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katherine41 (original poster member #5792) posted at 10:20 PM on Thursday, September 13th, 2007
I still think this. So I'm sending it up for the new folks today and for the new d-days.
needhelp911 ( new member #15819) posted at 1:27 AM on Friday, September 14th, 2007
Thank you K. I wish I had this post when I was going through mine. What a Wh... :
still confounded ( member #7826) posted at 1:15 AM on Thursday, September 20th, 2007
"Sometimes, the rest of your life starts with goodbye."
D-day April 2005
(Married 33 years, together 35)
Divorced Dec. '05
Life is good, but it took a long time to heal.
madseason ( member #13224) posted at 2:24 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2007
Lose my breath in waves
Knowing that every crash is bleeding the hourglass
And taking the stride
From all our lives
*Somewhere, far away from here, I saw stars. Stars that I could reach.*
still confounded ( member #7826) posted at 3:29 AM on Monday, October 1st, 2007
"Sometimes, the rest of your life starts with goodbye."
D-day April 2005
(Married 33 years, together 35)
Divorced Dec. '05
Life is good, but it took a long time to heal.
k9lover1 ( member #8531) posted at 6:45 PM on Friday, October 5th, 2007
D-Day was 10/9/05
He promised NC. He lied. After 4 chances, I kicked him out 1/05/06.
Since then I have survived cancer surgery and a heart attack.
Now he's sorry, but it's too late. He died an alcoholic on 9/5/17.
tintrouble ( member #15893) posted at 10:20 PM on Friday, October 5th, 2007
Thank you...concrete guidelines help so much when everything is topsy turvy.
wonderingbull ( member #14833) posted at 6:06 AM on Saturday, October 6th, 2007
Here here!.... I'm now 6 months from d-day and 11 some months from when it started...
Best advice I've ever been given and wish I had taken...
Once again Katherine, another piece of wisdom of yours is now in my permanent reading section... Saved and understood..
Thank you,
WB
The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...
James Taylor
ddub ( member #16489) posted at 9:59 AM on Thursday, October 11th, 2007
D-Day 10/3/7
me-bs 45
she-ws 43, coworker, married/divorcing
S9, S18, married 23 years, HS sweethearts, my Morgenstern
In Limbo...
Fallen: "Your husband is right- he's showing you how love works. You don't give up."
schmuzX2 ( member #16491) posted at 1:18 PM on Thursday, October 11th, 2007
I am printing a copy of this thread and reading it ALL THE TIME!!! Katherine, thank you for your strength. I admire you.
k9lover1 ( member #8531) posted at 1:41 PM on Wednesday, October 24th, 2007
D-Day was 10/9/05
He promised NC. He lied. After 4 chances, I kicked him out 1/05/06.
Since then I have survived cancer surgery and a heart attack.
Now he's sorry, but it's too late. He died an alcoholic on 9/5/17.
bigsigh ( member #16722) posted at 6:26 PM on Wednesday, October 24th, 2007
Thanks so much for bumping this! It will help me a lot.....I'm just starting this lousy rollercoater.
Librasrock ( member #9453) posted at 6:34 PM on Wednesday, October 24th, 2007
There it is!!!! I was wondering where this thread was.
AWESOME THREAD 
kaliptus27 ( member #8201) posted at 8:21 PM on Wednesday, October 24th, 2007
"I love you, Samantha..."
"I love you too, Richard...but I love me more." - Sex and the City
still confounded ( member #7826) posted at 12:04 AM on Friday, October 26th, 2007
bumping again -- this, the most helpful, insightful, right-on-ful post, imho, on the way to cope and move forward when one has ...
just found out.
"Sometimes, the rest of your life starts with goodbye."
D-day April 2005
(Married 33 years, together 35)
Divorced Dec. '05
Life is good, but it took a long time to heal.
lostsuol ( member #13706) posted at 2:55 AM on Friday, October 26th, 2007
Bump...
This really deserves a spot in the Healing Library.
OnlyLonely ( member #14326) posted at 3:05 AM on Friday, October 26th, 2007
I think I may have posted on here pages back, but if it wasn't for this thread that i read right after dday. I highly doubt I'd be where I am now, I learned so much and the foggy jerk that I was with when I first read this is now in the past.
thanks again for your insight and sharing it really helped me.
Me: BS
Him: FWH
Married: 18 years
Status: In R
still confounded ( member #7826) posted at 1:57 AM on Tuesday, November 6th, 2007
"Sometimes, the rest of your life starts with goodbye."
D-day April 2005
(Married 33 years, together 35)
Divorced Dec. '05
Life is good, but it took a long time to heal.
katherine41 (original poster member #5792) posted at 2:20 AM on Monday, November 12th, 2007
^^^^
Reading some tonight in JFO and see the classic "my WS is angry at me for calling the other BS" and the "it
s your fault" bullshit.
KarenDC ( member #11715) posted at 1:51 PM on Monday, November 12th, 2007
Great post, what I would have done for this info "when I found out". I couldn't breathe or think, but I know if I had this knowledge, it would have helped me, and shortened the time & BS my FWH gave.
Infidelity is so TEXTBOOK, who would've thought!!!
Especially to those with recent DDAYS, this post is gospel, READ IT!
Me-BS; Him-FWS; Both late 50s
Together 42/Married 36yrs
D-Day 1/3/2005 total shock by me
D-Day #2 4/25/2017 numb
Divorcing
"What you feel only matters to you, what matters is what you do to those you claim to love"
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