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Trying2Survive2 ( member #25758) posted at 1:09 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2011
Here's hoping today is the day!
Faithful Wife ME 52
FWH 47
DDAY #1 1/11/09 EA Online ONLY (NC)
DDAY #2 6/2010 Admitted PA with the same PIG(12/08)
"Anything may be betrayed, anyone may be forgiven, but not those who lack the courage of their own greatness"
crossbar ( member #19981) posted at 4:17 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2011
Wow, this is killin me. For some reason, I have a feeling the results will either be negative or inconclusive.
GingerBird ( member #19097) posted at 9:12 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2011
In the nicest possible way, I hope the result come quickly for you and I hope they are positive.
Knowing really really hurts but if you 'know' you have a basis for moving forward. Suspicion/gaslighting is the killer
(((ChoppingOnions)))
"True happiness does not come from experiencing pleasures of the body and ego—but from having experiences that stimulate your core self—your “soul”—challenging and inspiring you to grow into your highest potential as a person"
Soulfulwhim ( member #29095) posted at 5:59 AM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011
I've been following this thread and while I can't offer you any adive that the others haven't already, I wanted to let you know that I feel for you. I hope you find the answers you seek. Your strength in this matter is inspiring.
Me: BS 30
Him: WH 23
Married 4 years
DS 1/11
2 angel babys 12/08 and 4/10
D-day 6/8/10
Now divorced but wanting R
ChoppingOnions (original poster member #31671) posted at 7:38 AM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011
I can't thank you guys enough for the messages of support. I know it's only a few words on the keyboard, but having the backup and advice from those who have dealt with this before really does help. I remain determined!
I called the lab today after not hearing from them. They said "probably Thursday". 
Nothing else to report, cough, i-tips, cough, cough.
BS(me)-44
WW-43
Married-15 yrs
Daughter-(4)
D-Day: 5/31/11(EA/??PA)
D-Day #2 (PA), #3, #4: 6/1/11 (WTF?!)
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 10:26 AM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011
((((CO))))
Just a few more (agonizing!!!) days, hang in there. We are all pulling for you.
((((CO))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
Trying2Survive2 ( member #25758) posted at 10:31 AM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011
UGGG THURS!!!
Well....almost there Onion....almost there...
Hang in there bud.
Faithful Wife ME 52
FWH 47
DDAY #1 1/11/09 EA Online ONLY (NC)
DDAY #2 6/2010 Admitted PA with the same PIG(12/08)
"Anything may be betrayed, anyone may be forgiven, but not those who lack the courage of their own greatness"
ChoppingOnions (original poster member #31671) posted at 10:44 AM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011
UGGG THURS!!!
Yeah, Uggg! It could happen before then though. The test is sent to another (more experienced) lab in another state, so it really depends on the far-away lab to get their $#!^ done.
As long as they get it right, I can wait a few more days, I guess (not that I have a choice).
BS(me)-44
WW-43
Married-15 yrs
Daughter-(4)
D-Day: 5/31/11(EA/??PA)
D-Day #2 (PA), #3, #4: 6/1/11 (WTF?!)
Trying2Survive2 ( member #25758) posted at 10:53 AM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011
I have this overwhelming feeling...that she's going to wish she tossed that pair of panties in the trashcan, before she left the hotel...
Where they belonged...
Just sayin....
Faithful Wife ME 52
FWH 47
DDAY #1 1/11/09 EA Online ONLY (NC)
DDAY #2 6/2010 Admitted PA with the same PIG(12/08)
"Anything may be betrayed, anyone may be forgiven, but not those who lack the courage of their own greatness"
Enchantress ( member #31792) posted at 10:59 AM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011
have this overwhelming feeling...that she's going to wish she tossed that pair of panties in the trashcan, before she left the hotel...
My intuition thinks its going to be the other way around.
I hope you're not left in limbo!
Nothing else to report, cough, i-tips, cough, cough.
Its late, whats this? 
Faithful Wife (me)
Husband (cwshubby)
M 15 years
DD 3/24/11 EA
4 Bee-Yoo-Ti-Ful Grandchildren
In R(ecovery) and openly accepting R, thanks to SI in helping us both understand
ChoppingOnions (original poster member #31671) posted at 11:26 AM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011
Its late, whats this?
Sorry to be cryptic. See my recent post history there (and explanation why). PM me if you don't figure it out.
BS(me)-44
WW-43
Married-15 yrs
Daughter-(4)
D-Day: 5/31/11(EA/??PA)
D-Day #2 (PA), #3, #4: 6/1/11 (WTF?!)
birdy ( member #30937) posted at 12:32 PM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011
This waiting must be torture. Maybe it will be a blessing, giving you more time to gather other evidence. Thinking of you.
Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 3:07 PM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011
CO, good luck to you. I got test results in 6 hours but I think it was because the PI handled it personally and waited at the lab for the results. It was one of the first pieces of the puzzle to be solved for me.
"Because I deserve better"
jsatriani2010 ( member #30285) posted at 3:21 PM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011
Me: 66
Her: 64
DS: 29
Married 42 years
areyouserious ( member #31642) posted at 9:18 PM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011
Hang in there, bud. You can believe that WE'RE pulling for you.
palerider ( member #22496) posted at 12:28 AM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2011
Saw your post about the French rap CD. Was this last trip to France?
crossbar ( member #19981) posted at 3:25 PM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2011
Hoping tomorrow will be the day! I don't know how you are able to cope for this long!
Running In Place ( member #31721) posted at 3:29 PM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2011
How has she been acting the past few days?
Be prepared....backlash will be strong I beleive....be strong
Me - BS 41
Her- WW 42
Together 11 yrs, Married 9 years
D-Day November 26th, 2010 10:36am
2.5 week EA/PA Affair
TT-Day #3 Mar 3rd, 2011
3 Terrors 15, 14 & 5
In R
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ChoppingOnions (original poster member #31671) posted at 6:13 PM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2011
Saw your post about the French rap CD. Was this last trip to France?
Briefly there, and then another country. I know for certain OM wasn't in France.
How has she been acting the past few days?
Fairly normal, I'd say. Nothing that would indicate any significant suspicion.
She did send an email to him today:
Hi, just wanted to say hi. How are you doing? Kisses
No response that I've seen yet. No other emails between them on her phone since returning from her trip (certainly deleted).
No word from the lab today so far.
BS(me)-44
WW-43
Married-15 yrs
Daughter-(4)
D-Day: 5/31/11(EA/??PA)
D-Day #2 (PA), #3, #4: 6/1/11 (WTF?!)
SuspiciousOne ( member #19724) posted at 6:18 PM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2011
"Kisses"
Are you comfortable with you wife sending kisses to another man?
Regardless of what the test results are, are you comfortable with sharing her kissses?
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