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pendant ( member #32890) posted at 6:25 AM on Thursday, July 26th, 2012

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"Once forgiving begins, dreams can be rebuilt. When forgiving is complete, meaning has been extracted from the worst of experiences and used to create a new set of moral rules and a new interpretation of life's events."

posts: 424   ·   registered: Jul. 25th, 2011   ·   location: North Carolina
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Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 9:15 PM on Tuesday, July 31st, 2012

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 8:34 PM on Thursday, August 2nd, 2012

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

posts: 29076   ·   registered: Feb. 28th, 2011   ·   location: California
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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 10:12 PM on Tuesday, August 7th, 2012

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"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

posts: 29076   ·   registered: Feb. 28th, 2011   ·   location: California
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bellagirl27 ( new member #36303) posted at 10:46 PM on Tuesday, August 7th, 2012

THANK YOU

D-Day 7/19/12
Married just shy of 3 yrs by two months.
1 DD 11 months old on D-DAY
2 grown boys from previous marriage21,19 both living with us

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Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 12:43 AM on Thursday, August 16th, 2012

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:35 AM on Tuesday, August 28th, 2012

bunp

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 3:57 AM on Saturday, September 1st, 2012

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"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
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Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 3:23 PM on Saturday, September 1st, 2012

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WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

posts: 1037   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2012   ·   location: California
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Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 4:40 AM on Sunday, September 2nd, 2012

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WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

posts: 1037   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2012   ·   location: California
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bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 8:57 AM on Saturday, September 8th, 2012

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

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Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 4:08 PM on Sunday, September 9th, 2012

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WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

posts: 1037   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2012   ·   location: California
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WakingFromADream ( member #33934) posted at 5:39 PM on Monday, September 17th, 2012

Bumpity-bump

Me(37) DS(9) DD 11/16/11 EA(PA?) M 11y D 9/3/13

Don't make anyone a priority when you are only an option.

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Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 8:54 PM on Tuesday, September 18th, 2012

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WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

posts: 1037   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2012   ·   location: California
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Steppinglightly ( new member #36432) posted at 5:49 PM on Sunday, September 23rd, 2012

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For now - Someone caught stealing is rarely sorry because they stole, they are only sorry because they were caught.

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 9:34 PM on Saturday, September 29th, 2012

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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 2:13 AM on Monday, October 8th, 2012

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 9:09 PM on Saturday, October 13th, 2012

weekend bump.

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Teach8 ( member #36521) posted at 3:07 AM on Sunday, October 28th, 2012

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Me: BW. Him: WH. Dday: 4/26/12. TT until 8/15/12 LTA 7 years. Trying to R

posts: 595   ·   registered: Aug. 17th, 2012
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Bubbleup ( member #36120) posted at 11:53 PM on Friday, November 2nd, 2012

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Me: BS 50
Her: WS 45 NC since 10/29/12
D-Day 1 4-20-2012 D-Day 2 9-7-13
Kids 2: 11yrs, 6yrs
Married 19 years, Together 25 years
EAs became PAs. On the fence.

posts: 95   ·   registered: Jul. 13th, 2012   ·   location: NY
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