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StrongHeart ( member #45092) posted at 8:02 PM on Tuesday, August 30th, 2016

While my seat is good and warm, I forgot my pillow and blanket when I hopped aboard this time making my attempt to sleep the time away near impossible. It's freakin' freezing on here. Warm, sunny beach is sounding pret-ty nice right about now.

I've got the Mardi Gras beads (an obnoxious amount actually, being from near New Orleans and all, so I'll be more than happy to share).

Pina Colada and warm sand in my toes here I come!

BS: 32; XWH: 34; DS: 3
DDay: 3/8/2014; D: 8/31/2015

"There is little growing in comfort and little comfort in growing"-unknown

"Don't take your emotional temperature in the ass of a psychopath."-unknown

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I.will.survive ( member #34677) posted at 2:31 AM on Wednesday, August 31st, 2016

Dang it, putting myself back on the bus! I decided to let him go and not settle, despite him being a worthy bus exit.

I think I'm in for another long ride. This is better for my emotions!

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Hawke ( member #47517) posted at 3:37 AM on Wednesday, August 31st, 2016

The wheels on the bus go round and round...

This is one of my kids' favourite songs - lol! Little do they know about Mommy's life.

Me: BS (b. '75)
Him: exWS (b. '76)
D-Day: April 2015
Together 10 years
2 kids: 2011 and 2014
Separated (no divorce required for common law couple in my jurisdiction)

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JellyGirl84 ( member #41717) posted at 7:12 PM on Wednesday, August 31st, 2016

Someone make room for me, or I can just lay down on the floor. Just be careful not to step on me. It's been 9 months and I'm fragile.

BW, 35
Dday in Nov. '13
Divorced in June '14

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JM72 ( member #50760) posted at 11:21 PM on Sunday, September 4th, 2016

😒

Me - BS (43)
Her - the Princess (AKA "the victim") (44)
Married 25 years, together 27
Dday - January 2016
DS - 25, DS - 18, DD - 16, DD - 13
Divorcing - To thy own self be true

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Lovingmyselfmore ( member #46119) posted at 12:07 AM on Monday, September 5th, 2016

Some days I want so bad to get off the bus!

dday: september-12-2014
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again

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nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 12:57 AM on Monday, September 5th, 2016

Jelly - we've got room! You don't have to lay on the floor.

Y'all are forgetting this is a Harry Potter-esque bus that can change and accommodate the needs of all. There is plenty of room for knitting, poker, and *separate* restroom facilities for the gents and the ladies.

I'd really like a yoga studio and someone to teach us. Let's add another level up top so it can be hot yoga and we won't pull any muscles. Anyone willing to teach us yoga while we ride the bus?

Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman

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JM72 ( member #50760) posted at 3:10 AM on Monday, September 5th, 2016

Then I want a fishing room on the bus, with a poker table & pool table.

Smoking cigars is mandatory.

Me - BS (43)
Her - the Princess (AKA "the victim") (44)
Married 25 years, together 27
Dday - January 2016
DS - 25, DS - 18, DD - 16, DD - 13
Divorcing - To thy own self be true

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Igglepiggle ( member #47519) posted at 9:51 AM on Monday, September 5th, 2016

I'm up for the yoga, not teaching but doing

BW: me (39), WH: him (39). Married 2 years together 20
DDays 9/2014, 4/2015 same OW 4.5 months pregnant!! Second on the way.....2 in 1 year!
You cut me deep, it hurt to feel, it's taking time, but wounds, they heal. Now you're just a scar

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JellyGirl84 ( member #41717) posted at 4:52 AM on Tuesday, September 6th, 2016

A few pages back, I read there is a dog park on an upper level. Is that so? I hope no one minds but I brought my rather large dog in my rather large tote which I packed for the ride. He never barks or humps. It's been a few years without his set of "family jewels". So he's just like the rest of us but rather mellow. I'm a package deal.

BW, 35
Dday in Nov. '13
Divorced in June '14

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nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 5:23 AM on Tuesday, September 6th, 2016

Of course you can bring your furbaby.

