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ladyhawk13 ( member #25828) posted at 10:08 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

I am so sorry. (((Phoenix and family)))

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Tawnee1969 ( member #12358) posted at 10:16 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

I am so Sorry ((____))

Even down in Australia your family has touched hearts.

My mothers heart breaks for you also. Please take care.

Is the f*cking you're getting, worth the f*cking you're getting?

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Heavy Heart ( member #1064) posted at 10:43 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

Words fail me to express to you the sympathy being felt for your loss. I will be thinking of you and praying for you. I'm so very sorry.

(((Phoenix and family)))

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Softcentre ( member #39166) posted at 11:17 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

(((Phoenix))) We're here for you.

Me: BW
Him: XWH
2 Children

Finally reached indifference & looking forward to my new beginning

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Bobbi_sue ( member #10347) posted at 11:57 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

(((((Phoenix1)))))

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TheRealDeal ( member #39560) posted at 12:29 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

(((((Phoenix and family)))))

Words cannot express the sorrow I feel to hear this. Please know we are all here for you

Me (BS): 47 him (Xws): 55
together 18 years
DDay1, DDay2, Dday 3: March - June 2013
Dday4 + June 2015 through January 2016
Status: done I called it quits 1-6-2016
The hardest part of letting go is realizing there wasn't much left to hold on to

posts: 481   ·   registered: Jun. 16th, 2013   ·   location: Northeast
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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 12:36 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

(((phoenix))))

My heart breaks for you. I am so sorry.

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Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 12:39 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

Oh God. No words, no emoticon. Just heart-felt prayers.

I am so very sorry, (((Phoenix)))

"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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million pieces ( member #27539) posted at 12:39 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

(((Phoenix1)))

Me - 52 D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later, Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

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simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 12:40 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

You have my continued support. I can't imagine what you're going through

(((Hugs)))

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

posts: 6121   ·   registered: Jul. 31st, 2009   ·   location: In the darkest depths of hell!
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phmh ( member #34146) posted at 12:46 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

(((Phoenix)))

Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny

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EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 1:10 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

So, so sorry!!!

posts: 6985   ·   registered: May. 31st, 2009   ·   location: Pennsylvania
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Lobo ( new member #42456) posted at 1:23 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

(((Phoenix)))

My mother's heart breaks for you.

Imagine a world where the words you speak appear on your skin. Would you be more careful of what you say?

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JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 1:26 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

Phoenix it is so unfair, I just can't even form a coherent though. I'm so terribly sorry for your losses.

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debbysbaby ( member #32962) posted at 1:34 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

I can't even find words for you. As a mother and a sister I want to somehow make this all untrue. My heart is breaking for you, Phoenix.

-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004

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TrustNoOne ( member #16591) posted at 1:47 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

I woke up thinking about you this morning. I included you in my prayers.

((((Phoenix))))

Praying that you find strength and courage; as well as comfort and support in the coming moments, hours, days, weeks.

posts: 1373   ·   registered: Oct. 12th, 2007   ·   location: San Diego
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determinata ( member #42124) posted at 1:59 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

(((Phoenix1)))

I am so, sorry. I cannot imagine. Please, please surround yourself with your loved ones right now and let yourself just be surrounded by love and support. There are so many here who want to do anything they can to help you; please just let us know how. There are no words but we are here.

hugs and prayer and healing

M 2007. DDay 2008
~10+ CL Prostitutes in 8 months
Divorcing SAWH "ActionsOverWords"
Me: Early 30s BW (also an adult OC) w Baby DS

6 years of TT, hidden STD & false R
Separated 5 mos+; he will not commit
Someday I will be okay

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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 2:03 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

(((phoenix)))

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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cayc ( member #21964) posted at 2:27 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

The news reports I've seen of your son talked about how he saw your brother as a second dad, and all those pictures of him being outdoors, smiling, enjoying his life. He must have been in such pain when he lost your brother and SIL.

What in the world could any of us here say that would bring you comfort? Just know we are all thinking about you.

(((phoenix1)))

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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 2:35 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

I am so very sorry.

(((Phoenix and family)))

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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