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I've been wanting to start this topic for days but always held back.

I think this is one of those question that everyone wants to know the answer to but too afraid to ask.

Okay, I'm asking it.

My ex and his OM started touching each other and exchanging quick BJ's in the men's locker room at where they both worked.

They then progressed to having sex at the OM's place. The OM lives by himself.

My ex was a closeted bisexual.

Anyone else want to air out their dirty laundry?

You know you want to.

In our family van.

He moved our children's car seats out of the way, to make room for OM's fat ass.

The first time they met it was BJ's in a park.

The second time was a 7 hour fuckfest in a hotel room that he drove 10 hours one way to get to.

So yeah, way to stay classy.

They worked for IHG so they had access to hotel rooms. They also had sex at her house, in both of their cars, in conference rooms at the office (with doors that didn't lock ), and he denies that they were ever in our house but I don't believe him because I know that there were opportunities.

To be honest, after starting this thread, I was SO afraid the first response to this thread would be:

Lara (my old username) , you got a PM. SI STAFF.

[This message edited by Dorothy123 at 9:14 AM, July 26th (Thursday)]

Hand job in her car, in a parking lot . That I have to drive past on a regular basis. Blow job in her apartment, he went over because she was "upset" she was going on vacation and wouldn't see him for 2 weeks.

When she returned, lunch time fuck fests at her place. Then home to have dinner with the family .

Nice.

Two of *my* cars. Not his.

Two of our homes, including at least 3 rooms in 1 of the homes.

Her homes (at least 5 different addresses), and her place of employment. (her = multiple women)

Hotels - at least 7

Ugh.

edit - miscounted locations!

[This message edited by TwoStepsForward at 7:22 PM, June 8th (Wednesday)]

She set up the office for her sole practitioner small corporation in a house owned by two of her sisters. Her sisters have both moved out years ago but kept the property as an investment and for family to stay when they are in town. In return, COW took care of the townhouse and mowed the lawn.

They had the perfect place to meet up, have sex on the living room couch, or in the upstairs shower (I guess sometimes one of the bedrooms too), go out for a "business lunch" and go back to work. I read many emails where they talked about "working together".

In his friend's car.. on their lunch break, he took her for a short ride down the street to an almost empty LA fitness parking lot (we all worked for the same company, but they were in the office, I worked from home) At least he had a little decency to not use our car.. Or maybe he just didn't use it because the windows weren't tinted and his friend's car was..hmmm... From what I gather she rode him reverse for less than a minute and she gave him a quick BJ. It was so quick as it was described to me, neither one came Or is that too inappropriate for SI? lol

Or is that too inappropriate for SI?

Uh oh, you may have a PM coming from SI staff also.

Exchanged oral sex in a meeting room at work. With doors that don't lock.

Didn't go 'all the way', which they often talked about wishing they had in their emails.

Her place. With three cats watching. He has cat triggers these days.

Hotel in downtown San Diego.

A hotel that my WH visited often on business and was looking forward to the day when I could join him there because of the great location and spectacular view.

Too bad OW got there first, unfortunately her only view was the ceiling.

At some swingers club called the Red Rooster in Las Vegas. They were both in town for a work conference and went to a swingers club as "man and wife" (and for those of you who are wondering, no, we weren't swingers). Someone else who was there, I'm guessing that she also worked with and knew me, sent me an anonymous video of them. It was hard to tell if it was her, she denied it was, and I believed her. Later I was sent a clearer video that was absolutely her. When confronted, she tried to tell me she did it for me, that she thought I'd like that extra "kink" since I'd always (supposedly) thought she was too uptight. Basically, she did it for me. Ain't I lucky.

Her place. With three cats watching. He has cat triggers these days.

That's a lot of ahem in one place

Hotels, beach, all over her house, her parents empty up for sale house, her parents occupied house, her friends living room where she was babysitting, BJ in his car, and a limo

Her place. With three cats watching. He has cat triggers these days

That's a lot of ahem in one place

Hilarious!!

At our place of business. We own an RV repair business. OW didn't drive so he would pick her up from work, bring her back to the shop, and have sex in a customer's RV in the shop. Nine times in six different RVs over 3 months. Then he'd take her home. Classy, right? Our RV was at the shop for part of their A but he swears that they never had sex in it. She was in it only once, along with her uncle, before the A when they brought him money for her mother's car repair. Once I found out that she had been in our RV, I refused to step foot in it. We traded it in and bought a new one.

The OW gave him two bjs in his Honda. Once in a restaurant parking lot and again in the same Park and Ride lot that he and I had our first make out session in 8 years prior. Thank the gods she's tall and 300+ lbs or he probably would have screwed her.

Well, my WH was so classy that he brought two of his numerous OW to our home and banged them on my bed. I had a great marshmallow roast/mattress bonfire off of that.

Keeping with that same level of classiness, WH would bang the OW at their homes when they were in the mood to stretch out.

But ever so classy still, WH was too cheap to splurge on a hotel room so his most frequent sex spot was in the ever convenient and handy vehicle that he was driving. In using his vehicle, he would bring them to posh locations such as the parking lot at his workplace, gas station parking lots where they would park in a remote area (near the trash dumpsters), on back roads behind bushes, or in city parks.

I still have to laugh though when I remember having WH take me on the A tour to show me the places where he had sex with them. In all of the various parking lots that he used, each spot where he routinely parked was always right next to the trash dumpster. It was so appropriate, but it was hilarious that he didn't even realize it until I pointed it out. Like I said, so classy.