's to a successful job hunt!
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Notthevictem ( member #44389) posted at 8:35 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2020
moving and shaking mojo coming your way!
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 8:50 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2020
This is really a big deal for me
Then I am sending really big vibes and a wand full of mojo your way.
You've got to keep us posted!
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
imagoodwitch (original poster member #23375) posted at 9:14 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2020
It’s in the hands of the powers that be!
I applied!
It’s full time remote which is what I’ve been doing since the middle of March anyway
The firm is in California, I don’t live in California
Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 9:15 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2020
Best of luck, and yay for you for going for it!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
number4 ( member #62204) posted at 9:44 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2020
Me: BWHim: WHMarried - 30+ yearsTwo adult daughters1st affair: 2005-20072nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addictionStatus: R
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 4:15 AM on Saturday, October 3rd, 2020
Crossing my fingers for you.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
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