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Understanding the 180

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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 2:52 AM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

bumpity-bump

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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JustWow ( member #19636) posted at 9:21 PM on Thursday, June 27th, 2013

buping for Anya

BW - Reconciling

edited for typos (I always have to!)

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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 3:44 AM on Sunday, June 30th, 2013

bumped again

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 9:20 AM on Thursday, July 4th, 2013

Bump

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 4:00 PM on Saturday, July 6th, 2013

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 2:48 AM on Sunday, July 14th, 2013

bump

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 8:08 PM on Friday, July 19th, 2013

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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HurtButHopeful? ( member #25144) posted at 1:08 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013

bump for livebythesea

Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 6:56 PM on Saturday, August 3rd, 2013

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 4:59 AM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013

:)

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 3:13 AM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 3:47 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

bump

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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1ost0ne ( member #40202) posted at 2:47 PM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

Bumping. Good advice on the purpose behind the 180. Remember, it's about you, not the WS.

Good Monday everyone!!!

“The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.”
― Maya Angelou

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jjct ( member #17484) posted at 1:00 AM on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013

bumpo

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Fireflies ( member #40210) posted at 3:55 PM on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013

Bumped for onelove27

Me: BS
Him: WS
Go your way,
I'll take the long way 'round,
I'll find my own way down,
As I should.

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fourever ( member #30631) posted at 3:17 AM on Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013

BUMP for Newbies.

In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.

Always, tell the other BS! Always!

"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!

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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 3:06 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013

bumperooni

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 3:06 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013

bumperooni

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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jjct ( member #17484) posted at 7:14 PM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013

bump

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SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 2:07 PM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

bumpity bump bump, bumpity, bump, bump

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

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