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IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 6:41 PM on Saturday, March 1st, 2014
She signed. Focus on the positive and let her worry about the attorney situation. 
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
BtraydWife ( member #42581) posted at 7:02 PM on Saturday, March 1st, 2014
Does she not know her attorney has filed a Request to Withdraw?
I find that hilarious.
Is this a contract to sell the house? Does that mean you've sold it? If so, that's fantastic!
Abbondad (original poster member #37898) posted at 8:16 PM on Saturday, March 1st, 2014
Is this a contract to sell the house? Does that mean you've sold it? If so, that's fantastic!
Yes! :-)
As of April first I will be saving 2230.00 a month. No more mortgage.
Divorced April Fool's Day 2014
Fear is the mind-killer.Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.I will face my fear.I will permit it to pass over me and through me.-Dune
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 10:14 PM on Saturday, March 1st, 2014
YAY!!!!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 10:19 PM on Saturday, March 1st, 2014
What's that I see? Is that light? At the end of the tunnel?
I hope others see how becoming strong and striking to what matters works out in the end.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 11:46 PM on Saturday, March 1st, 2014
(Sung to the tune in the Rocky Horror Picture Show)
There's a liiiight! Over at Abbonddad's place!
There's a liii i iiight! Burning in the Harlot's face!
There's a light, light in the darkness, that once was ABDs life!
Congratulations! Now let's hope that your lawyer can drag her sorry butt to court ASAP!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 11:51 PM on Saturday, March 1st, 2014
Best news I've heard all day! Fingers crossed all goes well with the inspection and closing.
[This message edited by FaithFool at 5:52 PM, March 1st (Saturday)]
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 12:59 PM on Sunday, March 2nd, 2014
YaY!!!!
She may not know her attorney is withdrawing.. he might just mail her the notice via snail mail. OR She could have borrowed money and re-retained him. Either way, It's not your problem.
UNTIL you have official notification from the court system, she still has an attorney.
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Abbondad (original poster member #37898) posted at 4:26 PM on Sunday, March 2nd, 2014
My realtor has been contacted by STBX's new attorney. I'll get the info from my attorney tomorrow, but the new attorney is in some sort of "discount law firm."
[This message edited by Abbondad at 10:34 AM, March 2nd (Sunday)]
Divorced April Fool's Day 2014
Fear is the mind-killer.Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.I will face my fear.I will permit it to pass over me and through me.-Dune
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 5:11 PM on Sunday, March 2nd, 2014
the new attorney is in some sort of "discount law firm."
AD: please excuse me, but .... 
You are doing such a great job, keep your eyes on the prize, you are almost there.
Meanwhile: STBXWW meet the karma bus!!
((((AD & kids))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 8:05 PM on Sunday, March 2nd, 2014
I didn't know there WAS such a thing as a "discount law firm".
k9
BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
BtraydWife ( member #42581) posted at 9:28 PM on Sunday, March 2nd, 2014
I'm sure a discount law firm will work out great for her, I mean for you, at the trial.
YAY! The house sold. I'm so excited for you to move and have a place that belongs to only you and your children. You so deserve your own haven.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 10:31 PM on Sunday, March 2nd, 2014
Isnt that an oxymoron? A discount law firm?
I see things starting to unravel for her.
I'm gonna go grab a beer and some popcorn and wait for the show.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Abbondad (original poster member #37898) posted at 4:28 PM on Monday, March 3rd, 2014
Meanwhile: STBXWW meet the karma bus!!
l
All aboard! STBX's last attorney has placed a lien on her assets.
= No home sale profits for you!
Divorced April Fool's Day 2014
Fear is the mind-killer.Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.I will face my fear.I will permit it to pass over me and through me.-Dune
ArkLaMiss ( member #14918) posted at 4:37 PM on Monday, March 3rd, 2014
Omg, what does YOUR attorney say?
Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:42 PM on Monday, March 3rd, 2014
AD - do you still get your portion of the sales proceeds?
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Jduff ( member #41988) posted at 4:47 PM on Monday, March 3rd, 2014
All aboard! STBX's last attorney has placed a lien on her assets.
= No home sale profits for you!
THIS. IS. HILARIOUS!
Oh, how I love it when comeuppance is delivered by their own hand.
Maybe she gets a little taste of what "betrayal" tastes like from here former attorney.
The grass is always greener.... where the dogs are shitting.
-Soundgarden
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 5:09 PM on Monday, March 3rd, 2014
AD, technically you're still married to her. you need to find out what your lawyer has to say about this. I am a little concerned about this because there is no MSA in place. how exposed are you?
that being said, I am really not that worried. however I do think you need to cover your ass.
strength
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
Abbondad (original poster member #37898) posted at 5:28 PM on Monday, March 3rd, 2014
My attorney has no concerns. I will get my profit from the home sale. If she won't sign the contract or tries to pull any nonsense we will use this as leverage against her to get the money she owes me and our children.
Around a year and a half ago, I sobbingly pleaded with her to stop her adultery. The memory is burned into my soul:
"Please stop hurting me. You will bring about calamity if you continue. Come back to your family. Please, you have everything. You will end up with nothing."
She stared at me with cold dead eyes.
Divorced April Fool's Day 2014
Fear is the mind-killer.Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.I will face my fear.I will permit it to pass over me and through me.-Dune
BtraydWife ( member #42581) posted at 6:02 PM on Monday, March 3rd, 2014
All aboard! STBX's last attorney has placed a lien on her assets.
= No home sale profits for you!
What? She wasn't able to dazzle him with bullshit?
Dad-you'd better get ready for a ramp up on the crazy. She will, no doubt, be looking to take this out on you. I bet she signed because she needed the money. Do you know if the lien takes all her proceeds?
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