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yearsofpain25 (original poster member #42012) posted at 8:38 PM on Tuesday, January 12th, 2016
I can't really go into specifics here but it's safe to say that the fit has really hit the shan this last week. Step momster has literally exploded and spewing venom about me in every direction she can. 
All I did was step between step momster and my father's estate. 
That's it. But apparently she racked up some bills expecting to get a hold of that money soon.
I did have some of the step momster texts forwarded to me which I got a kick out of. Really indicative of just how sick she is. I read the texts with my IC last night. I had a chuckle while IC pointed out that she really is crazy. Definitely a sociopath.
In other news step momster was spotted with her new boyfriend yesterday. It was suspected that she was having an A before my father's death. It would explain a lot of the lost time step momster wasn't around while my father was in ICU and Hospice. It's suspected that she had a few As on my father but only 1 confirmation.
Today I feel empowered. Something I have not felt too many times in my life. I have to say it feels really good to have a voice and not be under a PD's thumb. No emotional manipulation. They have no control over me. Feels great and I don't even have to do anything. I just get to sit and silently say this to her
Happy birthday bro. You are forever 17. May your voice be heard forever.
yop
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
CanoeVA ( member #46071) posted at 8:41 PM on Tuesday, January 12th, 2016
Me = BH
fWW- 2014 affair most of year; EA Feb/March became PA April until DDay
Married 1986
DDay- 12/08/14
2 adult children, mid 20s
OM = Wife's best friend's brother
We're both working on R
HobbesTheTiger ( member #41477) posted at 10:04 PM on Tuesday, January 12th, 2016
Thanks for the update. Stay strong, we're here for you!
nme1 ( member #44360) posted at 10:18 PM on Tuesday, January 12th, 2016
Well done YOP.
I know your brother and father would be so proud of you.
Me: BS
Him: WS
M 16 yrs 2 x DS
D-Day 6th March 2014
mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 10:27 PM on Tuesday, January 12th, 2016
Wow!!! YOP, that is great!
I know your brother and father would be so proud of you.
Yes, & I am so happy that you are feeling empowered and using your voice, after being so manipulated for so long. Its true---they have no more control over you!
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
earthangel ( member #44357) posted at 10:34 PM on Tuesday, January 12th, 2016
You are a man of integrity, I'm sure your departed loved ones are proud of you and your fight in their memory and honour.
Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it’s bad - it's experience.
MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 10:41 PM on Tuesday, January 12th, 2016
cool! thanks for the update, yop!!!
44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 10:47 PM on Tuesday, January 12th, 2016
Fist bump yop!!
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
Lovedyoumore ( member #35593) posted at 12:06 AM on Wednesday, January 13th, 2016
Reading with anticipation and vicarious intent. I wish you well.😇
Me 50's
WH 50's
Married 30+ years
2 young adult children
OW single 20 years younger
Together trying to R
Freedom's just another word for nothin' left to lose
Neverwudaguessed ( member #41884) posted at 10:44 AM on Wednesday, January 13th, 2016
Today I feel empowered. Something I have not felt too many times in my life. I have to say it feels really good to have a voice and not be under a PD's thumb. No emotional manipulation. They have no control over me
Can't put a price on that for sure! Glad to hear it and I hope that she gets what is coming to her. Poor baby about those bills, huh? Guess she should have treated your father with JUST a little bit more respect when she had the chance....
BW: 46 Me
WH:50
DDay1 9-9-13 (18th Wedding Anniversary) 6 wk EA, 1 wk PA
DDay2: 10-25-13 EA/PA with same OW 14 1/2 years ago for 2 or 3 months
OW: XGF Predator who never stopped pursuing WH
DS 15
DD 13
jen54 ( member #47812) posted at 7:28 PM on Wednesday, January 13th, 2016
Was feeling rather hopeless, as I finish reading YOP'S topic, I am encouraged. This process does have it's ups. Karma, oh sweet karma.
D Day= April 21, 2015
Me: BS
Husband: WS
Married 40 years, together 41
Affair 5 year
The journey is my home.
jen54 ( member #47812) posted at 7:28 PM on Wednesday, January 13th, 2016
Was feeling rather hopeless, as I finish reading YOP'S topic, I am encouraged. This process does have it's ups. Karma, oh sweet karma.
D Day= April 21, 2015
Me: BS
Husband: WS
Married 40 years, together 41
Affair 5 year
The journey is my home.
northeasternarea ( member #43214) posted at 7:54 PM on Wednesday, January 13th, 2016
Whether or not the will is overturned, you have the victory. Wishing you a blessed and prosperous life.
The only person you can change is yourself.
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 8:18 PM on Wednesday, January 13th, 2016
Very nice! Love it. Also any time I get to see Captain Picard it's a good day.
tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 8:48 PM on Wednesday, January 13th, 2016
Where are those clapping hands when I need them?!
Good job, I am happy to see you making headway with this!
Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 8:52 PM on Wednesday, January 13th, 2016
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 10:18 PM on Wednesday, January 13th, 2016
Dear Stepmomster,
Sincerely,
SI
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Walloped ( member #48852) posted at 11:31 PM on Wednesday, January 13th, 2016
tired girl - for you and for yop. If it was ever deserved...
Me: BH 47
Her: WW 46
DDay 8/3/15
"Every life is a pile of good things and bad things. The good things don’t always soften the bad things, but vice versa the bad things don’t necessarily spoil the good things or make them unimportant.” - The Doctor
yearsofpain25 (original poster member #42012) posted at 8:59 PM on Tuesday, January 26th, 2016
Thanks again for the kinds words and encouragement everyone.
Thought I would post a shits and giggles update.
My inside sources tell me that step momster officially has a new boyfriend and has been officially parading him around these past 2 weeks. It's been suspected that they have been together for a while. Apparently step momster needs to justify her new beau because my father's side of he bed isn't even cold yet. Eh, who am I kidding. My father hadn't slept in the same bedroom as him for the last few years because of his COPD anyway. I digress. Since there is some question there as to when they started dating, let alone become boyfriend/girlfriend, step momster feels the need to tell the following story.
Let me preface with step momster is psychic. Step momster has been telling people that her boyfriend is psychic and that my recently deceased father started coming to him to tell her boyfriend that he needs to take care of step momster. New beau is supposedly wealthy. At the same time my father has also been visiting with step momster and telling her that she should let new beau take care of her. So step momster reluctantly has agreed to have a relationship with new boyfriend. Step momster is not in love with the new boyfriend but because my father has been telling her it's ok, she's going forward with her new relationship.
There are some other theories as well from my inside sources. Some think that she has been doing on-line dating for a while. Well before my father's accident and that this was just the first guy that stuck around. Maybe the rest got wind early on of how crazy she really is?
Good luck to this new guy!! He's going to need it.
Oh, and for someone who is supposedly broke with no money, she has been going to the hairdresser 3 times a week for more than $200 a week. Gee... no wonder she is pissed off at me for filing a claim on my father's estate.
And the saga continues...
yop
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 9:03 PM on Tuesday, January 26th, 2016
Sorry yop I didn't catch that - they're psychic or
PSYCHO????
If she's spending that much at the hairdresser, I can only imagine how she looks 'raw'.
Fingers crossed for you ((((yop))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
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