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deathbybetrayal ( member #22478) posted at 2:28 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
I'm so sorry LadyV. I too am parentless. Although nothing really fills that space, I have made it a point reach out to a couple of older people on holidays, etc. One woman, in particular, was very close with my mother and it makes her day when she hears from me.
May your pain soon be replaced with all the wonderful memories.
(((LadyV)))
Married 10 years at DDay
Me: 53 Him: 52 - Desperately trying to unfuck the donkey.
DDay: July 16, 2008
FWH Epiphany: Aug.23, 2008 NC: Aug. 28, 2008
willow60 ( member #17243) posted at 3:15 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
((((LadyV))))
I am so sorry for your loss.
Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead....Adele
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 3:26 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
Failure is success if we learn from it.
unfound ( member #12802) posted at 3:30 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
I'm so so sorry LadyV 
ka-mai
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AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 3:34 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 3:35 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
dameia ( member #36072) posted at 3:39 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
I'm so sorry for your loss.
(((LadyV)))
Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12
Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:44 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
Oh, honey. I am so very sorry. (((((LadyV))))) Holding you and your family in my thoughts.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 3:49 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
I'm so sorry Lady V. 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Jen ( member #26584) posted at 4:27 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
(((LV)))
Hugs and to you and yours. I'm so sorry I wish I knew what to say.
Me former Booger Bear ...
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movingforward777 ( member #6850) posted at 4:30 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
So sorry to hear of your Dad's passing....take care of yourself...eat, sleep, steer clear of excessive alcohol, and let yourself grieve...cry when you need to, talk about him, remember the good times and the bad....HUGS
You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 4:35 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
((LadyV)) I'm so sorry for your loss. There really isn't any advice. You'll always miss him and wish you'd had more time. Try to focus on positive memories. It really helps to be with other people that knew and loved him and reminisce about happy things together. Please remember to take care of yourself during this difficult time. ((LadyV))
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 4:45 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
((((((LadyV))))))
I am so sorry. If you need a IRL hug. I think we are nearby.
More hugs.
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 4:58 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
I am so, so sorry for your loss.
(((LadyV))))
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 5:08 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 5:32 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
(((LadyV)))
I talk to my mom every day, she has been "gone" since 2010. Still very much alive in my DNA.
Big hugs.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
lost_in_toronto ( member #25395) posted at 5:50 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
Oh, Lady V, I am so very sorry.
Me: BS/48
Him: WS/46
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 23 years.
Reconciled.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 6:04 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss.
(((Lady)))
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 6:18 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
(((LadyV)))
So sorry to hear about your loss.
ExposedNiblet ( member #30803) posted at 6:36 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss, LadyV.
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