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willow60 ( member #17243) posted at 2:30 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013

((((ppga and son))))

Thoughts and prayers for both of you.

Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead....Adele

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lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 4:42 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013

PPGA, I wish you and your son strength.

Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks

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ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 7:28 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013

((((ppga & DS))))

Keeping you both in my thoughts. Hang in there, I hope he will get the help that he needs.

((((ppga & DS))))

Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

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woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 7:39 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013

(((ppga)))Sending up a prayer for you and your son right now.

In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson

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ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 4:41 PM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013

(((((ppga)))))

So sorry. Please keep us posted.

Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:06 AM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013

(((ppga))) & (((son)))

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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dameia ( member #36072) posted at 5:17 AM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013

(((ppga & son)))

I am praying for you

Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.

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Tred ( member #34086) posted at 7:28 PM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013

(((ppga and son)))

Sending you strength.

Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 7:33 PM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013

Praying for you guys. Update when you can.

Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

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rainagain ( member #14917) posted at 8:57 PM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013

Praying for you both.

Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:11 done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love- Marino Me: Divorced

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 painpaingoaway (original poster member #27196) posted at 3:50 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

We waited 6 hrs in the ER for him to be seen by psych, then he was told that the wait for Institute of Psychiatry was 4 days. So that meant he would have to wait on the ER for 4 days. He then lied and told them he was not suicidal so he could leave. Once again, total system FAIL.


D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 3:58 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

OMG!!! NO!!!!

(((PPGA)))

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:00 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

ppga - I can't even begin to imagine what you must be going through. For what little good it does, please know that I am holding you and your son in my thoughts at all times. ((((((hugs))))))

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 4:18 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

You're in the lowcountry, right? Can you take him to Charlotte?

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Crushed1 ( member #6449) posted at 5:26 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

((((PPGA,son,family))))

~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

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 painpaingoaway (original poster member #27196) posted at 8:51 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

He is home with me now. I simply could not put him back on the street in his condition.

So, the cycle begins again.

I just saw this. It is heartbreaking, and so so similar to our experience with the mental health system. A must read for everyone. God rest his tormented soul.

Subject: 'MasterChef's' Josh Marks loses 'battle of his life,' commits suicide - CNN.com

http://www.cnn.com/2013/10/13/showbiz/masterchef-joshua-marks-suicide/index.html?hpt=hp_t3


D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 9:54 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

OMG ppga (((ppga))) - I don't have words, just hugs. I'm so sorry.

44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....

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sunandmoon ( member #10180) posted at 10:07 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

(((ppga)))

Continued prayers for you and your family. The cycle is brutal and the system broken.

with wished for a better tomorrow-

sunandmoon

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 12:15 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013

I saw that, ppga.

Seriously, can you get your son to NC, where he has a better chance of being admitted right away?? If he needs to stay in state, how about the upstate?

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Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 4:09 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013

((((((PPGA)))))))) ((((((((DS))))))))

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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