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hexed ( member #19258) posted at 2:06 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
(((PPGA))))
we are all here when you're ready. i'm sorry it didn't go well. continued prayers and good thoughts for all of you.
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 2:47 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Sending strength, good thoughts, prayers, hugs, and hope.
lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 2:53 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
You have been in my thoughts and prayers, PPGA. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. It must be so very hard to not be able to help your child. I know there's nothing we can do, but I so wish there was. (((PPGA)))
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:57 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
(((((ppga & family))))) Sending you strength and comfort, honey.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
painpaingoaway (original poster member #27196) posted at 3:50 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Oh HFSSC, I appreciate you asking for prayers for us. Not overstepping at all.
So here's a brief synopsis I sent out to friends and family yesterday of what went down yesterday morning...another massive system failure.
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I'm typing this from a rest stop off I-95 where I stopped to cry and take a klonopin.
For those of you that don't know, after 2 months of waiting, DS23 finally got the call on Friday that a spot had opened up at the XXX rehab in XYZ.
We were there bright and early this morning, full of hope for a better tomorrow. Even though he was there for help, and had a good attitude, things went very very wrong, and they refused DS admittance. Things went from bad to worse, and it was almost as bad as the horrible scene at ABC Mental Health clinic 2 yrs ago. I was able to calm him enough so that they didn't call the police, but it came very very close.
I simply could not cope, and I left DS at a bus station in XYZ to get back home on his own, since I had already planned to go on to (different city) today, and then on to the farm from there.
I have no idea how DS will get back to where his truck is, his phone battery was dying, so he may not even be able to call anyone.
F**K IT ALL!!!!!!!
D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:58 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 3:58 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
WTH?
I'm so sorry, ppga.
So very sorry.
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 4:00 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
PPGA,
That is horrible. I am so sorry to hear he didn't get admitted.
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
painpaingoaway (original poster member #27196) posted at 4:32 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
I will provide a better explanation of what happened when I can find the time to write it all out.
D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk
Crushed1 ( member #6449) posted at 5:59 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
((((ppga, DS, family)))) So sorry about the current setback. My heart breaks for you and DS.
~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 6:37 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Oh no!!! ((((ppga, DS, family))))
I'm so sorry the shit has hit the fan, I am thinking of you all and sending STRENGTH, positive thoughts and tons of MOJO your way. I hope this can get straightened out, and that he will be able to get the help he needs.
((((ppga & DS))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 8:13 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
(((ppga, DS, family)))
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 8:29 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
((ppga)) I'm so sorry you are going through this 
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 9:23 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
What???
I know you're doing everything you can, (((ppga))). Is there a group familiar with these types of trials and tribulations that can help advocate for him??
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 11:10 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 11:16 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
I'm sorry, ppga. What a roller-coaster this is for you.
{{{hugs}}}
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
rainagain ( member #14917) posted at 4:39 AM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013
I'm sorry ((((ppga))))
Praying for DS
Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:11 done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love- Marino Me: Divorced
click4it ( member #209) posted at 4:55 AM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013
oh my....so sorry. My heart goes out to you. ((((hugs))))))
Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 2:10 AM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
You and your family are in my prayers. Sending strength, mojo, light, love-whatever you need to you.
Hugs
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
JanetS ( member #2766) posted at 2:34 AM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
A big hug goes out to you from Canada. I'm so so sorry. I hope you find your answer, soon. Can you contact somebody in government and see if you can set a fire under somebody's ass?
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