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TrustedHer ( member #23328) posted at 2:34 AM on Friday, December 17th, 2010
So for now, I am going to be all "fuck it" and skull and cross-boney. Let me have my bitch moment please. Don't kumbya-me.
Willowiris's reaction to someone consoling her for her rant after she gave up on dating. Again.
Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.
HUFI-PUFI ( member #25460) posted at 3:06 PM on Friday, December 17th, 2010
InnerDemons - Then I will kill and gut a moose with my bare hands to maintain manliness.
Directly after he talked about painting his wifes bedroom etc. LOL
Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.
Rise_Above ( member #23674) posted at 8:16 PM on Saturday, December 18th, 2010
I'd rather be alone 100 years than live a lie of an unfaithful marriage with diamonds on every finger.
will get by
talking about an advertisement by a jewelry store with the caption "it sucks to be alone".
You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli
*****
God's hand was an avocado branch
WhiteWolfWinning ( member #12475) posted at 3:07 AM on Monday, December 20th, 2010
Now, my ex is a complete jackass, so the only way I'd sit down with a bottle of wine with him is if I were toasting his dead, cold body
.
Catwoman in a thread in NB about X's and boundaries.
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God
Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 9:35 PM on Wednesday, December 22nd, 2010
isitworthit's thread was about her insensitive MIL telling her she should have been thankful for her WH's deciding to stay around; she had mentioned being thankful for everyone BUT him.
Broken10 suggested the following:
"I am so thankful for MR IIWI who has decided to keep his penis in his pants. Amen."
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 1:46 PM on Friday, December 24th, 2010
W T H!
Who DOES that?
Holly-Isis, a Slobobian Ditch Pig who bears a shocking resemblance to Shrek wearing lipstick
StepAside explaining who takes pictures with a mouth full of semen and posts it on the internet.
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=386947
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Junebug0525 ( member #29142) posted at 3:23 PM on Sunday, December 26th, 2010
When he kept saying this - I just asked if he tripped and "accidently" screwed her multiple times.
isadora on what it means when they say "I never meant to hurt you"
Me: BS
Him: WXH DDay-11/22/2009~ D~ 10/25/10
OWhore: Co-worker (7 years younger)
"Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together." AND THEY DID!!!
BrokenRoad ( member #15334) posted at 2:01 AM on Wednesday, December 29th, 2010
MissesJai regarding KISA syndrome:
try saving yourself and this marriage...your family needs you..everybody else can kick rocks.
Amen, sister.
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 3:28 AM on Thursday, December 30th, 2010
Unless you told him it was OK to go fuck any little twat that will spread her legs, then it's 100% on him.
gma to a newbie on why the affair is NOT her fault...
I love this because I am always so "careful" with the newbie advice and this is so - perfect.
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
punky ( member #12233) posted at 4:36 AM on Sunday, January 2nd, 2011
The problem with the waiting game is that you may end up waiting a lifetime.
HowMany in the Caught Again...thread.
13 years later...finally healed. Definitely survived and thrived and you can, too.
StepAside ( member #29826) posted at 5:43 PM on Wednesday, January 5th, 2011
He wants a game of ping pong- he can have it. But he better have his A GAME. He doesn't realize I am a Forest Fuckin Gump when it will come to this ping pong game.
Heartbroken1993 in the R forum, regarding her epiphany that she is 'done'!
Me 48yrs, king of douchebagastan- 50yrs STD infected bankrupt NPD sociopathic drunk thief
countless A's, he is a predator that targets losers like himself
Last Dday 04/12/2010-Divorcing if/when his cumdumpsters lend him some $ or balls to file
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 10:48 PM on Thursday, January 6th, 2011
Some people just do not realize that real love is more than just a tingly sensation in your naughty bits. They use "love" as an excuse for cheating and then marry their APs in the name of that same "love". And then the tingly sensation wears off and they find someone else.
People like this should be tagged before being released into the wild. So the rest of us know to avoid them.
damncutekitty
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
CB1971 ( member #30468) posted at 10:52 PM on Thursday, January 6th, 2011
I just discovered this thread and wept. I wept because I've wasted so many years not reading this thread.
40, Former BH
D-day: 7/06
Divorced: 4/09
unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 12:13 AM on Monday, January 10th, 2011
USMC-Wife on the private parts shaving by males thread:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=389362&AP=41
God forbid I have a trigger while the boys are in one hand & the razor in the other.
11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.
unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 7:23 AM on Tuesday, January 11th, 2011
NC_Fool in a thread about friends that knew about the affair and/or encouraged the BS to cheat in return or leave the WS:
Here's my take on friends & family when it comes to their thoughts, opinions & advice. Everyone has a opinion & can think & believe whatever they want. I don't care.
They can love me, hate me or kiss my ass. I'll let them decide which one they want to do.
And the reason I have this attitude is most of the people see this as juicey drama at someone elses expense. It's like a car crash and they are all rubber neckers.
And i don't have time for their bull crap. I have to concentrate on fixing what I screwed up. I need to work on helping my BS recover from my stupidity, fix my marriage & love my BS with all my heart.
And it's alot of work. I don't have time for friends and/or family putting in their 2 cents. I will stomp on anyone who tries to interfer with my BS recovery or happiness. My BS is all that matters. No one elses opinion, thought & gossip matters.
At the end of the day all I need is my wife & kids. EVERYONE else will be shown the door if they can't be a contructive part of my BS & my life.
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=389648
11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.
unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 7:33 AM on Tuesday, January 11th, 2011
New Joy comments on the thread about Pinnochio being a trigger:
I think my WH has another version of that movie in his head. The way he acted it was if the more lies he told the more his penis would grow!
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=389725
[This message edited by unicornsearcher at 4:21 PM, January 11th (Tuesday)]
11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 7:26 PM on Tuesday, January 11th, 2011
Seems to me that not doing anything destructive to our M shouldn't be part of any "deal," that it should be automatic.
Crossbow 
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 10:26 PM on Tuesday, January 11th, 2011
tsol25 after quoting her H's chat to someone else complaining how hard it is to pick women up:
Can I just say, sorry hun don't feel bad for you because WE WERE IN A RELATIONSHIP THEREFORE YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE TROUBLES PICKING UP GIRLS BECAUSE YOU SHOULDN'T BE FUCKING TRYING!!
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=389382&HL=29461
11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 12:30 AM on Thursday, January 13th, 2011
Imagine yourself as a Verizon commercial with the guy standing there with tons of people behind him! There you are with your attorney next to you, your parents behind you and all the members of SI behind you - giving you support and coverage. FT will get the message loud and clear. Stay strong!
This is a quote from Sapphire to Alexmama in a D & S thread - Alexmama was doubting her actions in filing. It is a powerful image that perfectly describes how I feel about SI.
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 4:22 PM on Thursday, January 13th, 2011
But we see a lot of "I am going to," and a dearth of "I did."
Catwoman on doing as opposed to talking
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
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