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First time was in OW marital bed while her H was out of town. The rest was in his office and 2 x's at a hotel while he was out of town.

AP's H divorced her in the middle of the A so they had her love shack for nooner's and well to just play house in!

As much as she wanted to get into our home he refused and not out of any loyalty to me but more because our adult kids lived close and had keys as do at least 3 neighbors and some family members who live a few blocks away...besides her place was safe from intruders...

Thanks everyone for being GOOD SPORTS with this thread.

With this thread, everyone here got an EYEFUL .

Ahem.

Lyonesse , yep yep.

Way way too much TMI for one thread.

Hotel rooms in NM, UT, and HI--places they both flew on business trips. Luckily, nothing in my home or in the town where we live.

Oh, let's see. First, a park, then over the next 5 years bj's behind the mall down the street, behind a local school and in the car as it was going somewhere. OM's house most often but also the garage of the shithead's ex-wife's house, our basement, kitchen, bathroom, living room & bedroom. Did I mention the om is my brother and that I bailed him out of jail a year before the affair began and helped his worthless ass financially through most of the time of the affair?

End of venting.

This thread has, sadly ,made me chuckle. It's like we all are/were married to a bunch of low grade 70s porno sleazbags.

Cue cheesy 70's soundtrack!

I still cant believe that I got away with creating a thread like this.

I was so so afraid of being slammed as a pervert.

So true, we are all married to a bunch of cheap sluts male female. Risking so much to get laid!

I am sure the majority of us all have kids and can u imagine the embarrassment to them if our sleazy WS activities had wound up on video and were posted on social media?

This IS GREAT. Finally I get a chance to LAUGH !!!

OM1. In his bedroom when she felt sorry for him after hearing that his fiance could not have children.

OM2. Every lunch time came to fetch her in his utility for a drive - only hand jobs, no space in a utility to do anything else...... But got her pregnant in his bed at home.

and still she did not learn...

OM3. He took her to a secluded area in the car. When they started to get ready (?) two cops came past and warned them to leave as it was a high risk area. (classy !!)

OM3. At work : Hand jobs up against the board room table while the board room door was open & people outside. At my home in my bed with wedding photos looking down at them from above the bed.

OM4. Cheap Hotel room - how very classy! But must have been an absolutely awesome occasion, because she can't remember what they did! (Really? How bad can it be after telling me exactly in detail about the time she fell/got pregnant)

I forgot to mention she put the BEST pale blue satin sheets on the bed SPECIALLY. Where the sticky mess dried it was a tell-tale giveaway...

It seems the vast majority of affair sex, consists of blow jobs. Perhaps this is due to limited venues and time, but it also seems to me that is a form of control - on both sides.

Interesting. My WS swears that she NEVER did that with ANY of them! "Only ever with you". So where do you think she found out about that? In 1980 it was illegal in our country to even possess a Playboy magazine.

This IS GREAT. Finally I get a chance to LAUGH !!!

Glad I was able provide you with some much needed comic relief.

[This message edited by lara123 at 6:20 AM, June 13th (Monday)]

Various bouts of 'heavy petting' in OW car (apparently-definitely not mine but who the f knows) and then full sex once WH had admitted affair and that he was leaving me for the lovely lady. It was at her house during the day. She took day off work. Nice. Obvs it wasn't enough to keep him though. That was the last she saw of him. She must feel like a proper used slag.

So true, we are all married to a bunch of cheap sluts male female. Risking so much to get laid!

LOL - yes it is sad but true!

WH used our spare bedroom. OW was a "friend" and she would come to my house for dinners, visits,etc. on the weekends and during the week, while I was away for work, she would come to my house to get screwed. Classy lady.

I, obviously, had a blast with this thread.

Had I known this thread was going to turn out like this, I wouldn't have agonized so so much about starting it.

Had I known this thread was going to turn out like this, I wouldn't have agonized so so much about starting it.

I don't want to burst your bubble, lara, but do you really think that since SI has started we haven't had a thread or two (maybe a hundred) about this very topic?

Why were you agonizing over starting it? I am truly puzzled.

I didn't know this thread had been done many times before.

I searched the archives and found nothing.

Why were you agonizing over starting it? I am truly puzzled.

Because I'm new here and I didn't want to be slammed as a pervert.

[This message edited by lara123 at 2:11 PM, June 13th (Monday)]

Don't know, don't care. I never asked as I knew Xhole would never answer. He is very much a "don't kiss and tell" kind of guy, even if it is his whores. Such integrity! *sarcasm*

I DO know it never happened in my home because there was no opportunity (teenage kids and their friends constantly around), and I take comfort in that. Anywhere else, meh, I don't give it a second thought.

Mostly in his car. He would pick her up at lunch or after work (I can see the exact spot from my office window), and then they would park at one of three locations (I can also see one of those from another window in my office).

One time at his house, they met close by and he picked her up and drove the rest of the way there.

One time at our house. At our brand new house. Within weeks of us moving in and within days of our new furniture being delivered. I catfished him, so I got it from him firsthand and will tell you as he (unknowingly) told me: "The house they live in now is one place I fucked her when they had just moved in. I fucked her in her bedroom, on the dining room table, on the stairs, on their leather couches and recliners, etc."

Classy operation.