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Hopeandhealing you are right in that no babies were conceived on my watch so that is a win. I guess the whole goal was to cock block them and I did that lol.

They had sex in her vagina and her mouth.

That’s nauseating enough.

3yrsout nailed it. Add anus for some cheaters and all the bases are covered.

Geographic location is in my opinion not very important except the marital bed worsens the infidelity for some people.

I think it is safe to opinion that adulterers will copulate anywhere.

I can't believe I've never responded to this thread.

My wife's 1st AP was a cop.

They had a spot on the road where she would pull off and he would pull in behind her. I'm guessing that they did it in the back of our Chevy Traverse or his police car.

I know of our bed.

His apartment.

Motels that she paid for with my money.

The park.

The local community college.

Probably our pool at our apartments.

I'm sure there's more I'm forgetting.

And btw Dorothy... what's wrong with being a pervert?

And btw Dorothy... what's wrong with being a pervert?

Truthfully, a lot .

But, I'm not a pervert though.

I'm a lady.

I'm just gutter minded .

She sucked him off for awhile then rode him in the front seat of his truck in a secluded parking spot by the water. How romantic!

I drove the truck several times not knowing what I was sitting in 🤮

Lost my shit and told him to get the truck off our property ( although I wish it was still here cause I should of taken a baseball bat to it !!)

Truck is in his mommy’s driveway still waiting to be sold.

AFAIK - with Best friend's husband - there were others

Our sitting room floor (multiple times)

Our bed (multiple times)

His kitchen floor (once)

His spare bed (once)

His marital bed (once)

Manual sex ("I don't remember any oral") in a field when met by chance walking dogs (once). (He told her that walking their dog was a good way for him to meet new sex partners).

"Humiliation" as in "I've never been so humiliated in all my life" - whatever that meant - in a local public bar with others present.

Subsequently (and previously) in OMM's houses and at work (schools)

Probably anywhere she could be alone for ten minutes with another woman's willing husband.

His affair was with his friend and work colleague’s wife who was also a work colleague. So pathetic.

My couch (in our living room)

Our bed

The OWs marital bed at her house

His car

Who knows where else, and as for the physical where’s, I didn’t ask because I really don’t give a s$&;$($($

[This message edited by ThisIsSoLonely at 6:45 PM, August 1st (Wednesday)]

With her LTA girlfriend, in our bed, on our couch, on the floor, at her apartment and in Florida in a hotel. The girlfriend was getting more than me.

In the back of a delicatessen with her male boss who owned the deli, she gets mad when I tell her she is the only women I know of who actually played hide the salami in the back of a delicatessen.

In her car, in a gravel pit, just a few miles down the road from our house.

Rideitout,

You mean to tell me that men (not all) doing busines in Asia are taken out by customers to whorehouses? I didn't believe it when he told me.

So how does that work? Mr. Smith we are inviting your out of a handjob tonight, want to "cum"?

Sure, Mr. Lee, I'd love to go into a room next to you to get a massage and hand/blowjob! Then we could talk about it over drinks! Won't that be fun! My wife won't mind, I'm not having full on sex and in any case, shes too busy changing the twins' diapers with the help of her two year old to notice the guilt on my face when I get home from my very long and tiring business trip.

I'm aware of it happening. It would be inaccurate to call it the norm.

You mean to tell me that men (not all) doing busines in Asia are taken out by customers to whorehouses? I didn't believe it when he told me.

So how does that work? Mr. Smith we are inviting your out of a handjob tonight, want to "cum"?

Sure, Mr. Lee, I'd love to go into a room next to you to get a massage and hand/blowjob! Then we could talk about it over drinks! Won't that be fun! My wife won't mind, I'm not having full on sex and in any case, shes too busy changing the twins' diapers with the help of her two year old to notice the guilt on my face when I get home from my very long and tiring business trip.

LOL, I love the role play because it sounds so ridiculous to me. I honestly don't know, I've never been "invited" to those kinds of things, but that's primarily because I eschew any social invites when I'm working.

From the bits/pieces I've heard, it's generally dinner, some drinks, and then a "massage". Kind of how here it would be somewhat common to go out with a client for dinner/drinks/strip club. It's just that the strip clubs there give handjobs.

To Lazurus's point, I'm also not sure I'd call it the "norm". I think if you go out for dinners in those areas a few times with guys of the "right age" for that kind of thing, yes, you'll probably get invited. Is it 1 dinner or 5? I don't know, again, I don't "do dinner" at all, so I've never gotten a "real" invite. I've had associates tell me "we had an amazing night at some massage parlor that I can't pronounce last night", but that's as far as my knowledge of it goes.

Hands down my WH probably had the most creative place....

In a piece of equipment, not sure which one, could have been a bulldozer, excavator or a crane! With no access to a regular shower for three weeks!

But WH STILL denies the had PIV intercourse!!!

Skankopotamus said in the back seat of our car, parked in a softball field

class act