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Update: My daughter's surgery

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amurb ( new member #58143) posted at 5:53 PM on Friday, October 20th, 2017

I am so sorry this is going on. Just breathe and trust the doctors know what they are doing and will take care of your baby. God be with you.

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1Faith ( member #38975) posted at 7:20 PM on Friday, October 20th, 2017

Praying for your darling daughter and you !!!

((hugs))

Sometimes my life feels like a test I didn't study for

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Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 7:40 PM on Friday, October 20th, 2017

Holding you all in the LIGHT...

Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 8:04 PM on Friday, October 20th, 2017

I've been keeping you and your DD in my thoughts all day today. (((hugs)))

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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swizzlestick03 ( member #30102) posted at 8:04 PM on Friday, October 20th, 2017

Came here specifically to send my love and prayers to you and your family. You've been on my mind since the initial diagnosis, and we continue to keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.

I hope today brings a bit of relief and a game plan to go forward, as well as a bit of normalcy. You are so brave and I'm so very proud of you. <3

Me: BW-36
Him: WS-35
D-Day #1: 16 August 2010
D-Day #2: 16 January 2011
One smallish kiddo.

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amanda123 ( member #43207) posted at 8:18 PM on Friday, October 20th, 2017

Im praying for you and your little one, praying for a good outcome xo.

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homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 8:37 PM on Friday, October 20th, 2017

You and your daughter are in my prayers.

Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55

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better4me ( member #30341) posted at 8:40 PM on Friday, October 20th, 2017

I've been holding you and your dear daughter in my thoughts all day. Hoping and hoping that all is going well.

"You are braver than you believe and stronger than you seem." A.A. Milne, Winnie the Poof

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!

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childofcheater ( member #33887) posted at 9:04 PM on Friday, October 20th, 2017

You've got this nightowl even if it doesn't feel like it. You have thousands of people here lifting you up in prayer and positive energy. ❤️❤️❤️(((Nightowl))) 🙏🙏

Me: 42 yo, him 41Married 19 years together 233 kids: DD15, DD12, DS9DDay 2/9/12 found suspicious text to coworkerStatus: in R, work in progress

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cass ( member #24261) posted at 9:26 PM on Friday, October 20th, 2017

Praying for you and your daughter.

(((nightowl and family)))

DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.

Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!

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latebloomer45 ( member #18021) posted at 10:09 PM on Friday, October 20th, 2017

My prayer for you:

You are good, loving, and faithful. It’s absolutely impossible for you to do evil or to do wrong. Help night owl to believe this in the depths of her soul during this time.

1 John 1:5 God is light; in him there is no darkness at all.

Psalm 86:15 But you, Lord, are a compassionate and gracious God,

slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness.

16 Turn to me and have mercy on me;

show your strength in behalf of your servant

Psalm 100:5 For the LORD is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations.

May you be strengthened by His love and ours. When you get a card from Germany it will be from me!

[This message edited by latebloomer45 at 4:10 PM, October 20th (Friday)]

Me: BS 56
Him: FWS 58
Married 32 years
Son-26 Daughter (Who Came out as trans, so now Son)-23,
D-Day #1 12/11/2007
D-Day #2 5/23/2008 fucking trickle truth!
Whatever Threnody said, I concur.

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earthangel ( member #44357) posted at 10:10 PM on Friday, October 20th, 2017

I hope Nightowl won’t mind me sharing that The gofundme page has been updated to say that surgery is complete, the tumour has been removed and Nightowl’s daughter is resting ... I hope Nightowl is now able to get some rest, too !!

Hugs to you both, Nightowl.

Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it’s bad - it's experience.

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StillStanding1 ( member #40144) posted at 10:15 PM on Friday, October 20th, 2017

Thank you, earthangel!!! I've been checking here all day hoping for an update. That is excellent news!

Sending a huge hug to you, nightowl. I know this isn't over yet, but one huge hurdle passed. Thank God. More prayers coming for your continued strength.

[This message edited by StillStanding1 at 5:22 PM, October 20th (Friday)]

Me: BS50s Him: WH50s
M 25 years - DD DS DS
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday - 2/13, S for 1 year, now R

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1Faith ( member #38975) posted at 10:32 PM on Friday, October 20th, 2017

Thanks for updating us. This is great news.

Can you PM me the info on the GoFundMe page please?

Prayers for healing and a successful recovery.

Sometimes my life feels like a test I didn't study for

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 11:05 PM on Friday, October 20th, 2017

Thinking of you both... holding you in the light.

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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StillStanding1 ( member #40144) posted at 11:25 PM on Friday, October 20th, 2017

@1Faith. PM sent.

Me: BS50s Him: WH50s
M 25 years - DD DS DS
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday - 2/13, S for 1 year, now R

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gonnabegr8 ( member #46415) posted at 12:46 AM on Saturday, October 21st, 2017

Can someone pls PM me the GFM page? TIA!


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cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 12:50 AM on Saturday, October 21st, 2017

gonnabegr8, pm on it's way

"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie

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Shockedmom ( member #44708) posted at 1:03 AM on Saturday, October 21st, 2017

Please PM me regarding the GFM page.

Thank you!

Appreciate the update.

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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:11 AM on Saturday, October 21st, 2017

will do!

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

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