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willow60 ( member #17243) posted at 2:30 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
((((ppga and son))))
Thoughts and prayers for both of you.
Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead....Adele
lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 4:42 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
PPGA, I wish you and your son strength.
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 7:28 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
((((ppga & DS))))
Keeping you both in my thoughts. Hang in there, I hope he will get the help that he needs.
((((ppga & DS))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 7:39 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
(((ppga)))Sending up a prayer for you and your son right now.
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 4:41 PM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
(((((ppga)))))
So sorry. Please keep us posted.
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:06 AM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
dameia ( member #36072) posted at 5:17 AM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013
(((ppga & son)))
I am praying for you
Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12
Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 7:28 PM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013
(((ppga and son)))
Sending you strength.
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 7:33 PM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013
Praying for you guys. Update when you can.
Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???
rainagain ( member #14917) posted at 8:57 PM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013
Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:11 done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love- Marino Me: Divorced
painpaingoaway (original poster member #27196) posted at 3:50 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
We waited 6 hrs in the ER for him to be seen by psych, then he was told that the wait for Institute of Psychiatry was 4 days. So that meant he would have to wait on the ER for 4 days. He then lied and told them he was not suicidal so he could leave. Once again, total system FAIL.
D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 3:58 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:00 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
ppga - I can't even begin to imagine what you must be going through. For what little good it does, please know that I am holding you and your son in my thoughts at all times. ((((((hugs))))))
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 4:18 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
You're in the lowcountry, right? Can you take him to Charlotte?
Crushed1 ( member #6449) posted at 5:26 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH
painpaingoaway (original poster member #27196) posted at 8:51 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
He is home with me now. I simply could not put him back on the street in his condition.
So, the cycle begins again.
I just saw this. It is heartbreaking, and so so similar to our experience with the mental health system. A must read for everyone. God rest his tormented soul.
Subject: 'MasterChef's' Josh Marks loses 'battle of his life,' commits suicide - CNN.com
http://www.cnn.com/2013/10/13/showbiz/masterchef-joshua-marks-suicide/index.html?hpt=hp_t3
D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk
MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 9:54 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
OMG ppga
(((ppga))) - I don't have words, just hugs. I'm so sorry.
44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....
sunandmoon ( member #10180) posted at 10:07 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
(((ppga)))
Continued prayers for you and your family. The cycle is brutal and the system broken.
with wished for a better tomorrow-
sunandmoon
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 12:15 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
I saw that, ppga.
Seriously, can you get your son to NC, where he has a better chance of being admitted right away?? If he needs to stay in state, how about the upstate?
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 4:09 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
((((((PPGA)))))))) ((((((((DS))))))))
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
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