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Found out my boyfriend told chatgpt he wanted to cheat on me with his manager

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 Ladykaina (original poster new member #86982) posted at 11:32 PM on Monday, January 26th, 2026

I used my boyfriend's computer to use the artificial intelligence chat for school. Only to find out he was using the artificial intelligence chat to talk about wanting to fuck his manager on the day of last year August 18 2025. For a bit of background story (I accused him for several months prior of having a crush on this manager because he would constantly look at her instagram page,he swore he didn't but than eventually confessed he did have a crush. I told him to stop going on her instagram page as it's disrespectful and he did it one more time resulting in a huge argument where I demanded he delete the whole instagram app or we're done. He complied and deleted the instagam app saying he doesn't want to lose me.) so I discovered the artificial intelligence in their prior conversation back in 2025 told him it was a bad idea to cheat on his girlfriend Then my boyfriend states "I'm just going to do it anyway".The artificial intelligence asked him why does he want to do it. does he know how much devastation it would cause then he says "but she has a big Asian ass" the artificial intelligence then says would he like for it to at least suggest ways for him to not cheat and then he said"yes". What gets me so angry was during the time he asked the artificial intelligence this question we had a huge argument over money and he apologized to me for being wrong that day. When I assume secretly he still felt angry and was debating if he should cheat on me. I confronted my boyfriend about it and he began crying begging me not to leave him for something he wrote back in 2025.he said he was just trolling the app and wanted to see what it would say about him cheating but had no intention on actually cheating on me. He said he took our relationship for granted back than he felt I would always be there no matter what. I said so you thought I'd be there if you cheated? He said no I just thought that if I did stuff like this which isn't as bad as actually going out cheating that you would stick by me and nothing would really happen.so I kicked him out of our home and he went to stay with his moms temporarily. I miss him so badly and he's told me he's learned his lesson. he's swears up and down he wasn't going to physically cheat on me with his coworker/manager. but I don't know if I can believe him after what I've seen from his artificial intelligence conversation. I don't know why it's so hard for me to just leave him after all of this. Because I still love him.

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TryingToBeTough ( new member #86978) posted at 11:53 PM on Monday, January 26th, 2026

Thoughts can easily turn into behavior. Sometimes discussing thoughts can help suppress the behavior but this isn't it.

Also, did he literally mention that woman has a big Asian ass?

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The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 12:47 AM on Tuesday, January 27th, 2026

Umm no he was planning to cheat. This wasn’t idle behavior - he was looking up how to do it and get what he wanted.

Hes not the guy you think he is.

Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.

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DobleTraicion ( member #78414) posted at 1:28 AM on Tuesday, January 27th, 2026

I don't know why it's so hard for me to just leave him after all of this. Because I still love him.

Understood. It gets minimized a lot but emotional enmeshment is a powerful thing. At the end of the day though, self preservation has to kick in at some point, particularly when dealing with blatant betrayal or plans to do so which this clearly is. I also think when there is a disparity in affinity (youre into him more than he is into you), a kind of love blindness exists.

Put bluntly, you have plenty of cause to move on from him....with haste.

I wish you well.

"You'd figure that in modern times, people wouldn't feel the need to get married if they didn't agree with the agenda"

~ lascarx

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Geroginavon ( new member #86984) posted at 2:00 AM on Tuesday, January 27th, 2026

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 Ladykaina (original poster new member #86982) posted at 2:48 AM on Tuesday, January 27th, 2026

"Umm no he was planning to cheat. This wasn’t idle behavior - he was looking up how to do it and get what he wanted.

Hes not the guy you think he is."

I would think so but the artificial intelligence asked him if he would like to hear ways on how to avoid cheating with his manager towards the end and he said yes. If he was just looking to cheat on me and get tips on it he wouldn't have said yes to the question at the end

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 Ladykaina (original poster new member #86982) posted at 2:53 AM on Tuesday, January 27th, 2026

"Also, did he literally mention that woman has a big Asian ass?"

Unfortunately

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 Ladykaina (original poster new member #86982) posted at 2:55 AM on Tuesday, January 27th, 2026

"Understood. It gets minimized a lot but emotional enmeshment is a powerful thing. At the end of the day though, self preservation has to kick in at some point, particularly when dealing with blatant betrayal or plans to do so which this clearly is. I also think when there is a disparity in affinity (youre into him more than he is into you), a kind of love blindness exists."

I've used artificial intelligence to troll it and see what it would say sometimes. But I would never put up my relationship for that type of risk. I'm conflicted because part of me wants to believe that he was just trolling the application. But another part of me is worried that he was trying to find ways to cheat as you say.

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Formerpeopleperson ( member #85478) posted at 4:01 AM on Tuesday, January 27th, 2026

He failed the boyfriend test.

Move on.

It’s never too late to live happily ever after

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