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thisissogross ( member #30294) posted at 6:31 AM on Sunday, April 6th, 2014
i edit frequently because i have to
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:31 PM on Wednesday, April 9th, 2014
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 6:03 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 12:14 AM on Friday, July 4th, 2014
Thought about this post this weekend.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
forgivingnow ( member #33549) posted at 8:06 PM on Thursday, October 2nd, 2014
I still carry this in my purse....I read this many times when I was not OK, when I was holding on and looking for strength.
Now, today, I AM OK.
I hope this inspires someone else too. Thank you again.
Me-BS 57
FWH-57
M 37yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yours
justme1264 ( member #42890) posted at 11:55 PM on Thursday, October 2nd, 2014
Love this post. This really helps when you are triggering.
Mac4 ( member #43122) posted at 3:37 AM on Friday, October 3rd, 2014
Jrazz - thank you for your thoughtful post
"you realize you are not only solely responsible for your own self-worth and happiness, but that you have the power to control both of these things."
I seem to struggle with learning this point over and over again.
BS me 41
WW 42
Married 11 years
R for now I guess
DD 9 & DS 8
DDay 2 (PA) - March 3rd, 2014
DDay 1 (EA) - July 2nd, 2011
BlackDiamond ( new member #44985) posted at 3:42 PM on Friday, October 3rd, 2014
So needed this today! Thank You Thank You Thank You!!
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 11:28 PM on Monday, October 6th, 2014
Yay! I love when this thread does a surprise pop to the surface.
I was talking with some friends this weekend, and we were comparing notes on current "issues."
We all had a smile and a laugh because we no longer have this "OMG - THIS is the END of the WORLD!!" feeling when things happen.
It really does toughen you up. Hugs along the way are nice too, though.
Hugs to you all today! 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 5:57 PM on Tuesday, October 21st, 2014
Bump. 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 7:37 AM on Sunday, October 26th, 2014
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
44years ( new member #45365) posted at 1:06 PM on Sunday, October 26th, 2014
What a great post. At (almost) 64, right now all I see is years of being alone, no one to go out to dinner with, or on vacation with, and it's scary. But if I let him back, then I have years of turmoil with children and constant stress.
What a choice, huh? Your post gives me hope.
Me-64
Him:68
5 kids, 3 grandchildren
Married almost 45 years
DD: October 19, 2014 Unknown number of prostitute visits
No idea what to do
forgivingnow ( member #33549) posted at 8:25 PM on Monday, January 5th, 2015
Bump for those who need this today.
Me-BS 57
FWH-57
M 37yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yours
istherelight ( member #45884) posted at 9:22 PM on Monday, January 5th, 2015
I so needed it today. As the moving date draws closer (I and the kids are moving back to our old house, leaving STBXWH in this big house on the 10-acre farm), my emotions are all over the place. I'm sad and the "whys" are coming in waves. I'm at work and cry on and off all day. I just need to read this over and over all this week to carry me through the move.
Thank you...thank you...thank you.
Me - BS
Him - STBXWH
2 kids - Age 9 and 11 (Special needs)
DD1 - 8/2013
DD2 - 7/2014
Moved out with my kids - 1/11/15
Status - Divorcing
"A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle!"
tlrenay ( new member #46207) posted at 9:24 PM on Monday, January 5th, 2015
WE WERE PREGNANT AT THE SAME TIME
manwhocantbemove ( member #45699) posted at 9:43 PM on Monday, January 5th, 2015
Thank you for bumping this. I really needed this today.
Me: BH - 35
Her: WW - 3
Family: DS (6) and DS (5), and DD (3)
Sometimes I can't believe I can hurt so bad and not be dying
DDay 1: 11-13-14
DDay 2: 1-17-18
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 8:12 AM on Tuesday, January 27th, 2015
I didn't even realize this resurfaced this month!
Sending a lot of love and good thoughts to all in JFO tonight.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
DelicateLikeU ( member #45777) posted at 1:10 AM on Wednesday, January 28th, 2015
That was beautiful! It made me cry - but in a good way
Thank you.
Me: BS DDay: 02/18/2014
Him: WS Double Betrayal Affair for 3 years
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 2:47 AM on Thursday, January 29th, 2015
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 1:20 AM on Monday, February 2nd, 2015
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
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