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FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 5:47 PM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
SadMad2012 about going on a promising date in Weekend Plans thread in NB:
Now, if I can get through a date without a guy asking me my bra size, trying to touch me inappropriately, or just flat out suggest we go have sex, I may have found an OLD Unicorn!
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 3:12 AM on Monday, April 15th, 2013
Kalliopeia in ICR/NPD regarding putting her foot up her X's rump while his head is up his ass.
I could kick him in the ass and kick him in the teeth at the same time.
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
PippaPeach6 ( member #37523) posted at 6:13 PM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013
from D/S:
Finally, you and I both made the mistake of underestimating my strength and perseverance. I will promise to you; I will never make that mistake again.
--Fly
Awesome bitch boots, Fly!
Us: 50ish, madhatters, married 20 odd yrs
TT: May 2009 'til June
DDay for both: June 17, 2009
Me: 2x, same person, 1991
Him: 1.5 year PA (EA?) 2007-2009
Reconciled
Honey Badger don't care. - Randall
summerain ( member #37439) posted at 6:44 AM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
Aseir
It's not so much the "Hi, how are you?" that annoys me. It's that the greeting when I approach the speaker is simply "Hi, how are you?" and then I feel like I'm expected to make conversation until they ask what I want. I'd just prefer to dispense with that and hear a polite, "Welcome to Wherever, how can I serve you?" Or "May I take your order?"
Well, they will stop doing that if you take them up on the implied offer. Start telling them how you are doing, why you are feeling a little bitchy, maybe some of your health issues. You should rehearse this so you can get it all out without having to pause so they can ask to take your order. Maybe suggest your friends do the same. Save some money on IC by getting it all out in the drive thru. Bonus points if you can spontaneously burst into tears when they meet you at the window.
hahahaha
OW1 inadvertently let me know WH loves English breakfast tea. Never ever saw him drink it. And I never will.
LadyQ ( member #32847) posted at 11:27 PM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
Lol at Lauren. I do that at the grocery store. You've never gotten through the checkout faster than when you start telling them all about your neighbor's cat, your crotchety Aunt Wanda and that strange growth on your right butt cheek....
Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...
summerain ( member #37439) posted at 12:07 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
haha, I should try it! We have the most incredibly pushy sales assistants over here! Really pushes my buttons!
OW1 inadvertently let me know WH loves English breakfast tea. Never ever saw him drink it. And I never will.
NoTriangles ( member #35985) posted at 1:21 AM on Friday, May 3rd, 2013
Perfection from StillGoing in General:
He is a snub nosed shit rifle set to spray and he's hosing your life with his shit. Block him.
Oh my gosh, my sides hurt!! Thanks, SG!!
Me: Finding my SunlightHim: Traitor in my FoxholeLet go or get dragged.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:59 AM on Thursday, May 9th, 2013
That crap is going to unravel faster than a ball of yarn at a kitten convention.
Jrazz commenting in General on how "successful" an OW's plan for reforming WH is likely to be.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 3:01 AM on Thursday, May 9th, 2013
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 1:31 PM on Thursday, May 9th, 2013
His thoughts on you needing to grow up? SPAM. DELETE. In fact, everything he has to say to you at this point? SPAM. DELETE. For all intents and purposes, he's a Nigerian royal family member who desperately needs your help claiming his family's money. SPAM. DELETE.
NIK in General, regarding rumorhasit's WS texting her to "grow up."
AWESOME!!!
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 1:17 AM on Friday, May 17th, 2013
It's what he didn't do that hurts more than what he did.
From Jayne Doe. For so many of us, that is exactly it in a nutshell.
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
Ascendant ( member #38303) posted at 3:13 PM on Tuesday, May 21st, 2013
Srsly: the quality of your marriage is not the reason you were put on this earth. It is not the primary narrative of your life. It's a sub-plot at best. Don't live like your life is a romance novel where the pop and gasp at the end is the whole point of the story.Your life is a fucking adventure novel. Have enough adventures, and getting the girl becomes an afterthought.
wincing_at_light, down in BM-Part 10
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:44 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013
Sultan really should have 'Sony' stamped across his forehead because his powers of projection are downright incredible. I'm sure that Consumer Reports would rate him as the *top* projector.
gonnabe commenting on her STBX's prowess at projecting. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Unagie ( member #37091) posted at 5:10 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013
You'd have thought I was married to satan himself for a few months there (with hooves and a pointy tail and goatee and breathing fire and sexual perversions and kitten torture) and I'm definately not.
Thisissogross giving a WS some advice on how their BS feels.
KBeguile ( member #38348) posted at 1:17 AM on Tuesday, May 28th, 2013
Now call her BH and let him know his coffee ice cream has been smearing herself all over your husband.
-- NoraLee, in Reconciliation, talking about some luuuuuv-struck doofus's "coffee ice cream" A.
Me: WS 34
Her: BS 37 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 7yo
M: 9 years
DDays: 2012/11/14-2013/02/05, 2013/03/09, 2016/02/19
WarehouseGuy ( member #6037) posted at 10:32 PM on Wednesday, May 29th, 2013
"IMO any "relationship" that started as an A is a farce".
Damncutekitty talking in D/S about Brad Pitt being a douchbag for blaming his first wife for his drug abuse and rewriting his marital history to suit his own agenda.
I couldn't agree more.
whg
[This message edited by WarehouseGuy at 4:48 PM, May 29th (Wednesday)]
If you see your ex with someone else don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 5:59 AM on Thursday, May 30th, 2013
I am totally in support of more women giving up on hot guys. Give the rest of us a chance!
pass in NB.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 1:15 AM on Friday, May 31st, 2013
You need to work on saving yourself not the marriage. The only thing you have control over is yourself.
So take control.
Gr8Lady in a thread in General. So simple and so true.
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 4:42 PM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013
From Tred, in Betrayed Men. Providing the "FINAL ANSWER" to any remarks/disparagements about "size":
If a woman ever looked at my dick and said "who are you going to please with that" my answer is always "me".
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 1:56 PM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013
Thanks JJ...all of the great wisdom I've doled out and I'm immortalized by a penis joke...
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
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