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wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 8:02 PM on Friday, September 18th, 2009
We sorta got kicked out. For, um, playing. When we were supposed to be playing a different way.
Threnody's experience with Gymboree
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 10:55 PM on Saturday, September 19th, 2009
Well, that's not a fog, that's stupid beyond fixing!
Useless Vows at
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=316905
Topic: He Brought Her Over Here With Me Here!
11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.
PerpleNerple ( member #3224) posted at 6:01 PM on Friday, September 25th, 2009
How did he know you weren't out scrubbing tortoises at an exotic animal rescue or delivering prepared meals to unemployed pygmy spear-makers? Charity doesn't always happen 9-5.
You could be sitting at home alone every night and he's still going to think you've got someone over there, that you're webcamming, that you're knitting willy warmers for the local Chippendale's dancers (including fittings), etc.
This is his self-esteem garbage to take out. Not yours
Thren responding to a BS who's WS overheard something and assumed the BS was going on a date.
"Unconditional love does not mean unconditional crap absorption"
~Oh, what tangled webs we weave, when first we practice to deceive~ Sir Walter Scott
unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 9:10 PM on Tuesday, September 29th, 2009
wincing_at_light:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=318258&AP=1&HL=912
Am I allowed to just add that this whole bowling alley/adulterers connection just really, really creeps me out in a tawdry, cheap, why-no-neither-of-us-have-dental-insurance, Deliverance sort of way?
Please, God, Jesus and Holy Ghost, promise me that no matter how far I might fall in life, be it homeless or jobless or IV drug user, I will never ever tumble so far from grace that the notion of fucking strange women in bowling alley parking lots seems like a viable option.
I'm just sayin'. Neither bowling alley nor truck stop parking lot. Please, Jesus, God and Holy Ghost. Amen.
Topic: Ugh.
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11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.
Threnody ( member #1558) posted at 3:42 PM on Wednesday, September 30th, 2009
Damncutekitty, on dating overly-eager people; the discussion had turned to eager-versus-stalker and what was appealing to various women.
I guess one girl's dead bunny is another girl's fur mittens.
“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown
truthsetmefree ( member #7168) posted at 3:24 PM on Thursday, October 1st, 2009
I had never had anyone ever do right by me. My inner soul just got sick of that and for the first time in my life I did it for myself.
sammie - in the thread, "Why Men Cheat..."
This just spoke so clearly to that moment in time when this happens.... 
Hope has two beautiful daughters; their names are Anger and Courage. Anger at the way things are, and Courage to see that they do not remain as they are. ~ Augustine of Hippo
Funny thing, I quit being broken when I quit letting people break me.
unfound ( member #12802) posted at 9:48 PM on Tuesday, October 6th, 2009
hb's reply to newyears question about what the odds are of a marriage going long term with out cheating...
well i have been married 8 years and half the people in my marriage have never cheated...so I'm thinking 50%?
ka-mai
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Kids on the playground can be so cruel. “Get off the swings you’re like 50, and stop talking about Soundgarden, we don't even know what that is."
Dreamboat ( member #10506) posted at 5:46 AM on Thursday, October 8th, 2009
Can I honor an entire thread? Because FatherofFour had the most bodacious "Fuck You" rant I have ever seen!!
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=319478
But if I must limit to a single quote, it is this
"FUCK!!!!!! (we need a bigger fucking font) FUCK!!!!!!!!!"
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
Threnody ( member #1558) posted at 2:36 PM on Thursday, October 15th, 2009
iconnou was complaining about a mosquito flying around and biting her. After several attempts, and posts, she wrote:
HA! finally got it! 
And then here comes MovingUpward:
(((mosquito)))
He owes me a load of laundry. It's the third time in the last week he's done something that made me snork coffee.
“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 5:48 PM on Friday, October 16th, 2009
great! I make the SI quote thread and it's because I'm playing straight man to Moo. 
(no, really )
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
unfound ( member #12802) posted at 2:32 AM on Saturday, October 17th, 2009
Nothing says "don't fuck with me" like saying "don't fuck with me".
classic defiance.
ka-mai
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Kids on the playground can be so cruel. “Get off the swings you’re like 50, and stop talking about Soundgarden, we don't even know what that is."
Defiance ( member #8265) posted at 2:36 AM on Saturday, October 17th, 2009
I'm honored!
No, like really.
-D
Success is not measured by what you accomplish but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds.
KSA2 ( member #9474) posted at 4:15 PM on Monday, October 19th, 2009
LadyVorkosigan, on anthropological excuses for infidelity.....
I think there is something to be said for the notion that people are not naturally monogamous.
We don't naturally shit in toilets, either.
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No one asks for their life to change, not really. But it does. So, what are we, helpless? Puppets? Nah. The big moments are gonna come, you can't help that. It's what you do afterwards that counts. That's when you find out who you are.
TrustedHer ( member #23328) posted at 8:43 PM on Monday, October 19th, 2009
KSA2 was a little upset, on a thread about people forward emails.
Look, if bailing you out of jail, getting up at oh-dark-thirty to go out in the cold and feed your damn cats while you're away for a week, changing your baby's shitty diaper, and holding your hair while you puke has not convinced you that I'm a "true friend" then sending you a shitty sparkly angel infested email you obviously already have ain't gonna do it, either. Now fuck off.
Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.
love me or leave ( member #16937) posted at 5:29 AM on Tuesday, October 20th, 2009
My STBXW won't be coming because she's off on her own planet, and it's a hell of a commute to get to reality
Shreddedman in the socal g2g thread.....well put!
usedup ( member #11701) posted at 3:35 PM on Tuesday, October 20th, 2009
our dear Thernody on a post in gen about ow professing "lives are at stake" if her bh finds out
Great. The Vulval Helen of Troy"Was this the twat that launched a thousand ships
And burnt the topless towers of the hospital?
Sweet Helen, make me immortal with a pic."
snort
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SmileyBlue ( member #19444) posted at 2:37 PM on Monday, October 26th, 2009
Wannabenormal - "To his credit, I had momentarily forgotten that people with STD's were humpbacked, toothless fucks with actual signs announcing 'what' they have".
And:
Tounne - "When I had concrete proof of anal sex with OW4.."
Both from "The most asinine things your WS has said part 2"
I am choking from laughing!
Me: 27 - No longer a BS!
1 little Furbaby
"The bee's are dying? Oh no! Now who will sting me and walk all over my sandwich's?" - Homer Simpson
tryingtwo ( member #19717) posted at 3:56 AM on Wednesday, October 28th, 2009
ididntknow...this just cracked me the hell up...
Last night, my husband and I were sitting in the living room and I said to him, 'I never want to live in a vegetative state, dependent on some machine and fluids from a bottle. If that ever happens, just pull the plug.'
He got up, unplugged the Computer, and threw out my wine.
He's such an ass
Innocent people generally want to get to the bottom of things. Guilty people usually want the discussion to be over as soon as possible.
icbtih8 ( member #23797) posted at 5:59 PM on Thursday, October 29th, 2009
USMC-Wife said: Tell him if he wants something different to j/o with Lefty instead of Righty.
when considering whether a threesome is a good idea.
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D-day #1 - April 29, 2009
Beauty is a calling...a call "to transfigure what has harden or was wounded within you"
-- John O'Donohue
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 9:38 PM on Thursday, October 29th, 2009
I am a sensitive, artistic brutal assassin of pumpkins..
Defiance
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