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PippaPeach6 ( member #37523) posted at 8:09 PM on Thursday, January 24th, 2013
To try to get back with an emotionally-jacked, worthless, sack of lying shit? No, I can do woo the heart of something more stable than that at a shitty dive bar while farting the alphabet.
keptmyword in General
Whoa 
Tell me how you really feel? 
Us: 50ish, madhatters, married 20 odd yrs
TT: May 2009 'til June
DDay for both: June 17, 2009
Me: 2x, same person, 1991
Him: 1.5 year PA (EA?) 2007-2009
Reconciled
Honey Badger don't care. - Randall
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 11:18 PM on Thursday, January 24th, 2013
Oh I'm sure they both meant it when they said "I love you"
But that's only because it would take too much time to say "I am awash in a sea of serotonin and endorphins, and my brain is flooded with phenylethylamine. There is a huge hole in my personality that you are temporarily filling by putting in so much energy into this relationship, and I crave continued validation and soothing until such time as you are unable to fill the ever increasing void within me and this relationship crashes and burns"
Lonelyhusband in General about WS telling the AP "I love you".
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 10:39 AM on Friday, January 25th, 2013
fuck you, I'm co-parenting with a fucking muppet. and not one of the important ones, a lower muppet.
StrongButBroken
There is nothing, nothing in the world to add to this.
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 8:36 PM on Friday, January 25th, 2013
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
SoVerySadNow ( member #36711) posted at 6:30 PM on Saturday, January 26th, 2013
Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 10:31 PM on Monday, January 28th, 2013
wert, in a thread 'Is my IC right?':
No therapist is an oracle, unless they don't try to be one.
[Probably not an oracle even then, but wert posted an important truth here.]
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Afraid2LoveAgain ( member #11185) posted at 9:34 PM on Wednesday, January 30th, 2013
In thread about Dr. Phil show:
At some point, you cross the line between victim and volunteer. Not sure where that line is, but I am guessing it comes before 75 OW.
By Aesir
Poet Laureate of SI
BW -- 58
Divorced 2001
Re-married 2014--on what would have been our 35th anniversary
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 4:27 PM on Friday, February 1st, 2013
Yes, I had Captain Needypants, but yours is like Rear Admiral Senor Needy Pants with accompanying alpaca carrying dead weight. I would run from that.
Willowiris in NB on a thread about moving too fast after 2 dates.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
BaxtersBFF ( member #26859) posted at 2:20 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2013
She said that she was traveling with her father on a train one day and asked him a question about "sex sin". (She was quite young at the time.) He didn't answer immediately, but said, "Corrie, when the train stops, I want you to carry my suitcase." (Which was full of heavy watches and equipment.) She said, "Papa, I can't carry your suitcase. It's too heavy for me."
He smiled and said, "So is the answer to your question. So I will carry that until you are strong enough to carry it."
HFSSC on explaining things to kids in the D/S forum.
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 4:03 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2013
Still Going explaining why his house might not be clean from a thread in Off Topic on if you would date a women whose house was a pigsty...
Kids increase your laundry load by several orders of magnitude. The clean clothes on the couches mean you can't get to the crumbs and wrappers til they're done, but you're putting off the clothes until you get to the counters and floors but the dishes need done first, crap need to run laundry again since the kids spent 10 minutes outside but then smeared jelly all over themselves once they came in, goddamn cat hair need to sweep, when can I relax I work 8 hours a day with a 20 minute commute, need to help with homework before any of this but if I try to multi task then they WILL KILL EACH OTHER so I need to sit there between them like a dour faced temple guardian reminding them to write their vocab sentences or the DOOM OF NO COOKIES will descend upon them, shit it's 5 need to start dinner OKAY PUT THE GODDAMN CAT DOWN no no no YOUR SHOES DO NOT GO ON THE CEILING FAN.... do not.. do NOT turn that fan on.. take your finger off that switch.. FINGER OFF... I WILL SELL THE WII TO HOMELESS CROCODILES FOR PENNIES ON THE DOLLAR IF YOU TOUCH THAT CEILING FAN.... do not.. do NOT turn that fan on.. take your finger off that switch.. good... omg the spaghetti is on fire how the fuck does spaghetti catch fire...
fuck it lets get happy meals and watch clone wars. shove the laundry over so I got a place to sit.
