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hexed ( member #19258) posted at 8:25 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

(((phoenix)))

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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yewtree ( member #16671) posted at 8:28 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

Phoenix, I'm thinking of you and praying for your whole family. I hope someday you can find solace and peace with all of this loss.

Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 - No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.

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confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 8:37 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

You've been in my thoughts, as well as my prayers, non-stop.

((((((((Phoenix1))))))))))))

BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10



..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


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still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 8:47 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

If you need some one IN PERSON please let me know. I can be down there in no time!

Great pics of your son on the news. Absolutely love that smile!

Prayers for you, and your family for today.

Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23

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Stay_Or_Go ( member #29532) posted at 9:02 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

What a tragic and heartbreaking loss. Praying for you and your family.

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Swims ( member #30992) posted at 9:22 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

(((((Phoenix)))), the depth of the pain that you are experiencing from your losses is unfathomable. I am so sorry, just shaking my head and so sorry for what you are going through

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She11ybeanz ( member #27457) posted at 9:32 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

Phoenix....when I read the article about them finding him.....my eyes welled up....I just couldn't believe it. I'm so very sorry. I don't know how I would handle this situation. But, I know it would be very difficult....

Sending you lots of strength, love, and support!

((BIGHUGZ))

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 10:45 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

Phoenix, words cant articulate the deep and enduring sadness and grief you have. I cant imagine. I just hope you can find the strength to keep focused on yourself if even for a moment. Your loved, your awesome, you have been handed such a heavy burden. My heart bleeds for you and your family...

BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

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Kuwaited ( member #5491) posted at 12:41 AM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014

No words. Just (((Phoenix)))

"For every trip to the vet, there's a car ride.", Satchel Pooch.

"At some point in life, everyone has gambled on a fart and lost." -- Tad.

"When the bad stuff happens, you walk it off any way you can"

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SweetheartVixen ( member #4956) posted at 12:42 AM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014

My heart hurts so badly for you. Ironically I just read a book about coping and dealing with a Dr, his wife and sons losing their 20YO son/brother the day your son went missing. Little did I know that your beloved son was missing til I got back home from the beach.

I didn't want to read this book, but then did and I am just so sad, stunned and hurt for them, for you and for all who knew and loved your handsome DS.

There are no words, NONE that express my deep feelings of sadness for you ....((((Phoenix))))). .

BS/60s WS/60s Divorcing and not soon enough~!
Its nice to be important, but its more important to be nice...

DD 6-14

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justdoit ( member #25898) posted at 12:58 AM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014

((Phoenix1))

I can't imagine your pain. I know all the words in the world won't take away your pain, but know that hundreds of us wish we could.

Me - 67
WH - 74
Married 44 years
DDay - 5/14/09
He's reconciled, I'm in limbo.
"Stuck in the middle with you"

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looking forward ( member #25238) posted at 1:07 AM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014

Phoenix,

I am so very, very sorry for this unimaginable series of losses.

As others have stated, there are no words.

You are in my prayers.

((((Phoenix and Family))))

Together more than 57 years, Married 52 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)

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AgainandAgain ( member #34835) posted at 1:44 AM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014

I have no words because there is nothing I can do or say for you.

We are here with you through this and will be.

(((((((((((((((((((((Phoenix and family))))))))))))))))))))))

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Brandon808 ( member #35619) posted at 3:30 AM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014

Prayers for you and your family

((((((Phoenix))))))

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birdy ( member #30937) posted at 3:48 AM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014

I am so very sorry. My heart aches for you.

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shatteredapart ( member #41978) posted at 2:51 PM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014

My heart is breaking for you {{Phoenix1}}. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Me-BS
Him-WS
EA(PA?) 10 months with COW
3 ddays-Sept '13, Oct '13, Dec '13
Attempting Reconciliation...time and actions will tell

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:59 PM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014

Sending you love and light, Phoenix. You are constantly in my thoughts and in my heart.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 3:05 PM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014

Thinking of you today. My husband too. He has called and asked about you every single day for the past three weeks.

Hugs and prayers.

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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wheredoigo ( member #42327) posted at 3:24 PM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014

((((Phoenix))))

My heart is breaking for you and your family. As someone else stated this is a loss of Job proportions. Remember that you are here for a reason, you will keep breathing. Eat and drink even when you feel like it tastes like nothing. Remember what he loved and would of wanted for you and let that lead you. Many prayers for strength and comfort are being sent your way. And remember- we are all here for you when you need it.

1st marriage BS to a xSAWH (36)
2nd marriage WW (36) to BS(Jt8d, 40)
I will face what hurts me and my actions that have hurt myself and others rather than hiding behind fearful justifications of why I should never heal or grow.

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Pinkyxo ( member #43095) posted at 9:08 PM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014

I'm so very sorry for your loss (((Phoenix)))

My heart is breaking for you. Please take care of yourself.

One foot in front of the other!Member since 2004ish?Formerly ZooMa.

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