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Igglepiggle ( member #47519) posted at 9:21 AM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2016
Bumping in anticipation..........
BW: me (39), WH: him (39). Married 2 years together 20
DDays 9/2014, 4/2015 same OW 4.5 months pregnant!! Second on the way.....2 in 1 year!
You cut me deep, it hurt to feel, it's taking time, but wounds, they heal. Now you're just a scar
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 11:53 AM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2016
"NO WOMEN ALLOWED"
Who else read that and then had He-man Woman Hater by Extreme start playing in their head???
IgglePiggle- don't you worry - we will find the bus and put the brake to the floor if you need to exit!! Make good choices. (((IP)))
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
nothisfriend ( member #53171) posted at 2:23 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2016
Bye-bye bus! My divorce is final and new guy who patiently waited for me is marvelous. Haven't felt that zing in a very long time...
Me: BS 50 (at the time) Him: WH 53 (at the time) D-Day: 10/25/15 Married: 28 years. One son, age 18 (at the time)
D final 2016 REMARRIED to a marvelous guy on 4/22/23
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 2:54 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2016
Congrats nothisfriend!
We will miss you. Please throw chocolate as the bus passes you by every now and again.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
one2ndchance ( member #14759) posted at 5:15 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2016
Arrrgh...I've had 20 bus stops (20 OLD dates)....and none of the bus stops appeal to me enough to get off this damn bus. Someone tell the driver he needs to change his route.
Married 26 years
DDay #1 2/2002
DDay #2 6/2012
Gave him his second chance and he blew it.
Divorce final: 9/9/2014
It's hard to see the road ahead if you're always looking in the rear view mirror.
Lovingmyselfmore ( member #46119) posted at 6:41 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2016
Congratulations notthisfriend! 
I still can't even imagine myself with someone new but I hope to get off the bus some day too!
dday: september-12-2014
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again
Nighthawk999 ( member #48694) posted at 7:25 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2016
I wish there was a bus like this... full of women looking to 'get off'... um the bus :D
hehe... had to say that.
Me - 38 - BH
Her - 34 - WW
2 Kids
DDay Jan 2015
Divorced Jan 2016
TS68 ( member #40211) posted at 7:44 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2016
Congrats nothisfriend!
I want off... Been riding this bus for a year now and it's getting old. If it means breaking into the bachelor pad to do it, I will. Come on girls, who's with me? Put down your knitting needles...
Boys boys boys... We'll show you the fun way to play poker, not with friggen' chips...
ETA: nighthawk, you know how many times we've heard THAT LINE? Keep it up and we are gluing you to your seat
[This message edited by TS68 at 1:48 PM, September 14th (Wednesday)]
Me: 48
Him: 50
Married 22 years too many
DS19, DS17, DD10
Divorced
Know your worth.
JM72 ( member #50760) posted at 9:29 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2016
READ THE SIGN!!
Me - BS (43)
Her - the Princess (AKA "the victim") (44)
Married 25 years, together 27
Dday - January 2016
DS - 25, DS - 18, DD - 16, DD - 13
Divorcing - To thy own self be true
StrongHeart ( member #45092) posted at 9:34 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2016
JM, you might wanna look to be a little nicer to the ladies if you ever want to get off this bus...just sayin' 
ETA: Nekorb, feel free to jump off at the right stop and I'll grab the wheel. I have a feeling I'll be here for a while. The great news is, I met a great guy who agrees with me about abstaining...the bad news is, I met a great guy who agrees with me about abstaining 
so I guess we'll have to wait.
[This message edited by StrongHeart at 3:39 PM, September 14th (Wednesday)]
BS: 32; XWH: 34; DS: 3
DDay: 3/8/2014; D: 8/31/2015
"There is little growing in comfort and little comfort in growing"-unknown
"Don't take your emotional temperature in the ass of a psychopath."-unknown
TS68 ( member #40211) posted at 9:47 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2016
Strong heart, can we make the guy with the silly pictures drive? He is here to stay a while...
Nekorb needs to be sitting in the front!
Me: 48
Him: 50
Married 22 years too many
DS19, DS17, DD10
Divorced
Know your worth.
JM72 ( member #50760) posted at 9:57 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2016
Strong heart, can we make the guy with the silly pictures drive? He is here to stay a while...
😠
Me - BS (43)
Her - the Princess (AKA "the victim") (44)
Married 25 years, together 27
Dday - January 2016
DS - 25, DS - 18, DD - 16, DD - 13
Divorcing - To thy own self be true
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 10:05 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2016
:::searching bus manual for instructions re: autopilot so there will be a smooth transition if I leap off the bus without warning and StrongHeart needs a moment to reach the driver's seat:::
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
JM72 ( member #50760) posted at 10:06 PM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2016
Any questions, please see our union rep...
Me - BS (43)
Her - the Princess (AKA "the victim") (44)
Married 25 years, together 27
Dday - January 2016
DS - 25, DS - 18, DD - 16, DD - 13
Divorcing - To thy own self be true
Nighthawk999 ( member #48694) posted at 4:26 PM on Thursday, September 15th, 2016
I"m not on the bus
Sounds like a not fun place to be... what's taking you all so long? :D
Me - 38 - BH
Her - 34 - WW
2 Kids
DDay Jan 2015
Divorced Jan 2016
Hawke ( member #47517) posted at 6:02 PM on Thursday, September 15th, 2016
No trolling on the bus, Nighthawk!
Me: BS (b. '75)
Him: exWS (b. '76)
D-Day: April 2015
Together 10 years
2 kids: 2011 and 2014
Separated (no divorce required for common law couple in my jurisdiction)
MaryG ( member #48494) posted at 6:09 PM on Thursday, September 15th, 2016
I've been on this bus for almost 2 years!!! A very nice chap recently tried to coax me off but it seems I've put down roots on this damned thing; it's going to take a very special person to dig me up and get me off 
EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 7:56 PM on Tuesday, September 20th, 2016
[Excuse me]
[Pardon me]
[Coming through]
Geez this place is crowded....but I am backkkkkk.
I officially hit the requirements to re-board the locomotion (just loco minus any motion)
Awwwwwwww - so good to see everyone AGAIN.
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 8:38 PM on Tuesday, September 20th, 2016
Heading into Year 2 here. I'll be tucked away in the Reading Room until next spring. But I'll be available for Happy Hour most Friday afternoons until further notice. Bring wine.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
TS68 ( member #40211) posted at 4:58 AM on Wednesday, September 21st, 2016
Wait... You mean to tell me once your off, you don't stay off?
Shit. What if when I (or any of you) get *off*, you do it in grand style. Can you save it all up to stay off longer? Like poker chips, or get out of jail free cards? Am I making any sense?
Me: 48
Him: 50
Married 22 years too many
DS19, DS17, DD10
Divorced
Know your worth.
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