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truthsetmefree ( member #7168) posted at 3:55 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2008
I have said and will say again, there is only one relationship *guaranteed* to last a lifetime and that is the one you have with yourself, so make it a good one!
Balancing Act ~ in response to "My conversation with myself"
So true!!! 
Hope has two beautiful daughters; their names are Anger and Courage. Anger at the way things are, and Courage to see that they do not remain as they are. ~ Augustine of Hippo
Funny thing, I quit being broken when I quit letting people break me.
unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 7:34 PM on Sunday, August 10th, 2008
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=248317&AP=21&HL=20111
tryingtwo
No matter how much love you have to give, if it is not appreciated and given back with care, concern, kindness, empathy, tenderness, patience, conversations of depth and fidelity, if the love is returned to you twisted and stabbing you with pain, then this is not love. That is not what love is.
11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.
Threnody ( member #1558) posted at 7:50 PM on Monday, August 11th, 2008
My momma always says it's three days of the pain getting worse before it gets better. Of course she's crazy so she may not be the one to listen to.
From hurtingstudent. 
“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown
unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 12:45 PM on Tuesday, August 12th, 2008
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=247945&AP=81&HL=19862
toonice
I'm really giving her a chance to fix her brokenness. And she is wavering back & forth on trying to fix that. Whether she has affairs or not is really the issue. I was overlooking her lack of respect, her distance, her psychoanalizing, because I loved her. But that's the real problem in the relationship that will end it. Not another A. Not another d-day. If she strays again, it will be because she didn't fix her brokenness. I'll be long gone before that happens.
11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.
imokay ( member #3522) posted at 4:02 PM on Tuesday, August 12th, 2008
If I wouldn't have gone to jail I would have probably crammed his ass in the fireplace after D-Day. But the authorities frown on that, so it was just non-living items that went up in smoke.
DSM88 on 'that red shirt' thread in Reconciliation.
[This message edited by imokay at 10:04 AM, August 12th (Tuesday)]
Me: BS - 58 now
Him: WS - 60 now
Married 21 years at time of A
EA/PA that lasted 10 months.
DD: 2/10/02
Fully reconciled.
What lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us.
dazdandconfuzed ( member #11692) posted at 5:53 PM on Tuesday, August 12th, 2008
For fuck's sake just call yourself Riley, you pretentious penis cozy.
LadyV. Does it really matter which thread?
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 12:10 AM on Wednesday, August 13th, 2008
My ex still says I am controlling when I use my boundaries. It just means I am not giving him what he wants. I always take it as a sign that I am doing a good job.
lied2
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 12:13 AM on Wednesday, August 13th, 2008
ummm- feelin stoopid,
(hey that's ok, it's a pretty familiar feeling)
What does a penis cozy have to do with Riley?
or-
Are you going to L.A., or by bus?
Threnody ( member #1558) posted at 11:51 PM on Wednesday, August 13th, 2008
Never, under any circumstances, thrust out your erection and make light saber noises while moving it back and forth.
No, we don't want to feel if the 'force' is strong in that one.
NewAttitude's romantic advice to men. She says it wasn't her husband who did this. Yeah. Right.
“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown
RumbleSeat ( member #18401) posted at 1:39 AM on Thursday, August 14th, 2008
The First cut is the deepest(any version) (My version goes "The whore's c**t is the cheapest" and continues from there)
Layla22--Infidelity Songs Thread
BS--39 Years Old
A Father of 2 Beautiful Sons,
3 & 5 years old
DD-Feb 16 2005
Divorced April 15th 2008 @11:13am
--We are sometimes taken into troubled waters not to drown, but to be cleansed--
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 7:17 PM on Thursday, August 14th, 2008
And I can show her that, to be imperfect, is ok.
WhiteWolfWinning about being a parent
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 1:34 AM on Sunday, August 17th, 2008
We ARE here to help the fuck out of people
From a conversation between NA and KDNY
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
WhiteWolfWinning ( member #12475) posted at 1:49 AM on Monday, August 18th, 2008
I swear nothing surprises me anymore...some idiot has Bigfoot in his freezer and married men send out wedding invitations to their next wedding before they are divorced from their current wife....The world has gone insane!
LizXJS in Wild Bananas thread about her asshat stbx sending out wedding invites while he is still married.
Wolf
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God
Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens
aesir ( member #17210) posted at 4:54 AM on Wednesday, August 20th, 2008
I'm always stunned by the brillance of aesir.
Uhmm, does it matter? How could I not quote this?
Okay, it was HeartbrokeHope32 in http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=250092&HL=17210
As an F&G regular, I can only think she has not been paying attention
Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.
Do not back up. Severe tire damage.
hissadwife ( member #14982) posted at 5:05 PM on Wednesday, August 20th, 2008
It's a curious thing; the rate of miscarriage in OW is second only to the rate of miscarriage among daytime soap characters.
ladyvorkosigan, brilliant as usual, in NumbForNow's "She might be pregnant, what do I do?!?" thread: http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=250388&AP=1
Does this wedding ring make my dick look big?
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 12:36 AM on Saturday, August 23rd, 2008
blame is the only recourse of those without courage.
TrulyReconciled
Heartless Bytchh ( member #12347) posted at 9:29 PM on Sunday, August 24th, 2008
oh. and don't pet the sweaty stuff.
JJ, on the friendly reminder from the mods thread in G.
ewwww, just ewwww
Woodchipper pretty much trumps everything.-Rufus Turner
Sometimes I feel like SI is that person who says... "if you can't say anything nice... come sit by me!"-rumorhasit
HeartbrokeHope32 ( member #17247) posted at 4:44 PM on Monday, August 25th, 2008
I'm always stunned by the brillance of aesir.
Uhmm, does it matter? How could I not quote this?
Okay, it was HeartbrokeHope32 in http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=250092&HL=17210
As an F&G regular, I can only think she has not been paying attention
I finally get quoted...and this is what gets picked...
how humble you are aesir
me-29
him-28
Dday-11/07/07
"What lies behind us, and what lies
before us are small matters
compared to what lies within us."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
neverendinghurt ( member #15859) posted at 7:42 PM on Monday, August 25th, 2008
You're so pathetic that even you realize how pathetic you are.
Cluelessblond in one of her vents!
The life of every man is a diary in which he means to write one story, and writes another; and his humblest hour is when he compares the volume as it is with what he vowed to make it.
James M. Barrie
Dreamboat ( member #10506) posted at 9:36 PM on Monday, August 25th, 2008
You walk around like you're Mr. Amazing God's Gift to Womankind and, in reality, you're just a shriveled up penis pretending to be a porn star.
CluelessBlond, same vent. It was a really really good vent!! 
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
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