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blackbirdfly ( member #41131) posted at 1:30 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
I haven't been around much, so I just saw this. I hope you're ok. I know that icy cold feeling all too well.
Tons of hugs and support and strength to you. Let me know if I can help at all.
Me: BW - 38
Him: WH - 39
Kids, yes.
Currently in Limbo, possible R. WH says he wants R. I'm not convinced.
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 1:32 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
((Razz family))
Hang in there, J. Have faith.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 2:03 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Sending you love Jrazz. I barely believe in this Mythical thing called R but I am rooting for you guys.
No matter what happens you are going to be OK.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 2:38 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Hope today is a much better day and that you get through it together and that you feel the love of VRazz.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 2:49 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Hope you have found a little peace, Jrazz. Hugs and love.
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 3:02 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Sending you loads of hugs and hopes that today is a better day.
((( Jrazz )))
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 3:10 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
I'm hoping today is a better day.
((((JRazz))))))
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 5:02 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Thanks everyone. Came straight here to collect hugs this morning. (Well, I detoured to the kitchen to assemble Miss Thang's pancakes and watermelon, THEN I came here.)
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 5:03 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
pancakes and watermelon
That's a new one! Extra syrupy hugs to you this morning if those are a thing.
tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 5:08 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
((((Jrazz))))
Hope today is better for you.
Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 7:22 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
"Pancakes and watermelon" I think I found my dinner for Grammy and DGD! Thanks for the dinner idea.
I hope today is better.
More hugs,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 11:38 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Today's ok. Wasn't as productive as I wanted to be, but the feeling in my chest is heavy. I have work tomorrow and my boogaloo's birthday on Sunday. Both are welcome distractions. I'm not a runner or a compartmentalizer by nature, but I think it's the way I'm going to have to do it this weekend to avoid getting overly emotional.
I have a counseling appointment on Monday which I am VERY much looking forward to.
Thanks to all who have sent PM's and fb messages and texts... I'm sorry if I haven't gotten back to you and I hope you understand. I will after this week. 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 11:44 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
(((Jrazz)))
I'm sorry I'm late to the thread, but I just saw this. 
I hope your weekend goes okay.
Unagie ( member #37091) posted at 11:52 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Take the distractions and enjoy yourself. You dont need that heaviness on you so I for one am glad you will do something distracting.
((((JRazz))))
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:01 AM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
(((Jrazz)))
Happy birthday to V - Watch out! She's gaining on you! 
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 12:01 AM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
I am sorry you have hit a dip. Glad you have a weekend full of plans.
You are an amazing and thoughtful woman. You deserve whatever you need in life.
Sending strength.
Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 12:21 AM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
Sending strength, love, peace and birthday greetings to little razz.
Hugs for mama.
Kajem
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 6:44 AM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 4:22 PM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
Jrazz, I always enjoy reading your posts. They lift me up and make me laugh. I hate that you are having a rough time.
(((((hugs)))))
Sending you mojo and good thoughts.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 4:26 PM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
((((Jrazz)))
Hugs for today. Hope it is going better.
Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB
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