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AnnieOakley ( member #13332) posted at 9:29 PM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I'm so sorry...
Me= BSHim=xWH (did the work & became the man I always thought he was, but it was too late)M=23+,T=27+dday=7/06, 8/09 (pics at a work function), 11/09 VAR, 6/12 Sep'd, 10/14 Divorced."If you are going through hell, keep going."
brooke4 ( member #13581) posted at 10:13 PM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014
I'm so sorry, Phoenix. I know there are no words that will help right now, but just wanted to say I'm holding you and your family in my thoughts.
Me: BS, 40, Him: WS 41
Married: 15 years
3 children
D-Day: 10/2005
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 10:52 PM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014
Keeping you, and your family in my prayers.
The volunteers WILL find your BB and BSIL!! My friend got called yesterday for another 4 days, with her wonderful service dog.
Know they will NOT stop looking.
Sending strength to you, and prayers for DS.
Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 10:55 PM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014
you're in my thoughts continually.
((phoenix))
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Gottagetthrough ( member #27325) posted at 11:04 PM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with you, phoenix. I am so very sorry for your loss
Teach8 ( member #36521) posted at 11:17 PM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014
Phoenix,
The unfairness of all this extreme loss truly breaks my heart. I am so sorry. No words truly express how much empathy and sympathy I feel for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Me: BW. Him: WH. Dday: 4/26/12. TT until 8/15/12 LTA 7 years. Trying to R
Chefj9 ( member #38604) posted at 11:40 PM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014
There are no words.... Prayers for you.
ME - BS 50, Him - WS 46 trying to "R"
4 DD's - blended 26,16, 15 and 13
Multi DDays the grand finale 5/13/2013
From here on out, I am only interested in what is real. Real people, real feelings, that's it, that's all I'm intere
Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 12:05 AM on Friday, April 18th, 2014
I just saw this.
I'm so very sorry. Words are inadequate.
I am praying for you and your family.
Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again
Staying together for the kids
D-day 2010
gypsybird87 ( member #39193) posted at 12:27 AM on Friday, April 18th, 2014
(((((((phoenix1)))))))
I am so sorry.
Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem
Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords
incredulous ( member #16737) posted at 2:06 AM on Friday, April 18th, 2014
Phoenix1, I have thought about you and your family so often in the last few days, but haven't written because everything I write seems so inadequate. I am so sorry for your unfathomable loss. Please know that there are thousands of us here to support you.
(((((((Phoenix1)))))))
me: BW, now 55;
DD now 19 (adopted by me as single mom, so XWH was "Dad")
married: June, 2005, together since July, 2002
d-day: 10/21/07;
Divorced July, 2008 and he never looked back...
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 3:40 AM on Friday, April 18th, 2014
Sweetheart, I have a whole bunch of people here praying for you and your family. It's unfair, it's just so unfair, inhumanely unfair. (((hugs)))
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
sunsetslost ( member #39885) posted at 5:12 AM on Friday, April 18th, 2014
Whatever you need. We love you.
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 8:04 AM on Friday, April 18th, 2014
((((Phoenix))))
Sending you thoughts of peace and grace, and much love.
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
MammaMia ( member #34030) posted at 8:42 AM on Friday, April 18th, 2014
Phoenix:
There are no words I can say to heal your pain. The loss of a child is the ultimate pain. I pray for you two.
What happened? Do they know? Do they have any suspicions what happened? I may have missed the post.
And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive.But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.”
really trying ( member #5311) posted at 4:58 PM on Friday, April 18th, 2014
(((Phoenix)))
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 8:58 PM on Friday, April 18th, 2014
The words, "I'm sorry," seem so inadequate.
Hugs, strength, and prayers for you and your family during this tragic time.
(((Phoenix1 & Family)))
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 9:13 PM on Friday, April 18th, 2014
Sending you prayers, and hugs, for today.
Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 11:16 PM on Friday, April 18th, 2014
((phoenix)) Just saw this. Please know that you & your family are in my thoughts & prayers. I am so so sorry .
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 11:24 PM on Friday, April 18th, 2014
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
SpecialK ( member #42372) posted at 2:46 AM on Saturday, April 19th, 2014
Phoenix words truly can't describe how sad I am for your losses. All I can share is that if you put your faith in God, he will get you through this.
I am so sorry
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