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metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 6:40 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
I am sorry LadyV. Feel free to talk to us if you need to 
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 6:43 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Lyonesse ( member #32943) posted at 6:50 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
Adding my hugs and prayers, Lady V.
Do you have any siblings?
jjsr ( member #34353) posted at 7:16 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA and 10/28/15 NEW dday.
Just surviving.
Mama_of_3_Kids ( member #26651) posted at 7:32 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
So sorry for your loss, LadyV
(((LadyV)))
Me: BW/33 The kidlets: DS16, DS12, and DD10 The hounds: Three Shih Tzu's The felines: Two short haired kitteh's
sad12008 ( member #18179) posted at 7:40 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
(((ladyv)))
I'm sorry for your loss; I think when you have a child (or children) you mourn not only for the loss of your parent but also for the loss of your child's grandparent. It's a disorienting, sad time. My thoughts are with you.
You can't fill a cup with no bottom.
lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 7:55 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
I'm so very sorry for your loss, LadyV. Both my parents and my darling more-like-a-mother Nana, as well. The feeling of being an orphan hits one pretty hard. Be kind to yourself for however long it takes to feel like yourself again. (((LadyV)))
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 9:08 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
Oh no ((((Lady V))))
I'm so sorry for your loss, I am aching for you. 
Be easy on yourself now, I hope you have a lot of irl support for you in your grief.
My deepest condolences.
((((Lady V))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 9:55 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 10:02 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
One step at a time. One foot in front of the other, all those platitudes are all too true. For me, I found the pain was truly eased by time, and the painful memories were quickly(!) replaced by happy ones.
Allow yourself time to grieve. Do the crying you need to, without apologies. Take time for you and lean on whoever you can, IRL and here.
Hugs. SK
Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 10:47 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
..
..sorry LadyV... ((((hugs))))
smy
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 10:52 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
I'm so sorry for your loss LadyV !
I have lost both parents and I will always miss them as you will your Dad.
ETA: Hold on to the precious memories. I have started to write down many of them for my DD40. My Dad has been gone 19 yrs and Mom for 7 yrs. When writing, the tears flow, I laugh out loud, and just feel so lucky I had the parents I did.
Big Hugs
Gma
[This message edited by gma56 at 4:57 PM, July 27th (Saturday)]
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 1:25 AM on Sunday, July 28th, 2013
Lady V, hold on tight to Lord V and Baby V. I remember a lot of your story. Are your cousins an issue at ths point?
You were good to your father, do not doubt that.
Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
okaynow ( member #13813) posted at 2:54 AM on Sunday, July 28th, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. (((LadyV)))
Married 18 yrs, together 25+.
D-day: 2/18/07.
1 child
The story doesn't really matter anymore. Time is a great healer. Life is good.
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 1:50 PM on Sunday, July 28th, 2013
I'm so sorry to hear this.
Another parentless person here. There really is nothing like that kind of void.
My heart breaks for you.
(((((LadyV)))))
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 2:22 AM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
Oh, Lady V, I am so very sorry.
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:38 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
(((LadyV))))
May you find peace and strength during this time.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Crushed1 ( member #6449) posted at 3:03 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
((((LadyV)))) My deepest sympathies in your loss. Both of my parents have gone on and I know the lost feeling that goes with their passing. Sending you good thoughts.
~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH
itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 5:11 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
((((LadyV))))
I'm so sorry for your loss..
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 6:43 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
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