Really, with your ginormous furbaby and JM's smoking room, I think we should see if we have an HVAC knowledgeable person on the bus to install a HEPA filter system and a negative space room (is that what they call those rooms where there is a designated in door and out dor and it keeps all of the airflow within the room?).

Anyone? Buehler?

[This message edited by nekorb at 11:24 PM, September 5th (Monday)]

Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman

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devotedman ( member #45441) posted at 12:50 PM on Tuesday, September 6th, 2016

It's been a few years without his set of "family jewels". So he's just like the rest of us

No, he is most assuredly not "just like the rest of us."

Me: 2xBS b 1962 xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.

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StrongHeart ( member #45092) posted at 5:53 PM on Tuesday, September 6th, 2016

No, he is most assuredly not "just like the rest of us."

Maybe she just meant the "no humping" part is like us.

[This message edited by StrongHeart at 11:53 AM, September 6th (Tuesday)]

BS: 32; XWH: 34; DS: 3
DDay: 3/8/2014; D: 8/31/2015

"There is little growing in comfort and little comfort in growing"-unknown

"Don't take your emotional temperature in the ass of a psychopath."-unknown

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JM72 ( member #50760) posted at 6:03 PM on Tuesday, September 6th, 2016

I'm fixed too!

The pooch can hang out with me if he wants.

Me - BS (43)
Her - the Princess (AKA "the victim") (44)
Married 25 years, together 27
Dday - January 2016
DS - 25, DS - 18, DD - 16, DD - 13
Divorcing - To thy own self be true

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nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 7:14 PM on Tuesday, September 6th, 2016

No, he is most assuredly not "just like the rest of us."

and you said you'd lost your sense of humor, devotedman...

Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman

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TS68 ( member #40211) posted at 7:51 PM on Tuesday, September 6th, 2016

Poker? Pooches? Knitting? Yoga?

People! This isn't supposed to be fun. I am going to use some strategy and go hang in the fishing room with the guys. You riders get cozy, I want off ASAP

Me: 48
Him: 50
Married 22 years too many
DS19, DS17, DD10
Divorced

Know your worth.

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JM72 ( member #50760) posted at 7:56 PM on Tuesday, September 6th, 2016

If I can't use the tiolet on the upper level next to the knitting room, you're not allowed in the fishing room.

Read the sign 👉 "NO WOMEN ALLOWED"

Me - BS (43)
Her - the Princess (AKA "the victim") (44)
Married 25 years, together 27
Dday - January 2016
DS - 25, DS - 18, DD - 16, DD - 13
Divorcing - To thy own self be true

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JM72 ( member #50760) posted at 7:59 PM on Tuesday, September 6th, 2016

We may need to use that knitting table to filet some of these fish though..

Me - BS (43)
Her - the Princess (AKA "the victim") (44)
Married 25 years, together 27
Dday - January 2016
DS - 25, DS - 18, DD - 16, DD - 13
Divorcing - To thy own self be true

posts: 1414   ·   registered: Dec. 10th, 2015   ·   location: New Jersey
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TS68 ( member #40211) posted at 8:08 PM on Tuesday, September 6th, 2016

You can use the ladies loo, as long as you bring your toolbox. We need a man to fix a leak...

While you are up there, I'll fill in for your hand at the poker table.

What are we playing guys? Canasta? What? All chips in? You got it!

Me: 48
Him: 50
Married 22 years too many
DS19, DS17, DD10
Divorced

Know your worth.

posts: 1422   ·   registered: Aug. 7th, 2013   ·   location: Detroit, Michigan
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JM72 ( member #50760) posted at 8:14 PM on Tuesday, September 6th, 2016

Well, that's kinda sexist.

Who said I know how to fix things?

And no, you're still not allowed in the poker/fish room.

Read the sign on the door. I posted it up there ☝

Me - BS (43)
Her - the Princess (AKA "the victim") (44)
Married 25 years, together 27
Dday - January 2016
DS - 25, DS - 18, DD - 16, DD - 13
Divorcing - To thy own self be true

posts: 1414   ·   registered: Dec. 10th, 2015   ·   location: New Jersey
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