[This message edited by Chrysalis123 at 5:44 PM, February 2nd (Saturday)]
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
silverhopes ( member #32753) posted at 4:21 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2013
^^^^ Started coughing, that made me laugh so hard. *wheezes* Gosh, StillGoing, you just wrote the anthem of single/primary parents everywhere!!!!! Geez, homeless crocodiles for pennies... lmfao
Aut viam inveniam aut faciam.
Betrayeddaddio ( member #30198) posted at 4:24 AM on Sunday, February 3rd, 2013
Uncertainone, in the wayward forum, eloquently summarizing infidelity.....until the last sentence!
Let's face it, affairs end marriages. They're designed to do that. Remorse after the fact doesn't erase the pain and destruction the choices made. That's a very big bowl of suck to swallow.
BH-42 WW-40 DD-5 DD-9 DD-11
D-Day 09/27/2010 Wayward wife had a 10 month A with married DB co-worker Separated Oct. 2013
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 4:37 AM on Sunday, February 3rd, 2013
Salted butter is in the red boxes, unsalted butter is in the fuck this stupid bullshit box. Just look at the box.
I am quoting a quote. I swear I use and/or laugh with this quote every single day. Still hilarious.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 7:03 PM on Sunday, February 3rd, 2013
I know, right? Classic.
The other instant classic is the "lower muppet" one. I just die every time I think about it.
[This message edited by nowiknow23 at 1:04 PM, February 3rd (Sunday)]
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
NoTriangles ( member #35985) posted at 10:22 PM on Sunday, February 3rd, 2013
double post 
[This message edited by NoTriangles at 4:26 PM, February 3rd (Sunday)]
Me: Finding my SunlightHim: Traitor in my FoxholeLet go or get dragged.
NoTriangles ( member #35985) posted at 10:22 PM on Sunday, February 3rd, 2013
OMG, StillGoing. I've always loved your posts. Even the ones I don't completely understand. And I'm very sorry I missed this one ^^^ in OT.
Freaking epically brilliant!
Rock on, dude.
[This message edited by NoTriangles at 4:23 PM, February 3rd (Sunday)]
Me: Finding my SunlightHim: Traitor in my FoxholeLet go or get dragged.
NoTriangles ( member #35985) posted at 11:53 PM on Monday, February 4th, 2013
meanwhile he's still got slutosaurus on speed dial.
Gonnabe2016 in JFO.
You go, girl!
Me: Finding my SunlightHim: Traitor in my FoxholeLet go or get dragged.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:34 AM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
Your freedom from anger will come from detachment. From lumping it all up, past and present, into a big ball of bullshit...and rather than throwing it back at his head, just gently rolling it towards him and saying in your head, "Here, you can have this back, it doesn't matter to me anymore."
Responding in anger makes those bad feelings bounce right back...
Gently rolling the BS back at him leaves it lying at his feet where it belongs.
Healingtree providing sage advice to a poster in D/S who is struggling with anger.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 8:57 PM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
Still going that is a classic and brilliant summation. Giving Denis Leary a run for his money.
Do they realize that they've shown up to the OLD table wearing a handle that is the internet equivalent of a face tattoo?[
Lady V in the Gunsnboobs4ever thread about OLD.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
aesir ( member #17210) posted at 4:46 AM on Monday, February 11th, 2013
... about as wise as going bear-huntin with a switch.
... is just sharpening the katana blade for Seppuku.
stilllovinghim in a thread in Wayward, with wisdom that is a combination of sophisticated knowledge of the world and it's various cultures combined with Granny Clampett.
Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.
Do not back up. Severe tire damage.
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