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hopefull77 ( member #43221) posted at 10:59 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
me-BS him-WS
" I will not define myself by what went wrong yesterday when I can draw upon Life and Love right now."
fareast ( Moderator #61555) posted at 11:09 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Never bother with things in your rearview mirror. Your best days are on the road in front of you.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 11:19 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Congratulations everyone!!
Phoenix - you look GREAT in purple!! 
and fl - as I have already posted on your threads, I am especially proud of you, one of the very few FW's that I have (virtually) given hugs to
Bigger - I have no idea how you are going to have time to add to your already heavy SI 'workload', but it is greatly appreciated
Oldwounds, Unhinged - Green it is!!
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
Barregirl ( member #63523) posted at 12:32 PM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Congrats everyone! Well deserved for all you do!
Marie2792 ( member #44958) posted at 12:57 PM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Congratulations! Nice choice of staff. We are, as always, in great hands.
Me: BS,48 (41 at dday)Him: WS, 56 (49 at dday)Married 27 years, together 30 Dday : 9/9/14 3 week PA
waitedwaytoolong ( member #51519) posted at 1:22 PM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Terrific choices. Great posters who always have good sane advice.
I am the cliched husband whose wife had an affair with the electrician
Divorced
foreverlabeled ( member #52070) posted at 1:44 PM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Now that you have moved up to a corner office on the top floor, with keys to the executive lunchroom and bathroom, your own parking space and all the other fabulous perks and never ending glory that comes from being part of such an amazing team
It's more like moved below the building to a cold concrete room, no windows, a little damp, smells funny. Ya know a dungeon but hey they have cookies 
FTR, nothing has changed except the color of my name which really brings out the green in my eyes lol I'm just going to keep on as usual, kicking ass and chewing bubblegum.
Thanks Zen and everyone else 
CaptainRogers ( member #57127) posted at 2:49 PM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Excellent choices across the board!
BS: 42 on D-day
WW: 43 on D-day
Together since '89; still working on what tomorrow will bring.
D-Day v1.0: Jan '17; EA
D-day v2.0: Mar '18; no, it was physical
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 3:19 PM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Welcome to the Executive Suite, all.... Enjoy the 'perks'. 
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
onlytime ( member #45817) posted at 4:11 PM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Excellent choices!!
R'd w/ BetterFuture13
T 20+ yrs w/ adult kids 😇 + grands
"The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall" ~Nelson Mandela
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 8:50 PM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
THANK YOU to all who so generously contribute your time, wisdom, kindness, and guidance to all of us navigating the world of infidelity survival. Folks like you really help remind me that there are not only good people in the world, but truly WONDERFUL people.
Congratulations and a huge thanks!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
BlueIris ( member #47551) posted at 11:21 PM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Bravo! What a fabulous group of folks all around!
BW | Dday 2-20-2015 + TT for several weeks
"The truth will set you free but first it will piss you off."
annb ( member #22386) posted at 12:07 AM on Sunday, June 30th, 2019
Congratulations!
Tallgirl ( member #64088) posted at 12:47 AM on Sunday, June 30th, 2019
Wonderful choices! Thank you so much for all of your insights. Always in awe!!!
Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 2:17 AM on Sunday, June 30th, 2019
When I was invited by the staff to volunteer as a guide, I felt deeply honored and immediately agreed. To this day, I still feel an urge to keep on "paying it forward." I don't think I have the words to describe just how profoundly SI has impacted my life and the future of my family. I found tremendous wisdom here and endless compassion from some of the most extraordinary people I've ever known. I've learned far more about myself and simply being human than I could have ever imagined.
It's truly been a long, strange trip.
As you find your own way forward, recover and heal from the betrayal, as you find your way out of infidelity, always remember that the journey itself is worth every step.
Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022
"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown
Emotionalhell ( member #39902) posted at 3:44 AM on Sunday, June 30th, 2019
Me BS x2. 50ish Divorced WH #1. IHS with wayward #2 Dday #1 Oct. 2014Dday # 2 August 2018. Dday #3 December 17th.
PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 4:08 PM on Sunday, June 30th, 2019
Wonderful choices. Thanks to all for your service.
destroyed1 ( member #56901) posted at 6:06 PM on Sunday, June 30th, 2019
Me - BH 51, 2 kids, married 30 yrs
The things that you want in life are impossible to achieve if your energy is flowing in the opposite direction.
TX1995 ( member #58175) posted at 7:21 PM on Sunday, June 30th, 2019
Wise and thoughtful additions. Thanks to everyone who volunteers their time and energy to this site.
I'm the BS. WH had an EA/PA with a cOW. DDay was 4/17. Working on R. Married 15 years and together 20 at DDay.
DDay #2 and #3 6/19. Grew a conscience and admitted a full blown physical affair.
Current and forever status is reconciling. I don't
Walloped ( member #48852) posted at 7:38 PM on Sunday, June 30th, 2019
Absolutely fantastic!
What a stellar group. SI is a wonderful place in no small part due to your involvement.
Me: BH 47
Her: WW 46
DDay 8/3/15
"Every life is a pile of good things and bad things. The good things don’t always soften the bad things, but vice versa the bad things don’t necessarily spoil the good things or make them unimportant.” - The Doctor
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