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LastChanceLarry ( member #37322) posted at 1:51 AM on Thursday, November 8th, 2012

doing my share..

BUMP

D-Day: 8/27/12
Me: BBF (29)
WXGF: Confused26 (27) EA/PA with xBF, lasted almost a year. TT, blameshifting, gaslighting, & broken NC for 10 months.
DS: 3
Together 5 years

3+ years later and I am doing great! Hell of a ride but well worth it.

posts: 318   ·   registered: Oct. 30th, 2012   ·   location: New England
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Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 1:01 AM on Monday, November 12th, 2012

bump!

"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

posts: 4432   ·   registered: May. 6th, 2009   ·   location: New England
id 6097193
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5454real ( member #37455) posted at 12:24 AM on Saturday, November 17th, 2012

bump

BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle

posts: 5670   ·   registered: Nov. 12th, 2012   ·   location: midwest
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5454real ( member #37455) posted at 12:25 AM on Saturday, November 17th, 2012

bump

BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle

posts: 5670   ·   registered: Nov. 12th, 2012   ·   location: midwest
id 6105090
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Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 4:52 AM on Thursday, November 22nd, 2012

bump

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6112142
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cass ( member #24261) posted at 9:53 PM on Monday, November 26th, 2012

bump for newbies

DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.

Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!

posts: 5188   ·   registered: Jun. 4th, 2009   ·   location: Scotland
id 6117015
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jjct ( member #17484) posted at 12:03 AM on Wednesday, December 19th, 2012

Bump!

posts: 7269   ·   registered: Dec. 24th, 2007   ·   location: texas
id 6145726
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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 5:22 AM on Saturday, December 22nd, 2012

bump

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 2:06 AM on Friday, January 4th, 2013

and bump again

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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mountainmomma ( member #34388) posted at 6:24 PM on Sunday, January 6th, 2013

Bumpily bump

Me 37
WS 42 (Mitty)
4 kiddys 9,7,4 &20 mths no5 due August 14
seeing hookers, NSA sites, escorts, anyone willing from 07/08 (i didn't know)left to do full time with no restraints 2010 Returned home march 2011 in R DDay 2.4.2010 OW 30+ age 18-60

posts: 180   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2012   ·   location: U.K
id 6166255
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Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 2:58 AM on Saturday, January 12th, 2013

bump

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6173687
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thisissogross ( member #30294) posted at 5:28 AM on Friday, January 18th, 2013



i edit frequently because i have to

posts: 379   ·   registered: Dec. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: southern us
id 6181481
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Rella ( member #21136) posted at 5:42 PM on Saturday, January 19th, 2013

BUMP!

Eleven years later, I never could have imagined how much happier my life has turned out!

posts: 2208   ·   registered: Oct. 4th, 2008   ·   location: New England
id 6183427
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5454real ( member #37455) posted at 5:47 AM on Monday, January 21st, 2013

bump

BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle

posts: 5670   ·   registered: Nov. 12th, 2012   ·   location: midwest
id 6185138
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5454real ( member #37455) posted at 8:31 AM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2013

again bump

BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle

posts: 5670   ·   registered: Nov. 12th, 2012   ·   location: midwest
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annb ( member #22386) posted at 6:12 PM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013

bump

posts: 12232   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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sailorgirl ( member #38162) posted at 2:36 AM on Thursday, February 7th, 2013

Bump for Jewells

Married 14 years, three amazing kids
H had 17 month EA/PA
D-day 1/5/13
Reconcilling

posts: 787   ·   registered: Jan. 17th, 2013
id 6209059
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bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 2:50 PM on Thursday, February 21st, 2013

bump

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 6229147
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exhausted lady ( member #30217) posted at 11:02 PM on Saturday, February 23rd, 2013

bumpity bump

Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr

posts: 3171   ·   registered: Nov. 25th, 2010   ·   location: Colorado
id 6232465
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Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 1:30 AM on Sunday, March 10th, 2013

Bump

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6251107
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