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				    				pendant ( member #32890)		posted at 6:25 AM on Thursday, July 26th, 2012	
				"Once forgiving begins, dreams can be rebuilt. When forgiving is complete, meaning has been extracted from the worst of experiences and used to create a new set of moral rules and a new interpretation of life's events."		
	 	 			 
				    				Fighting2Survive ( member #28410)		posted at 9:15 PM on Tuesday, July 31st, 2012	
				Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces		
	 	 			 
				    				Jrazz ( member #31349)		posted at 8:34 PM on Thursday, August 2nd, 2012	
				"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom		
	 	 			 
				    				Jrazz ( member #31349)		posted at 10:12 PM on Tuesday, August 7th, 2012	
				"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom		
	 	 			 
				    				bellagirl27 ( new member #36303)		posted at 10:46 PM on Tuesday, August 7th, 2012	
				D-Day 7/19/12
Married just shy of 3 yrs by two months.
1 DD 11 months old on D-DAY
2 grown boys from previous marriage21,19 both living with us		
	 	 			 
				    				Fighting2Survive ( member #28410)		posted at 12:43 AM on Thursday, August 16th, 2012	
				Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces		
	 	 			 
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 12:35 AM on Tuesday, August 28th, 2012	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			 
				    				Jpapageorge ( member #31800)		posted at 3:57 AM on Saturday, September 1st, 2012	
				"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF		
	 	 			 
				    				Spelljean ( member #35624)		posted at 3:23 PM on Saturday, September 1st, 2012	
				WH: 41
me:  BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY  8/2/12
OW:  EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
		
	 	 			 
				    				Spelljean ( member #35624)		posted at 4:40 AM on Sunday, September 2nd, 2012	
				WH: 41
me:  BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY  8/2/12
OW:  EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
		
	 	 			 
				    				bufffalo ( member #21854)		posted at 8:57 AM on Saturday, September 8th, 2012	
			 			 
				    				Spelljean ( member #35624)		posted at 4:08 PM on Sunday, September 9th, 2012	
				WH: 41
me:  BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY  8/2/12
OW:  EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
		
	 	 			 
				    				WakingFromADream ( member #33934)		posted at 5:39 PM on Monday, September 17th, 2012	
				Me(37) DS(9) DD 11/16/11 EA(PA?) M 11y D 9/3/13
Don't make anyone a priority when you are only an option.		
	 	 			 
				    				Spelljean ( member #35624)		posted at 8:54 PM on Tuesday, September 18th, 2012	
				WH: 41
me:  BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY  8/2/12
OW:  EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
		
	 	 			 
				    				Steppinglightly ( new member #36432)		posted at 5:49 PM on Sunday, September 23rd, 2012	
				For now - Someone caught stealing is rarely sorry because they stole, they are only sorry because they were caught.		
	 	 			 
				    				ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449)		posted at 9:34 PM on Saturday, September 29th, 2012	
			 
	bump  
 
 
			 	 			 
				    				kernel ( member #27035)		posted at 2:13 AM on Monday, October 8th, 2012	
				"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
		
	 	 			 
				    				ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449)		posted at 9:09 PM on Saturday, October 13th, 2012	
			 
	weekend bump.  
 
 
			 	 			 
				    				Teach8 ( member #36521)		posted at 3:07 AM on Sunday, October 28th, 2012	
				Me:  BW.                                                      Him:  WH.                                                    Dday:  4/26/12. TT until 8/15/12 LTA 7 years.                                                            Trying to R		
	 	 			 
				    				Bubbleup ( member #36120)		posted at 11:53 PM on Friday, November 2nd, 2012	
				Me:  BS 50
Her: WS 45 NC since 10/29/12 
D-Day 1 4-20-2012 D-Day 2 9-7-13
Kids 2: 11yrs, 6yrs
Married 19 years, Together 25 years 
EAs became PAs. On the fence.		
	 	 
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